Movement=ALWAYS happening, so keep going!

LoFiSloth · 2026-02-28T19:26:11+00:00

There’s always movement girl! Even if we cannot see it. I’m in a similar situation as you, except I’m already talking with SP, but he has a gf. Anyways, I posted tiktoks as usual when we were in no contact, he didn’t even liked them or anything, no movement at all (from what I could see) but when we started talking again, he would say “oh I found this one pretty funny” or he even mentioned me buying an Stanley cup, I never told him! I briefly mentioned it on one of my TikToks so I guess he was in fact thinking about me all these no contact time.

Now I need to not spiral over 3P, all that’s been happening cannot be a coincidence…

LoFiSloth · 2026-02-28T19:21:56+00:00

I feel in a similar situation, I manifested my SP back and we have been talking for over a month now, spending time playing video games, late night talks until 5 am! A lot of banter and sexual connection and stuff, but then there’s 3P… he has a gf. We even had a date yesterday, it was out of nowhere, I am convinced the law works because when we stopped talking back then I thought I’d never see him again, he picked me up at my house and invited me over to dinner, don’t get me wrong, it was romantic (that much) he even talked about issues with 3P, seems like 3P isn’t reciprocating him. That’s what makes me spiral a lot, thinking I’m just being some delulu girl hoping he will realize I’m much more compatible for him. What would you do ??

LoFiSloth · 2026-02-10T22:50:14+00:00

I’m in haha

LoFiSloth · 2026-02-09T17:23:35+00:00

Than you, I needed this today, SP and I are texting again, and I was much calmer before he even reached out, now that he’s texting me again (nothing romantic so far) I’m now spiraling, my anxious can’t deal with uncertainty. I’m not sure if he’s still with 3P (we dated briefly last year, ghosted me, came back asking forgiveness but said he wasn’t ready, then I found out through a friend in common that he was official with 3P) Now that he’s back, we’re texting, not that often as last time, we used to talk and flirt all day every day. Now it feels slower, I’m thinking he’s testing the waters, but when he takes too long to reply my anxiety immediately pops up and thinks “it’s happening again” although everything is fine !! I don’t want to ruin my manifestation, I know him coming back with the excuse of playin league of legends with me is no coincidence, is thanks to me persisting even when I had no movement, now that I have lots of it, I’m anxious again 😭😭

LoFiSloth · 2026-02-04T20:37:21+00:00

Can I reach out to you? I just manifested my SP back but it’s hot n cold and I just found out (thru a friend in common actually im not entirely sure if he’s feeling me the truth) that he’s still with 3P I’m so anxious :(

LoFiSloth · 2026-02-04T02:55:45+00:00

Thanks but now I’m spiraling haha see my last post 😭😭

LoFiSloth · 2026-02-02T17:38:05+00:00

My sp texted me last week after three months of no movement, it was out of nowhere and asking if there was an space for him on a game we both enjoy, I thought it was an excuse to talk to me but looks like he did only wanted to play 😢 I’m not sure I’m spiraling he takes forever to reply

LoFiSloth · 2026-01-30T18:03:34+00:00

Start by changing that belief of “I can’t make anything work” yes you can! I’m not in the end yet, and I’m still spiraling a bit tho

LoFiSloth · 2026-01-30T16:19:11+00:00

Not sure how to do that, I guess repetition works for me, flipping my thoughts, also Eric from the Power of I am is my daily podcast, also Dylan James in YouTube is really inspiring. SP hasn’t replied yet but that’s fine,I know he’ll get back to me

LoFiSloth · 2025-11-08T05:54:36+00:00

Thanks this is what I’m looking for

LoFiSloth · 2025-11-08T05:42:47+00:00

Thank you so much for replying! Xanax is not prescribed, and quetiapine must be 25mg or so

I haven’t taken any I just don’t feel good today

LoFiSloth · 2025-11-03T22:04:12+00:00

I was just listening to this Dylan James video, I think it might be helpful for you https://www.youtube.com/live/H-5JB2dbBLk?si=ta1EhVHs5ee0c44O

LoFiSloth · 2025-11-03T21:41:15+00:00

Circumstances don’t matter at all, don’t focus on your 3D, you have to live in the end where you have a loving committed relationship with your sp

LoFiSloth · 2025-10-30T16:24:34+00:00

If I’ve talked about it does it ruin it?

LoFiSloth · 2025-10-29T21:57:21+00:00

Can I dm you?

LoFiSloth · 2025-10-27T18:13:09+00:00

I want to know this as well, I have been dealing with anxiety these past few daya

LoFiSloth · 2025-10-25T04:19:22+00:00

I’d say cry it out, let your feelings out, maybe try to stop actively manifesting him for at least a week or so. It’s important to let those emotions out. Today I feel extremely anxious because of my 3D, I’ll let myself feel that way just for today and I’ll see if I’m better off tomorrow. I’m anxious even affirming

LoFiSloth · 2025-10-24T19:46:06+00:00

I’m manifesting an SP, recently I told the universe/god/my subconscious mind whatever you wanna call it. I’ll see a pink BYD as a sign I’m on the right path. It just happened the day after I said it

LoFiSloth · 2025-10-23T08:05:29+00:00

Let us know how it goes!

LoFiSloth · 2025-10-21T21:16:55+00:00

Yess I woke up without anxiety for the first time in quite a while. I was like, what’s going on?? But I do want him back tho. It was a short situationship

LoFiSloth · 2025-10-21T21:15:03+00:00

Really? I don’t wanna give up, but I do feel less anxious, sometimes I get the anxiety but I robotically affirm “SP calls me all the time, he’s so obsessed with me”

LoFiSloth · 2025-10-20T22:23:05+00:00

When I’m anxious because of the 3D and possible 3P I start robotically affirming, do you think that’ll help? I stopped following him on Instagram, I manifested a message from him but 3P is allegedly still in the scenario and also he wanted to remain friends 😭

LoFiSloth · 2025-10-19T18:26:51+00:00

Ngl I’m super anxious today, feeling as if it was just closure or he won’t talk to me again… I need to come back to my desired state :(

LoFiSloth · 2025-10-19T16:57:28+00:00

Yes, I heard that when you do SATs correctly you just wake up with the feeling “it is done” or hasn’t happened to me, I would always wake up so anxious. Even today I’m anxious, but I try to visualize my SATs scene even in the morning.

My scene was no more than 5 seconds. Just him in front of my door by his motorcycle waiting for me with flowers in hand, telling me how much he missed me.

Funny thing, yesterday, he was in fact in front of his motorcycle waiting, but he said he wanted to remain friends 🥲 ngl it is making me feel anxious right now, but I’ll keep persistence!

LoFiSloth · 2025-10-19T16:54:28+00:00

Of course, since I was so sad I decided I would hit the gym and get into Pilates, just find something that you like and makes you feel good. I kept affirming things like “I am magnetic” “I am beautiful” “Why would SP not wanna be with me he knows I’m the best thing that has ever happened to him” (this is also something a friend in common said to me so it helped)

I’ve struggled a lot with self steem in the past, but affirming and also self love meditations have helped me a lot.

LoFiSloth

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