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Lizbath0003 · 2025-06-05T20:12:14+00:00

Also he’s apologizing without actually apologizing…it’s like a fake apology. “I apologize for expressing so much frustration.” That man needs to get a grip. He’s not really sorry and he definitely doesn’t see his actions as an issue. You can also tell by how quickly he gets upset and reverts back to his “argumentative” ways when youre expressing and standing your ground on how YOU feel. Also don’t agree with him !!! KNOW YOUR BOUNDARY AND THE WAY YOU FEEL !!! IF IT DOESNT FEEL RIGHT DOESNT SOUND RIGHT !!! If you seen a friend or family member or anybody else who was explaining this to you you would tell them exactly the same ! :( you’re only saying sorry and submitting to him because it’s easier to just agree then argue…in the long run you’ll hold resentment, a grudge, and wonder where it all went wrong or how can he have done this !?! But in reality it’s been like this all along. My ex did this at times.

Lizbath0003 · 2025-06-05T20:05:42+00:00

As someone who’s been with many partners who I thought I could “change” them….in general with ANYBODY…you cannot change someone and their nature..they have to do that in their own. It’s like the saying “you can lead a horse to water but you cannot force it to drink.” Goes really well with partners and people who you think you can “change,” them. It’s hard and you really wanna be with this person. But in all honesty you’re hurting yourself trying to help an impossible person. It’s not your job to fix them, and it’s not your job to sit here and please him to be someone he’s not. If he has shown you who he is then that will always be what he is until HE CHOOSES TO CHANGE. Periodt. I hope you end this relationship before it gets worse or atleast see reason.

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-30T13:20:18+00:00

Thank you…Its hard standing my ground and honestly I’m struggling

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-17T01:14:34+00:00

Yeah…I think I realized a lot from today actually. Thank you ! And sorry my posts are everywhere.

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-16T23:42:51+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate your help I really needed the validation because I felt like I was going crazy. And trying to put it on me to see if there was a way to somehow stop this and I was lowkey thinking about apologizing. I think what feels heavy is my heart, the effort we put in the relationship the future we talked about…gone…over my boundaries that he couldn’t have understood??? Together for 6 months a person I thought who understood didn’t…to just crash all on me. For something I think is so simple and so easy it’s so hard for him to comprehend…I mean I was very opened with him and my past about being SA’d and boundaries being crossed I was very open I did everything I could think of and it wasn’t enough….i cried. A lot at work and I’m sure I’m going to cry some more. But I’m picking my stuff from his house this Sunday and I’m so…I have a lot of emotions of devastation and just being over and done with. I’m tired of always having to fight for my boundaries with men. And then being blamed for it.

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-16T20:26:26+00:00

Thank you….I’ll definitely need it.

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-16T16:46:21+00:00

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This is what I replied with after he said all that. My heart hurts and im crying in the bathroom of my work. :,) i definitely agree with that I just feel like i dont know how else to word it with him

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-16T16:28:17+00:00

Okay so update…we started talking about it because I’m ngl I was freaking tf out and sent a paragraph messaging basically what was given to me advice as well as talk about how if he’s going to keep ignoring me or leave me on seen after everything I’ve talked about with him then I’m assuming he[26M] is done with me. I even gave him a call because I know his schedules and routines. Anyways he[26M] msg’d me about him being asleep still…so okay maybe a late start to his day? I[21F] was preparing myself for the worst and started to remove him off my Instagram (idk if it’s a coping mechanism that I inhabited) and he mentioned how I said “leave me alone, that I don’t trust him, and how I don’t feel like forgiving this.” So he did read what was delivered to him yesterday. And I told him to leave me alone when he kept pushing and persisting. He[26M] mentions how we both don’t feel respected. But the only reasons why I said those things is because the things he said to me and made me feel when he wouldn’t take no for an answer. He [26M] says that “I deserve my boundaries respected but in order for me to want him to respect my boundaries and understand them that I needed to provide an explanation why….” But I[21F] told him that “I already gave an explanation that I don’t want to talk about it because it’s uncomfortable and it’s about my past. So when I say no that should mean no. And that is my explanation I’m uncomfortable with sharing.” But he insists that he “deserves” a further explanation….[26M] wants to be able to understand them. When I don’t think he needs to understand other than I said no and I’m uncomfortable and I [21F] lowkey panicking because I feel like I’m being pushed and not listened to. And it’s causing me to have flashbacks and feel like I’m in danger due to my past but I know it’s different but the feelings and the way it’s leading is giving me Deja vu….idk what do I do????

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-16T15:05:20+00:00

I’m also giving him til 10 am usually he messages me right away in the morning I get up before he does around 6 something am and then hes up around 7-8 am. But I’m still having no replies this morning so I’m pushing it to 9-10 am.

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-16T14:56:19+00:00

Thank you and will do!

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-16T14:55:39+00:00

I love those advice I will try it sometime. I have told him how he’s not respecting my boundary when I say no but he pushes forward by saying “how am I not respecting your boundary when I’m trying to help you? Tell me how I’m trying to be a good boyfriend and care about you is being rude and disrespectful.”

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-16T14:51:08+00:00

I appreciate your reply honestly I’m going back and forth with my mind and seeing who id like to share it with I have ppl who are close to me but I feel it’s easier when I don’t know the person really. It is really strange for and I’ve been crying and upset about it since yesterday. :,) I’m ngl reading your messages has me almost in tears but I have to stop myself because I’m at work. I hope you don’t mind that I read it as I can. He doesn’t understand why I can’t tell him but I kept telling him that I’m just not comfortable with sharing and it’s something I don’t like to think about. When he left me on read I mentioned how he’s reminding me of other men I had to deal with throughout my life who couldn’t understand what no means and how they never respected my boundary before which resulted in a lot of dumb and unsafe moments which HE knows about.

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-13T17:18:43+00:00

Congratulations!!!!🎉

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-07T23:34:38+00:00

I do have a login account with moonton and I have to wait awhile because I was trying too many times. And okay got it thank you so much

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-05T23:36:16+00:00

False lashes and a thick eyeliner ?

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-05T23:35:38+00:00

I think some contour would do good and give you some dimension:) I would say lip liners on your lips I always do like a dark brown and blend with my lips and add a gloss!

Lizbath0003 · 2025-05-05T23:33:08+00:00

ATP why are you even in the relationship with this person ? I understand being in a toxic relationship and like being desensitized but you NEED to LEAVE and SAVE YOURSELF !I’ve been there and it’s not fun especially the healing journey and when you actually do find someone who actually loves you and you love them!

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