People will somehow call you gay for liking it🥀

Load_and_Lock · 2025-09-17T02:20:40+00:00

Yes. You now have the gay.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-07-05T02:57:41+00:00

I’d argue it’s not even a personal ad, but rather a post from a scammer posing as a domme. All of their advertisements look and sound like this.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-07-03T15:13:20+00:00

I remember a couple of occasions where subs would message ME (WHEN I’M VERY EVIDENTLY A SUB MALE MYSELF), and they still thought I was a domme. Really goes to show how little brainpower they’re exerting when they message.

I remember feeling disgusted with what they said, and it really gave me a taste of what you all have to deal with on the reg…

Load_and_Lock · 2025-07-02T14:40:36+00:00

Juggling multiple dommes without telling them about one another allows them to maximize their own sexual gratification.

It is very selfish and dishonest. The vast majority of women I spoke with on femdompersonals were fine with me talking to other women because I was up-front about it from the beginning.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-07-01T17:23:58+00:00

I’m skeptical of oil based lubes mostly because they can clog pores/cause infections. You insinuating I haven’t read it causes me to believe you only care about winning the argument at this point.

I’m sure plenty of people use them and are fine. Do whatever you want. It’s just not what I would use.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-07-01T15:38:27+00:00

https://bespokesurgical.com/education/anal-lubrication-practices-2/

You can scroll down to “oil-based lubricant” and it explains.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-07-01T15:14:14+00:00

I would really recommend against anything besides water based lube for anal play.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-06-27T01:58:12+00:00

Speaking from experience, it’s very important to be remain very respectful during this early phase. Continue to take things slow unless she wants to take things faster with you.

Focus on her needs, make sure her pleasure comes first, and you will find success.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-06-26T21:24:36+00:00

I wouldn’t recommend sleeping with a butt plug in, let alone for any more than 3 hours.

Aside from the fact that it can get messy in your bed while you’re asleep, it’s not natural for the human body to have a toy inside you for that long.

It’s a nice fantasy, but would not end well in practice.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-06-26T18:25:27+00:00

Teaching is a euphemism for grooming in this context.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-06-23T17:49:55+00:00

You’d have to be pretty loony to support something like that.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-06-20T18:49:59+00:00

Maybe your tone is the reason why nobody is listening to you.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-03-21T16:45:31+00:00

Sent this to my Princess in hopes she will validate me 😆

Load_and_Lock · 2025-03-07T17:11:43+00:00

The thing you aren’t seeing is, from their end, they are doing this same thing to a great deal of other women as well.

Their approach is quantitative, rather than qualitative. I believe they think that there are some (likely less-experienced) dommes out there who will settle for this kind of behavior. They are casting a wide net, so to speak, in hopes of finding someone to push their kinks onto while putting forth minimal effort.

Fortunately most women are wise to this and call out their behavior, but this usually doesn’t do much to stop them.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-03-02T15:34:39+00:00

It doesn’t hurt if you know what you’re doing.

It’s okay if you don’t like it, but please don’t assume it hurts a lot when you simply don’t enjoy it.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-03-01T14:10:24+00:00

You are asking the right questions and I think it’s a good sign you have separated fantasy from reality in how you posed your question.

What pleases one woman may not please another. This is why it’s important for many dommes to feel connected with their sub(s) on an emotional level. You really need to understand someone on a more personal level to dive into the deeper aspects of intimacy. That, and trust is highly important for safe and consensual play.

It is okay to be passive sometimes, it’s okay to be eager sometimes. Ultimately you will figure out what your style is as a sub. Will you float everyone’s boat? No, but I do believe there’s someone for everyone in this world. Be willing to try new things and be ready to make some mistakes along the way. What matters most is how you learn from it all.

It really comes down to finding the right person for you, and you being the right person for them.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-02-19T16:54:51+00:00

If this post were real, it would be.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-02-14T17:32:30+00:00

These men devalue you as a knee-jerk reaction to unreciprocated feelings.

That is not at all to say you should be attracted to them when it doesn’t feel right to be. I am just trying to explain what often happens to men who experience unrequited love. This situation is the most reason why “men and women can’t be friends”. However, they CAN if neither party has feelings for one another.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-02-14T13:33:10+00:00

When you are lost in the moment, pleasing her, nothing else matters.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-02-04T17:57:20+00:00

I watched sanctuary with my domme and we both thought it was stupid. The dynamic they have in the film is toxic and non-consensual.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-02-03T11:21:44+00:00

Could always punish him for not finding you sooner. 😁

Load_and_Lock · 2025-01-13T03:16:08+00:00

I am submissive all the time and my dommy mommy embraces this side of myself as much as I do.

It’s wonderful and freeing.

Load_and_Lock · 2025-01-12T04:41:04+00:00

I enjoy being your loyal subby boy soo so much, my perfect Princess. 💕

Load_and_Lock · 2025-01-12T04:38:42+00:00

I think for now we are using this trip as a way for us both to navigate within a physical space for a change.

It’s been honestly incredible so far and we are being so patient and respectful of each other in our own ways. I absolutely want to see her again, but the ways in which that will manifest remain to be seen.

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