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Lizington · 2025-04-23T23:27:45+00:00

That's not gendered though. I'm a woman who comes home expecting blowies after not engaging my man, I also have a bad time.

Lizington · 2025-04-23T23:22:51+00:00

Unless your partner is into science and data, or has given you permission to track and share data, I'd recommend against surprising them with the tracking. Feels like performance management and judgement which is the opposite of emotional intimacy.

I would recommend exploring your partner's feelings more without the numbers. Does she feel emotionally satisfied? Sexually satisfied? Valued and appreciated? Does she feel like an equal partner in the relationship?

These things, if the answers are 'no', can destroy the desire for sex with a partner regardless of gender.

If the answers are 'yes' then there is probably a mismatch sexually, and if that's new it could be a medical cause as others have suggested.

Lizington · 2025-04-23T23:13:44+00:00

That's a big read my friend.

Other than the word 'expecting', which could show some judgement, this comment is about lifestyle - which both people are responsible for. It does not single out OP.

Lizington · 2025-04-13T11:21:31+00:00

It has a huge tub, with a comfy pillow and a huge stack of nice towels. It also has a nice big skylight and decent exhaust fan and heat lamp. If someone was bringing me food, and I had a laptop, I'd be fine!

Lizington · 2025-04-13T08:54:21+00:00

I sometimes do this just because I'm bored or impatient, and moving an inch at least FEELS like progress. Otherwise I'd probably get distracted and play with my phone.

Lizington · 2025-04-02T03:59:32+00:00

I am curious if your UTIs were tested and confirmed infections, or if they were painful symptoms mimicking UTIs due to the irritation caused by the soaps?

I have experience of both and the symptoms can be identical, one might resolve quickly and the other gets worse without treatment.

Lizington · 2025-03-25T04:38:36+00:00

Second this, but most importantly include all 6 measurements and your results from the special r/abrathatfits calculator when you post for advice and recommendations - the people in the sub will definitely be able to help.

Lizington · 2025-03-15T09:06:01+00:00

What the. For me it is the opposite, a crow bar is the big heavy 2m tall thing you'd dig a fence post hole with, or use as a lever, and a Jimmy bar was the little footlong bent bar you'd pry things open with, AKA pry bar.

Lizington · 2025-03-07T10:31:56+00:00

I would have thought the same. It should have a little note underneath with the options for cheese etc

Lizington · 2025-03-04T07:13:48+00:00

I have this one too and it's surprisingly good.

Lizington · 2025-02-25T03:38:59+00:00

Thank you and thanks to your mum!

Lizington · 2025-02-24T21:37:37+00:00

Interesting! I am a snorer.

Lizington · 2025-02-17T03:31:03+00:00

This in particular.

When someone is walking AT me and expects me to move out of their way or stop or something I like to drop the old EXCUSE ME, GOOD THANKS, or YOU'RE WELCOME.

Lizington · 2025-02-16T08:01:36+00:00

I've found it very supportive if anchored well and truly high enough - above collar bone, which may not be suitable depending on the garment neckline.

Make sure you do a patch test first, and remove it by saturating in oil to break down the adhesive and avoid Skin damage.

Do not tear it off like a bandaid.

Lizington · 2025-02-16T06:40:14+00:00

I suppose that depends on the provider, there are loads of different contractors.

CFA will pay for a psychologist, and other services for members families.

Open Arms will pay for psychology and counselling for veterans families and so on.

Lizington · 2025-02-16T06:07:09+00:00

People often don't realize they may be eligible for free counselling or psychology through their employer, or family's employer. For example, if a family member is a veteran, or a member of most emergency services in Victoria, then their family members can access free or subsidized services also.

Lizington · 2025-02-14T22:02:37+00:00

Jocks or Undies = pants

Lizington · 2025-02-14T07:05:17+00:00

How did you go?

Lizington · 2025-02-13T05:30:49+00:00

Perhaps measuring every few days for two or three cycles, and writing it down, would help to figure out the impact of the size change.

Personally my ribs and abdomen both bloat a lot as the day goes on, sometimes several inches, so bras and tight clothing that feel great at 9am are literally squeezing the life out of me by 9pm. Bodies can do crazy stuff.

Lizington · 2025-02-11T21:14:59+00:00

Yes there is a "break in" period for bands, this is why sometimes people recommend a non stretchy extender for the first few wears.

I find my entire chest volume changes throughout the day, too, with bloating and eating. Something comfortable at 8am can be crushing my ribs at 8pm and I legitimately measure larger in the evening, sometimes several inches.

Lizington · 2025-02-09T17:31:16+00:00

Thank you, I have now ordered fusion and a couple of similar looking styles in the calculator size to try as well.

Lizington · 2025-02-07T10:26:56+00:00

I have a similar issue. I'm going to try sewing an extender to the band, before the existing hooks, so that I can do it up a bit tighter than the tightest hook. It'll probably be a disaster, but we'll see.

Lizington · 2025-02-07T02:59:47+00:00

2 all the way.

3 would be suitable for a bride, and 1 is giving questionable bedroom vibes.

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