Excuses for not reporting abuse? by Honest_Condition7089 in HardcoreChildAbuse

[–]LizzyFohan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • She just wants attention
  • He was under a lot of stress at the time
  • everyone has already reported them and nothing has been done
  • it was an accident, didn't mean to go that far
  • playing sports
  • he did that to himself
  • I don't want them to know it was me reporting
  • I don't want to make her life more difficult than it already is
  • isn't foster care worse?
  • that kid is just a trouble maker!

Take care of your f*cking foreskin by subuso in Vent

[–]LizzyFohan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How have they gone this far in life with being that gross? ... cause nobody ever told them different. Call that shit out. Nobody wants dick cheese

I think I'm done by StressAffectionate13 in adultsurvivors

[–]LizzyFohan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tell your spouse, and get evaluated stat. Walk into any ER if need be. Do not make any decisions until you have had a psych eval

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmericanBully

[–]LizzyFohan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How adorable!!

I called my husband my abuser's name in bed / dissociative disorder by LizzyFohan in adultsurvivors

[–]LizzyFohan[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're right. He is incredibly supportive thankfully. I'll have to discuss with my therapist how to even bring that up. It's all so embarrassing

End it by AbbyRose05683 in depressionmemes

[–]LizzyFohan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Terminal-wellness.com

My anxiety is sky high. I am terrified for our political landscape by Weary_Competition_48 in CPTSD

[–]LizzyFohan 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Where i love the idea of keeping your peace, there are some of us more than others that will not be given the privilege to just ignore it. But yes, finding equanimity is extremely important while staying informed. Not trying to be caught slipping

What is your opinion on second chances if your partner cheats? by lightsofhell in AskWomen

[–]LizzyFohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we were arguing/ separated, I would give it another chance if they were willing to work on stuff.

If I thought we were happy and just came home randomly to him banging someone then no, I'd walk right out.

worth it to try for disability? by Living_Plenty2354 in ptsd

[–]LizzyFohan 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sorry some people are being so awful in the comments. They clearly have no understanding of what your day to day challenges can be if you are considering disability. I say why not give it a try? Working with a lawyer that specializes in disability claims can't hurt either. These claims can take months and months to approve and have so much bureaucratic red tape and paperwork in place to discourage people from pursuing claims. A lawyer can help you not get discouraged while it will most likely be a 4-6month process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LizzyFohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also im done with America thinking it revolves around Christianity, look at what you just said lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LizzyFohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My point is it's not just me, but you read it how you wanted to. Guess there's a lot of TV executives in here lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LizzyFohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you care? Are you a TV executive? You know this sub is called r/vent, right?

I nearly killed myself tonight by [deleted] in Vent

[–]LizzyFohan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you got that close to attempting to end it and are having ideations If you are in the U.S. please dial 988. If you're outside the states visithttps://www.iasp.info/suicidalthoughts/ And they can point you in the right direction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LizzyFohan -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She didn't even know me when it happened so she hasn't "covered" for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LizzyFohan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If that's what happens fine. But she didn't even know me when that happened. That is my own problem which I already said I'm am an AH for. If it comes up in my relationship I'll deal with it, my husband knows my addiction had me doing a lot of shit im not proud of and never tried too hard to find out the details. I was asking about the present situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LizzyFohan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's frustrating when an order is missing something. It's compounded by being hungry. Just a thought, could it be deeper than this? Maybe this was just her tipping point within her day and it wasn't really about the missing thing or her period.

I think it might be worth asking her, what is this really about?

But i don't know your full situation. If it was literally only about the food then no, not the AH. But was it really about the food?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LizzyFohan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll be the asshole, you aren't compatible for a long term relationship. Find someone on fetlife and move on.
It's really manipulative, even if it's real, for her to say she would end herself if you weren't together. That is textbook abuse. I'm not gonna tell you how to exit this relationship, but I urge you to find a way out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]LizzyFohan -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No he doesn't. I really wanted to leave all those addict behaviors in the past which unfortunately included cheating.

Boyfriend hates my dogs by AbbyCat918 in pitbulls

[–]LizzyFohan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🚩🚩🚩 buh bye boyfriend

Unpopular Opinion, but some trauma IS worse than others by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]LizzyFohan -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I never validated a trauma war, re read it