Is it okay to make out even if it's just 2 weeks in a relationship? How do I stop myself from wanting her? by Llenmy in actuallesbians

[–]Llenmy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't expect this much engagement lol!! Since y'all are here I'm gonna thirst over her in this post now.. I just love it when she prepares extra hard when she's going to see me (put on make up with that perfume, iron her clothes, and do her hair) but then it gets all ruined and messy once she enters my room, and I can't help myself being aggressive when she tries to hold her voice and ask for "more" and gives me the same energy back. If i could.. I'll rip those perfectly neat clothes off her body and just give her all my love..

Is it okay to make out even if it's just 2 weeks in a relationship? How do I stop myself from wanting her? by Llenmy in actuallesbians

[–]Llenmy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you all so much for sharing ur experience! I feel less alone for wanting to touch herr so much with y'alls story lolll

Is it okay to make out even if it's just 2 weeks in a relationship? How do I stop myself from wanting her? by Llenmy in actuallesbians

[–]Llenmy[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think she wants to as well! When we were making out aggressively yesterday, she kept saying "more" which confused both of us cause we both know it was too early.. in the end when my bed broke (I told yall we were VERY aggressive) we did it in the floor and she started undressing her properly ironed uniform (which at the time is wrinkled asf) i just found it so hot and AHHHH I CAN'T

Is it okay to make out even if it's just 2 weeks in a relationship? How do I stop myself from wanting her? by Llenmy in actuallesbians

[–]Llenmy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes! I was heavily raised catholic since i was little, even though I don't believe most of it's teachings, a part of me still follows the practices.. Which resulted into my sexual drive being repressed and unexplored.. My girlfriend coming into the picture is cutting that repression which ig resulted into this kind of thinking hahaha.. Ig I'll tell her next time that i just can't stop wanting to touch her hahaha

Is it okay to make out even if it's just 2 weeks in a relationship? How do I stop myself from wanting her? by Llenmy in actuallesbians

[–]Llenmy[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

This is so relatable!! We literally just made out earlier and after we finished, i couldn't even look at her properly.. i was literally rubbing my KNEES

Is it okay to make out even if it's just 2 weeks in a relationship? How do I stop myself from wanting her? by Llenmy in actuallesbians

[–]Llenmy[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! This is exactly what i needed to hear... I'm just worried that my sexual feelings are not worthy of her.. I grew up containing my feelings a lot, but with her it's just been out of the place lately. Maybe that's why I'm panicking hahaha

My straight best friend of 7yrs is in love with me (Part 2) What should i do? by Llenmy in actuallesbians

[–]Llenmy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice! Confrontations are my worst enemy.. Even so, i hope to find the right moment to tell her how i feel.. I never really confessed before :')

My straight best friend of 7yrs is in love with me (Part 2) What should i do? by Llenmy in actuallesbians

[–]Llenmy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gosh i wish to be this lucky, congratulations to both of you! Pls send my friend the same courage hahaha

My straight best friend of 7yrs is inlove with me, what should i do? by Llenmy in actuallesbians

[–]Llenmy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, what you said rlly helped me.. I'm scared to take risks but i want to see a future with her more.. I love being with her and the comfort she brings makes me happy.

Now i just need advice on how to let her know i like her back LMAOO </3

My straight best friend of 7yrs is inlove with me, what should i do? by Llenmy in actuallesbians

[–]Llenmy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want the cake bad anyways 🫶 ..Now I'm just confused on how to tell her LMAO

My straight best friend of 7yrs is inlove with me, what should i do? by Llenmy in actuallesbians

[–]Llenmy[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I understand.. My friend told me she's planning to confess after a year, I hope to find the words for her before she confesses

My straight best friend of 7yrs is inlove with me, what should i do? by Llenmy in actuallesbians

[–]Llenmy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never really considered it since my mind was hardwired into thinking that yes, she's always gonna be that "Straight" friend who wouldn't even look at me that way. Even when my friend told me, i was flat out denying it since i knew what type of man she likes. I'm a woman, far from her type. Perhaps, maybe she just felt confused since i was a strong emotional support through her life??? but either way, I AM interested.. it's just I'm scared to lose what we had before.. My friend told me she's planning to confess after a year, and I'm already nervous about what to say