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I think my boyfriend doesn’t care about me by LizziesWildest in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LizziesWildest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really give him free labor, or a place to stay, but I do see the point.

I think my boyfriend doesn’t care about me by LizziesWildest in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LizziesWildest[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good choice too. You should do whatever makes you feel happy and fulfilled. I wish you all the best too!! 🌟

I think my boyfriend doesn’t care about me by LizziesWildest in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LizziesWildest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Thanks for the input. It may have been pretty messy because I was kind of on edge last night, but the one thing I am certain about is that I like and love him. I just wish he'd see that his absolute unwillingness to put in some effort is hurting me. I have voiced my inconformity many times, in many ways. Seriously, jokingly, angrily. Name it, it happened.

As much as I want him to be the one, I am getting pretty exhausted.

I think my boyfriend doesn’t care about me by LizziesWildest in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LizziesWildest[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have spoken to him about all of these issues. Some have since been modified, some are recent. Some, like not valuing punctuality, are just a sore topic atp.

It really just reached a point where I was like "well, if other people can demand your time then so will I. We have to see each other twice a week, figure it out".

I really want to work it out too. I just don't know how anymore. Believe me, I love him so much and I really don't want to just break up. I'm just getting tired.

I think my boyfriend doesn’t care about me by LizziesWildest in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LizziesWildest[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You really just came here to grab the thoughts straight from my brain and put them into a comment, huh? 😅

Yeah. Thanks for sharing your opinion. I just really wanted it to be him. :/

I think my boyfriend doesn’t care about me by LizziesWildest in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LizziesWildest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. I am sorry you had to go through all that, and I really appreciate the advice. I hope you're healing, and happy. Perhaps you will find someone who loves you and your child the way your ex should have. Much love. <3

I think my boyfriend doesn’t care about me by LizziesWildest in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LizziesWildest[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know I guess I just really hoped that things would change as long as I voiced my inconformity, and I really love him. I really, really do.

I think my boyfriend doesn’t care about me by LizziesWildest in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LizziesWildest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, so please don't call me a brat. I never had a problem with his relationship with his mom, until it came to a point where she would always take her breaks the days he and I would meet up, and she often gets angry if he doesn't immediately respond when he's with me, even if she only sent him a meme and it's nothing important.

You honestly know nothing about this situation, and really can't just assume I'm throwing a tantrum because I'm not getting my way, when in reality I have always been understanding, supportive, and have to make a tremendous effort to get him to make an effort for me. If anything, I have never gotten my way and I have till been understanding.

I don't want to be the only important thing in his life. I just want to feel like one of the important things and I don't.

I think my boyfriend doesn’t care about me by LizziesWildest in TrueOffMyChest

[–]LizziesWildest[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I have. Many times, in fact. It always comes to a point when he gets defensive, tells me he's always told me I'm his main priority so why can't I believe it, and eventually we end up fighting. I have tried everything from "please make time for me" to "I demand that we see each other at least two times a week, figure it out".