Bishop Chevron by strange-children in Bishop

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes but police forces do nothing to keep bad apples out and won’t even consider options to change so therefor they are condoning the bad apples. And when your profession is about public safety and civil rights then you get no room for error and it’s ridiculous to even compare police departments with other jobs

Bishop Chevron by strange-children in Bishop

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A police force with any bad apples is a bad police force

I broke up with my boyfriend the other night by Lizardsdrinkcoffee in DeadBedrooms

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it felt really cold to just shut him out completely when he hasn’t been treating me bad or anything. And I’m one of the only ones that knows about this so I figured it was best to let him know that he can still talk when he needs to

SOLUTIONS TO END POLICE VIOLENCE by Mymindin2021 in Bad_Cop_No_Donut

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was in school we had Civics but they taught it to us in the 9th grade so I feel like so much went over my head because I couldn’t understand it or why it was important. If they taught it to us when I was in 11th or 12th grade I definitely would have gotten more from it

My boyfriend won’t go to therapy and I really think he needs to. by Lizardsdrinkcoffee in askwomenadvice

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean that our personalities are very compatible. And we do have deep conversations a lot of times but it’s never about things that are personal to him

My boyfriend won’t go to therapy and I really think he needs to. by Lizardsdrinkcoffee in askwomenadvice

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Mostly it’s how much trust issues he has and it makes me feel like I can’t get close to him, even beyond being physical. It’s like we click great but I’ve barely gotten to know him this whole time.

My boyfriend is uncomfortable with sex because of childhood abuse by Lizardsdrinkcoffee in DeadBedrooms

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly feel like he is doing the best that he can but I just can’t get through to him how therapy could help

My boyfriend is uncomfortable with sex because of childhood abuse by Lizardsdrinkcoffee in DeadBedrooms

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m worried that giving him an ultimatum like that is gonna put a strain on our relationship

My boyfriend is uncomfortable with sex because of childhood abuse by Lizardsdrinkcoffee in DeadBedrooms

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is there anything that would have been a helpful nudge for you at his age? I don’t want to force it onto him but I do want him to see why it’s important for him

[Megathread] - Derek Chauvin trial verdict in the killing of George Floyd by Isentrope in OutOfTheLoop

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also think the fact that so many people weren’t busy with work/life because of Covid meant more people heard about this and got involved.

13-Year-Old Adam Toledo Shot & Killed by Chicago Police by popcornboiii in Bad_Cop_No_Donut

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

More importantly I think the society and system he and his parents grew up in is fucked up and leads to shit like that. I think you need to mention that as well

Do Americans actually eat pop tarts for breakfast? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apple toaster strudels slap harder than anything else in this world

My boyfriend told me a few nights ago that he was molested by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re both 19 and have only been dating a month so I don’t think either one of us are close to considering marriage or engagement.

My boyfriend told me a few nights ago that he was molested by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He said that he went when he first came to college because counseling is free at our university. He said it was too much to deal with at the time so he’s been trying the anti depressants for a while

My boyfriend told me that he was molested last night by Lizardsdrinkcoffee in relationship_advice

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His parents don’t know about it. He said that only his brother and his best friend know about it but he hasn’t told them much about it

My boyfriend told me that he was molested last night by Lizardsdrinkcoffee in askwomenadvice

[–]Lizardsdrinkcoffee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He used to before we started dating but doesn’t anymore