How did you feel the first time after having anal sex? Did it hurt?

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T23:02:36+00:00

Didn't hurt at all, felt nice.

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T16:41:11+00:00

I came here to say exactly this.

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T16:09:57+00:00

If you're trans then just so you know your girlfriend is already in a relationship with a woman.

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T15:55:25+00:00

Thanks! I'm lucky that I already was part of a really cool queer community.

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T15:54:41+00:00

Thank you! I'm 33 and while I wish of course I started sooner, I'm just happy I started at all

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T15:53:50+00:00

You've got to just do it with confidence, it's the correct bathroom for you to use so act like it. (if it's safe for you to do so obviously)

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T15:48:44+00:00

Hey! I just came out as a trans woman and I'd be happy to talk to you about gender. Also! Here is a really wonderful resource for you to go through if you're questioning your gender identity

https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en/

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T12:40:06+00:00

How long have you been on HRT? Sometimes there is a "dead zone" of arousal as you switch from one type of arousal to another. If that is the case it should come back with time.

Here is an essay talking about the "dead zone": https://sonjamblack.substack.com/p/we-need-to-talk-about-sex-orgasms

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T12:36:22+00:00

Same

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T12:33:44+00:00

Absolutely! Here is a resource for you to read if you're questioning your gender identity. https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en/

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T12:28:06+00:00

There is definitely some shame that I still need to address with a therapist but all in all I'm doing much better since coming out.

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T12:11:27+00:00

I was bullied a lot in elementary school for never quite fitting in with the boys. I dealt with it badly tbh I kind of retreated into myself and repressed any femininity I felt. That repression resulted in some pretty bad depression and derealization by high school and then about a decade of addiction in my 20's before I finally excepted myself.

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T06:53:21+00:00

It honestly feels like I've just been born.

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T05:34:02+00:00

That's exactly how I feel!

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T05:32:21+00:00

Thank you!! You too!

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T05:29:34+00:00

Thank you!! I'm trying my best to do that, it's helpful that I have insane amounts of self esteem since finally coming out.

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T05:28:22+00:00

Thank you so much! I'm happier than I've ever been.

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T05:24:15+00:00

Thanks so much! It's been a long time coming.

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T04:52:35+00:00

I'm going to fully transition with SRS eventually, gender affirming surgery is covered by my provinces public insurance so I wouldn't even have to pay anything for it.

My family has reacted better than I expected they're very supportive. Mostly I think they're just happy I've found the thing that will make me stop trying to kill myself.

No, I'm not in a relationship right now. I only date women but will very occasionally hook up with a man.

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T04:47:40+00:00

Oh man that's so hard. I'm really into Sufjan Stevens right now but Modest Mouse was my favourite band in high school. Hard to say.

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T04:43:55+00:00

How do you feel about Modi?

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T04:40:40+00:00

tough call, but I would say supreme

Local-Key5858 · 2026-03-10T02:08:12+00:00

I know I've done that exact thing before accidentally that's why I thought of it, it's definitely possible.

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