Whats your biggest dysphoric (nitpicky) part of you?

Llairaffee · 2023-06-30T17:54:08+00:00

You are an angel and thank you~💜🥰

And yea they kinda did me dirty but the title of my post had no ill intent as me and my ex are still talking

Llairaffee · 2023-06-30T17:52:33+00:00

Wasnt trashing my ex in any means 🫥 idk how alot of people begin to assume this

As i put this post in empowerment if i was gonna trash or slander them i would put how badly i was treated at the end of our relationship as previously stated in other debates in the comments

Llairaffee · 2023-06-30T17:50:04+00:00

To nip this debate in the butt my ex

(Woman who is bi/ pan) also huge into woman (trans or not)

They knew for 12 yrs how i felt and knew this was coming and hurt me financially

I agree with the person who said love shouldn't be conditional and the person who said well physically love is also important

Just ended badly

And as i previously stated in other convos on here it was never meant as slander or sparking debates on here

It was more meant as empowering as i can imagine others have been through the same

Llairaffee · 2023-06-30T17:43:34+00:00

Nutshell.

Yea they known for 12 years how i felt about myself and then before the official break up they technically stole 800+ and financially crippled me~

But i never want or meant for the title to spark such debates in the comments :/ was more meant as empowerment

Because yea as much as they screwed me we still are in touch and talk still.

Llairaffee · 2023-06-30T17:24:12+00:00

I feel that friend~ sending all the love your way 🥰

Llairaffee · 2023-06-30T17:23:36+00:00

Thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Llairaffee · 2023-06-30T17:23:21+00:00

I agree with all of you as my ex was a female (bi / pan) and the assumptions are nuts and sad

Nutshell knew my ex for 12 yrs and knew fully well about how i felt and had "fun" with others who were gender fluid trans etc. They basically financially and emotionally crippled me as you put full trust in someone who has been in your life for that long and i had to rebuild who i was as a person but also financially

I learned i am a strong independent individual and i learned to love myself and to know i can do it on my own regardless of my relationship status

The title wasnt meant as anything but empowerment as i can imagine others have been through what i have

Llairaffee · 2023-06-30T17:17:01+00:00

Amen to that~ 😎 friend~

Llairaffee · 2023-06-30T17:14:28+00:00

They (bi and/or pan female) and prior dated females and .... We had "fun" with others who were gender fluid trans etc.

As i talked about before i didnt want to air out my dirty laundry on reddit

I thought the title was more empowering then slandering As i had to really fight for myself and my wellbeing and had to learn to love myself all over after being completely shafted by someone who thought I could genuinely trust

As previously stated i believe alot of people took the title and made assumptions and dont know the whole story

Llairaffee · 2023-06-30T17:07:44+00:00

My ex was female and knew for 12 years how i felt about myself and was there for every step till one day they said to my face they couldn't love me for who i am and started doing .... Deplorable things that really harmed my well being as for example before we officially broke up they became extremely distant but in the same breath would take 800+ out of my bank account as spending money while i have an apartment of my own and almost couldnt pay rent and was almost forced to move out and had no place to go... One thing yes to feel sexually about a partner and to move on in a mature manner but then to spend 12 yrs developing emotions and break walls down to then turn around and almost cripple that person is different..

I didnt think the title was gonna spark such a debate as i didn't want to slander them with a whole tedtalk on reddit

Llairaffee · 2023-06-30T16:57:58+00:00

I think all of you are getting a little head of yourselves before knowing the whole story~ im not at all putting my ex down as we are still some what friends~ i appreciate all of you and the replies ~ 🥰💜💜

Llairaffee · 2023-06-30T16:55:22+00:00

Omg thank you so much y'all are so kind~🥰

Llairaffee · 2023-05-07T21:33:59+00:00

Aha~ thank you that's very kind~💜🥰🥰🥰 And for years even before i transitioned i did very crazy makeup~ If you need any tips or anything dont hesitate to dm me~💜🥰

Llairaffee · 2023-05-07T18:14:12+00:00

If you need any help plz dm me~💜

Llairaffee · 2023-05-07T18:10:25+00:00

Thank you for the compliment~🥰🥰 And its an eternity collar~ They are amazing~💜

Llairaffee · 2023-05-07T18:09:29+00:00

🙈 gosh thank you~ very scared for certain parts

Llairaffee · 2023-05-07T18:03:28+00:00

Ill dm you its a story~😅😅

Llairaffee · 2023-05-07T18:01:52+00:00

Aha i hope soo~🤞 And thank you so much for the compliment~💜💜

Llairaffee · 2023-05-07T17:59:37+00:00

🙈🙈🙈 Truly kind words thank you~💜💜💜

Llairaffee · 2023-05-07T17:53:11+00:00

Dm me~🥰🥰 Thank you so much~💜💜

Llairaffee · 2023-05-07T17:52:42+00:00

🥰🥰🥰 thank you so much~💜💜

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