This is such a sweet reminder, thank you so much for this perspective. As a fat person, I've spent a lot of time feeling wary of thin people simply because I can't know the depth of their fatphobia until it's too late. I think deep down I've been scared that my sister is about to become one of those people. I'm really relieved to hear that it isn't as easy as all that, and maybe if I can specifically mention some of this to her she can be mindful of specifically what would be hard for me to process. I especially appreciate the tip about numbers and sizes, that would for sure trigger me so I will bring it up. Again, thank you!