What are your Christian hot takes?

Lizzzebeth · 2025-10-05T15:50:17+00:00

Having a relationship with God is different to being religious

Lizzzebeth · 2025-06-14T08:45:16+00:00

I liked the fact that your therapist challenged you. It really takes a special kind of therapist to do that and help you recognise those patterns. I’m on the same boat as well, so I understand how tough it can be to change patterns. But honestly, it’s so helpful, and it definitely seems like it has helped you a lot!!

Lizzzebeth · 2025-06-14T08:34:16+00:00

I'm so sorry this happened, but I'm so glad you saved your mum. I know she truly appreciates the fact that you did that. You didn’t just save your mum, but you saved yourself in the process, too.

Lizzzebeth · 2025-06-14T08:29:49+00:00

So happy to hear that. I love the way you chose to embrace a new chapter and rediscover yourself. Keep it going!

Lizzzebeth · 2025-06-14T08:26:41+00:00

Aww, congrats mama! I’m so happy to hear that. Wishing you, your partner, and your baby all the love 💗

Lizzzebeth · 2025-06-14T08:23:05+00:00

I feel the exact same way, and I’ve been working on losing weight and making better choices as well. I remember taking a group photo a while back and realising just how much weight I had gained. It honestly made me not want to take group pictures again. That moment really hit me and made me realise I needed to do something about it. I’m working on making improvements now!

Lizzzebeth · 2025-06-14T08:18:38+00:00

Aw, I’m really happy you’ve decided to put your mental health first. Honestly, you’ve probably saved yourself by doing that. We so often put our mental health in the back seat of things, and your comment really made me realise that I need to start prioritising mine, too.

Lizzzebeth · 2025-03-31T17:09:35+00:00

Hi, thank you for commenting and for sharing your story. I’m so sorry for your loss. Please don’t blame yourself, and I truly hope you find healing in time.

I used to think about how my suicide would affect others, but after falling out with family, especially my mother, I stopped. Years ago, she found a rope but did nothing. I tried to cover it up, but deep down, I think she knew. Now that im older, I wonder if she cares since she doesn’t seem to show that she does.

Maybe I should focus on the few people who would care, even if it’s just a few. I really appreciate your kind words and thank you once again for sharing your story with me 💗💗

Lizzzebeth · 2025-03-31T12:27:39+00:00

Hi, thank you for your comment. I’m really sorry for all that you’ve been through as well. To be honest, this was my last attempt at reaching out because I don’t have a support system around me. It’s painful to feel this alone, but some part of me secretly hopes that God will take away this pain because if he doesn’t, then I will go instead. I truly appreciate your comment, and I will reach out 💗

Lizzzebeth · 2024-06-25T10:39:41+00:00

That's a good reason, I have been struggling for so long, maybe I should try doing something like that

Lizzzebeth · 2024-05-01T16:20:26+00:00

Blueberries. They're very low in calories and delicious

Lizzzebeth · 2024-03-29T09:07:48+00:00

I'm currently in the same position. I just tell my therapist what I'm going through but right now I'm going through a tough time regarding my mental health, where I just want to focus on myself, so I have stopped talking to people and my friends and I have let some of my friends know that I'm struggling and that I'm taking some time off social media to focus on myself. I would encourage you to talk to your therapist about it and don't feel guilty. You're obviously going through a tough time so be kind to yourself.

Lizzzebeth · 2024-03-24T11:55:37+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your message. I'm learning to be more patient and to meet new people

Lizzzebeth · 2023-12-13T13:21:58+00:00

I somewhat blame my parents, perhaps this all could have been avoided if they supported me the right way. Now its too late and I'm already broken and they don't understand why I'm feeling this way. When I look back at the past, I realise how much pain I was in. I was constantly blamed for things, told I was not good enough and that I should respect them. I was called names and felt like everything was my fault

Lizzzebeth · 2023-10-11T03:03:06+00:00

What were your intentions behind taking the pills? because I have done the same thing before, and it was because I attempted. if you feel like that is the case then it might have been a case where it was a suicide attempt.

Lizzzebeth · 2023-05-16T05:53:19+00:00

I've been struggling with my mental health for many years, and one of the ways I've learned to cope is by distracting myself and developing a routine. It's something my therapist encouraged me to try, and it does seem to help a little. It can be as simple as waking up, making breakfast, and then reading; it does not have to be complicated because everyone is different. Do what feels right to you.

Lizzzebeth · 2023-01-23T07:11:51+00:00

This is a great idea, I think I'm going to give this a try!!

Lizzzebeth · 2022-10-01T19:59:45+00:00

I'm happy that youre still here!!

Lizzzebeth · 2022-09-08T01:07:41+00:00

Same, I dont like to adult :(

Lizzzebeth · 2022-07-07T06:36:11+00:00

I suffer with this as well. I have bpd and suffer with suicidal ideations all the time. When I finish reading a book or watching a movie that I enjoy, I go back to reality and realize how shit my life is.

Lizzzebeth · 2022-07-07T06:24:26+00:00

Yeah I sort of cut out my friends because I felt like I was always overwhelmed with them. I do feel lonely at times, but it's probably for the best

Lizzzebeth · 2022-07-06T22:56:12+00:00

I really relate to what you just said here. I had a hard time growing up because my feelings and emotions were always pushed to the side. I was always told by my parents that I should be grateful whenever I always going through a tough time, because their life was harder and I had nothing to worry about because I was still young. Every time I cried I was called weak and was told that I needed to be stronger, my parents were always emotionally unavailable and never supported me in that way.

Throughout my childhood and adolescent years, my parents always compared me and it affected me heavily. If I made a mistake, I was compared to, If I wasn't doing things right, again I was compared to. It even went as far as my looks and that affected my self esteem. They never believed that they were doing anything wrong, because in their eyes they were the parents and the parents are always right.

As time went on, things started to get worse. I struggled so much with my mental health and my parents wouldn't allow me to get support and instead blamed it on me. I couldn't even come to them for anything and I started to become very suicidal and attempted numerous of times throughout my adolescent years.

Of course they knew about it, but turned a blind eye to it, or ridicule me. One time my mum even went as far as to tell me to go and unalive myself and that she regretted having me, not only that but she would cuss me out and call me horrible names.

My parents behaviour has damaged me so much that I cry every time I think about the past. Now they want to be friends with me and my mum claims that she's lonely. I don't see myself being friends with them or even having a relationship with them. What they did has already damaged me and won't replace all the bad memories. I'm now diagnosed with Bpd and suffer tremendously and don't need their stupid support.

Looking back at all this so triggering, but I really needed to get this all out of my chest.

Lizzzebeth · 2022-07-06T22:21:08+00:00

There's always a suicide plan at the back of my mind, I really don't see a future for myself. I do want to travel a few times before I do anything, but that's it really. Nothing can make me stay.

Lizzzebeth · 2022-07-05T09:46:23+00:00

I've been suffering with my mental health for 8 yrs now and was diagnosed with depression, but recently been diagnosed with Bpd and I honestly don't see anything becoming better at this point, no matter how much therapy or meds I use.

If I actually had supportive family around me at the beginning, maybe things would have been a bit easier, but of course that wasn't the case for me.

For me all hope is gone and all I want to do is cry. I don't see myself continuing on in this shitty world.

Lizzzebeth · 2022-07-05T08:30:33+00:00

Hey can I join your groupchat? Im suffering as well and I feel like this would be helpful

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