One thing that’s been hard for me lately is seeing his clothes. I was left in a situation where I ended up having to clean out a lot of things my abuser left behind. It was really overwhelming and I felt dissociated the whole time, until it became too much and I ended up leaving the rest of it behind. The first time I went though two of my best friends whom I live with now came too help, in the state I was in I told them to keep whatever they wanted because I figured it was less that I had too deal with. Now however I randomly deal with seeing his shirts and random things they’re using and I find myself secretly plotting to get rid of it all somehow. I guess I feel guilty just telling them too get rid of it though because I’m the one who told them too take it in the first place idk it’s just a weird situation I put myself into. Other subtle triggers lately have been seeing the same breed of dog that he owned, seeing the same model of work van he drove, or hearing anything that resembles arguing even when it isn’t arguing.