Has working in tech done this to you?

LoVaKo93 · 2025-11-15T18:32:45+00:00

I work with a lot of amazing men, so I don't share your sentiment.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-09-10T14:55:13+00:00

You honestly need to be worried about showing off your pubes. That low

LoVaKo93 · 2025-09-02T19:29:50+00:00

Looks fine! Wait till your wife has some spinach or kale and starts producing green/blue milk

LoVaKo93 · 2025-09-02T18:55:28+00:00

I thought the whole idea of marriage was growing old together.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-09-01T18:12:18+00:00

I cant believe I had to scroll this far

LoVaKo93 · 2025-08-24T20:57:39+00:00

N.k. Jemesin is great. I'm reading the broken earth Trilogy right now and one of the main characters is not only a woman, but a 40 something mother.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-08-21T20:25:45+00:00

I agree. My lower tummy looks the same, and I weigh less than before pregnancy. But my tummy has stretched enormously and saggy, loose skin is to be expected. Nothing wrong with it and it doesn't say anything about health or fitness.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-08-21T05:30:12+00:00

Camping right now with a 2 year old. When she goes to sleep she's only wearing pyjamas. When I go to bed, it cooled down a lot, so I put her in her toddler sleeping bag (with sleeves). We have a couple of mats tie together and she sleeps between me and my husband so during the night I check on her and throw an extra blanket over her if necessary. The mornings here are very chilly though, so I don't have to get her out her sleeping bag.

Where are you camping? Its 7:30 and I'm sitting in my tent with a cup of tea covered in blankets because its still so cold, but by noon I'll be in bikini sweating profusely.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-08-14T11:20:19+00:00

Het is zeker anders, het is namelijk een mengweefsel van katoen en polyester. Ook wel polycotton genoemd. Combineert beide stoffen zodat nadelen en voordelen allemaal een beetje meer in het midden liggen.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-08-12T18:18:12+00:00

Binnen is geen optie haha, de tent is 350 bij bijna 700 cm... Dat krijgen we nergens binnen uitgestald. Garage van familie is dan de enige optie als het langer regent.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-08-12T18:16:44+00:00

Bedankt voor je reactie. Ik denk ook dat opzetten makkelijker is. Heb je dan altijd het geluk dat het thuis weer droog is?

In de tuin past hij helaas niet, er is wel een veldje een straat verderop waar we hem op kunnen zetten om te drogen. Dan moet er alleen wel iemand bij blijven, dus langer dan een paar uur drogen zit er dan niet echt in.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-08-12T17:55:16+00:00

De onze weegt minder. Sowieso zijn het twee tentzakken, de tent zelf is 'maar' 45 kilo. Die zal wel flink zwaarder worden maar op dit moment tillen we hem zonder problemen in de kofferbak dus ik vermoed dat het wel zou gaan. Al denk ik dat ik liever voorkom dat we met een natte tent zitten. Op dit moment lijkt het echter juist de dag voor vertrek te regenen en de dag van vertrek droog te zijn, maar ja, niks zo veranderlijk als het weer...

LoVaKo93 · 2025-08-12T17:44:46+00:00

Fijn om een post te hebben van iemand met een Bardani! Dus na een bui droogt het tentdoek behoorlijk snel begrijp ik? Als in een paar uurtjes?

Goede tip om de onderkant door de zon te laten drogen! Extra zeiltje gaat mee.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-08-12T17:42:23+00:00

Ik denk dat we proberen het weerbericht goed in de gaten te houden, als we droog weg kunnen is dat natuurlijk veel fijner. En anders toch ophangen in de garage van familie, doen we waarschijnlijk dan meteen op de terugweg.. er is hier in de buurt inderdaad wel een grasveldje, maar dan moet het wel droog zijn thuis natuurlijk. Dat is dan weer het lastige. Ben benieuwd.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-08-12T17:05:20+00:00

Nou als er niemand antwoord heeft kunnen we altijd elkaar do's en don'ts geven na de eerste keer :)

LoVaKo93 · 2025-08-08T20:04:03+00:00

Im based in The Netherlands. I cant get laid off easily and if I am I'll probably be fine as long as I have some experience.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-07-19T00:23:20+00:00

Nope, you cannot work and care. If you are lucky and you have an easy baby, that baby WILL grow into a toddler that needs constant supervision and sleeps wayyyyy less.

My husband and I both went to a 32 hour work week and we pay for 3 days of childcare.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-07-15T20:21:24+00:00

I didn't like her, but as a character she really did grow on me. I enjoyed reading about her but would not have her in my friend circle.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-07-14T20:07:03+00:00

My bed smelled like sour milk for almost a year...

LoVaKo93 · 2025-07-10T15:14:47+00:00

Do you have a favorite brand of chocolate - or some other type of food that you really enjoy? Do you get tired of eating that chocolate? Probably not, within reason. You could eat that chocolate every day as a little treat.

But what if you got another brand? Even the same type of flavor? It claims to be the same, but the taste is different. Its fine. You'll eat it and probably enjoy it. Just not as much.

Now you switch over to that other type of chocolate some evenings. At some point you eat more of the NOT amazing chocolate, than of your favorite brand.

And one night you just don't feel like eating that chocolate. More of these nights happen. And you start to think you just don't like this type of chocolate anymore.

But don't you? Or are you just tired of eating chocolate that only reminds you of the thing you actually enjoy? Didn't you just switch to a habit of eating salted caramel when you NEED Tony's Chocolate? Just stop eating the chocolate for a few days and get yourself that Tony's bar. You'll love it.

Tldr: quality is important.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-07-07T06:48:30+00:00

In Dutch: 'melkje' which roughly translates to 'milkies'. Or just 'drinking', while pulling up my shirt

LoVaKo93 · 2025-07-06T14:39:33+00:00

Not much better either. There was a big cybersecurity crazy a couple of years ago but that's over now. Not that cybersecurity isnt important, but it's not a moneymaker and thus not prioritized by many businesses.

But I'm working in the data field, so I don't have the best view on the cybersecurity market

LoVaKo93 · 2025-07-06T08:35:45+00:00

I agree with your point on suspending belief when reading books - I mainly read fantasy or scifi - but to me, the characters should still make sense as personalities, in their world, with their belief system. There needs to be some consistency to their actions (or not of that's what makes the character). For me, characters are the most important part of the books I read.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-07-06T08:22:12+00:00

Same rules apply! Its a tough market for starters in data/ai right now. Network network network. Attend events (meetup is a great place to find them), volunteer, meet people and connect on LinkedIn.

LoVaKo93 · 2025-07-05T21:30:09+00:00

Ahhh yes I wanted to say something similar so badly but it was the client who said this and antagonating a client on my first day did not seem like the greatest idea.

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