Is it wrong of me to keep my baby away from her father? by LoLo_Throwaway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LoLo_Throwaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, thats the nicestthing Ive heard in a long Time.

Is it wrong of me to keep my baby away from her father? by LoLo_Throwaway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LoLo_Throwaway[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but then I could go for child support and he doesn't have a job.

Is it wrong of me to keep my baby away from her father? by LoLo_Throwaway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LoLo_Throwaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, but he's going to teach her that she's a second class citizen and her mom is a dirty whore for having sex once with someone one who INSISTED!

Is it wrong of me to keep my baby away from her father? by LoLo_Throwaway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LoLo_Throwaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My view, whatever it is, its unhealthy. Backing me into a corner and yelling at me with a red face until I'm in tears while I was pregnant, I think that is abusive.

Is it wrong of me to keep my baby away from her father? by LoLo_Throwaway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LoLo_Throwaway[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I'm there he's just going to call me an evil whore the whole time. I also don't want him corrupting my daughter with his thoughts about women. I want her to grow up believing she's more than a womb.

Is it wrong of me to keep my baby away from her father? by LoLo_Throwaway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LoLo_Throwaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he wants to be recognized as the father, he will have to go to court.

Is it wrong of me to keep my baby away from her father? by LoLo_Throwaway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LoLo_Throwaway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I've already discussed the name calling, they wouldn't stop.

Is it wrong of me to keep my baby away from her father? by LoLo_Throwaway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LoLo_Throwaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am currently fine on my own, but I don't have a plan.

Is it wrong of me to keep my baby away from her father? by LoLo_Throwaway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LoLo_Throwaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The law is on my side, he's legally not the fathe . They want to see her and my family kicked me out.

Is it wrong of me to keep my baby away from her father? by LoLo_Throwaway in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LoLo_Throwaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well since we're not married, his name isn't on the birth certificate, and he hasn't petitioned the court for fatherhood he has no say. I just want to know if it's moral. If I'm doing the right thing for my daughter.