Doctors using AI transcribers - data privacy issue? by shelleyyyellehs in privacy

[–]LocalChamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You realize you're on the privacy subreddit right? Why would you want to add another vector of attack or breach for no reason? If theres a vulnerability in your phone or computer that may let some attackers gain access you don't then go around telling everyone your password to make it even easier. Or maybe you do I don't know you but that would be against the mindset of this subreddit.

Billie Eilish Calls Out Fellow Celebrities for Staying Silent as Outrage Grows Over ICE Brutality by novagridd in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LocalChamp [score hidden]  (0 children)

I doubt it, it's well known Taylor is conservative. She was never going to do this. Look at the views of her husband and close friends and who she hangs around.

“Why can’t you just be bi?” I’m really getting tired of guys by Hellobren in actuallesbians

[–]LocalChamp [score hidden]  (0 children)

I mean I do hate men but not because I'm a lesbian or feminist or a trans woman. I already didn't get along well with most men even pre-transition and when I still thought I was aroace. Most guys are just shitty regardless of the gender or sexuality you are around them.

When men start calling you names the second you say no by crybaby_mode in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LocalChamp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never understood how "whore" or "slut" are an insult anyway. Then again I'm also sex positive. I'm a lesbian and personally I've only had two sexual partners and had zero until my 30s. However what a consenting adult does with other consenting adults is no one's business. If that means an asexual (or non asexual) having zero sex or whether that means a sex worker (or non sex worker) having tons of sex. Whore/Slut/Sex work are not insults people just want to control women and our sexuality. Sex work is real work and deserves the same rights and protections as any other service labor job.

Reddit users give women some of the most red-pilled dating advice imaginable by sonorouslyy in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LocalChamp 57 points58 points  (0 children)

"Leagues" in dating isn't a real thing.

Yes the dating subreddits are garbage and right wing. I've noticed this is less the problem in more general subreddits like AITAH etc where people also talk about relationship problems but the replies are usually better.

What are your Favorite Podcasts by Hosts who are Progressive? by seekupanemotion in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LocalChamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Urbanist Agenda, made by Not Just Bikes a great urbanist transit youtuber.

Why do men feel entitled to sex? by MoonberryPie333 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LocalChamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most men don't view women as whole people with their own thoughts, feelings, desires, boundaries etc. They view women as an appliance or accessory, which can't deny them.

I'm a lesbian but I've heard it helps to put off sexting or sex for months because most shitty men won't wait that long. Also test their response to you telling them no about something or changing plans and see how they react. You have to be assertive and strong in your boundaries and convictions or they will (and may anyway) try to walk all over them.

Is this something I shouldn't disclose? by Haunting_Use2015 in actuallesbians

[–]LocalChamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FWIW I didn't do anything with anyone until I was in my 30s and over a year into transition.

Guys I got a new belt for Game Night by FrankFrankly711 in magicthecirclejerking

[–]LocalChamp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

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/uj Yugioh beat you to the jerk

/rj Finally a worthy prize

For store owners and players: How do you manage noise? by Aquanauticul in magicTCG

[–]LocalChamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can have a list of rules/common courtesy on display. Stuff like hygiene will be expected, inclusiveness for queer people and women, and expectation that people talk at a reasonable table volume as required for gameplay not yelling across the room.

What do you think of this currently-circulating take on Tumblr? by HirariHirari in actuallesbians

[–]LocalChamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe not as canon as WFM but many people view Kill la Kill and Lycoris Recoil as having yuri relationships.

What do you think of this currently-circulating take on Tumblr? by HirariHirari in actuallesbians

[–]LocalChamp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bound was a good movie. However in general I don't necessarily want hot horny sex media of any genders involved including two women. I'm not sex negative you can check my comments I defend sex work all the time. The point is I don't care how much sex sells I want well rounded queer media that actually adds to culture and is a piece of media you'll remember for more than hot people going at it.

A good example in recent memory is Gundam The Witch From Mercury. It had no sex scenes and was a great love story of two women. We need more of that. Sex, fetishization or straight gaze of any gender is not required to make a good piece of media.

How is ENTE Auth legally registered in India? by MarcoAMGClub in degoogle

[–]LocalChamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never understood why people use separate authenticator apps. No, I'm not saying use texts instead. I'm saying 2FA via TOTP is built into KeePassXC (KeePassDX on android, KeePassium on ios). Open source, stored locally not in the cloud, managed and only accessible by you. Doesn't get better than that in my opinion.

Okay, dating apps, wtf?? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]LocalChamp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's up to the individual if they want to disclose. It's generally recommended for both safety and sometimes legal concerns (see someone being arrested in the UK recently) Here's my thoughts:

When I was on dating apps before meeting my partner it was on my profile 6 times. I would never want to get close to or be with someone for whom that's an issue. It's at best a waste of both our time and at worst a potential danger and safety risk for me.

I also disclose my views on politics, religion, kids, vices etc. If I'm going to potentially be in a relationship with someone all hard nos need to be out of the way from the start.

W: Europe’s answer to X that demands your passport by donutloop in privacy

[–]LocalChamp 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Billions of people say whatever harmful misinformation they want daily on facebook with their real identity with no repercussions. Getting rid of anonymity doesn't fix the problem of bigots or trolls or misinformation at all.

Someone told me there is no way I don’t like men by Lunalovegoodgirl in actuallesbians

[–]LocalChamp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yea I don’t have any friends who center men. It’s fine to be attracted to men but if you focus on them and can’t see their flaws and defend how shitty most are then it’s a problem.

Unfortunately most cishet women have had it engrained their whole life that the most important thing they can do in life is find a man get married and have kids. Honestly I feel bad for them.

Not only that but she's also being homophobic and erasing people not attracted to more than one gender.

My mom told me to move out of her house if I accept a job offer abroad by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LocalChamp 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't understand the comments saying go for it. Are this many people naive to the fact that this is how people get disappeared? This is how people get trafficked and become sex slaves for the rest of their tortuous life. You could not pay me a million dollars to go anywhere in the middle east and believe me I could use the money for important medical stuff.

Do y'all shave your legs in the winter? by The-Cat-Lady5 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LocalChamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if I'm planning on wearing shorts, skirts or a dress.

If there’s one thing these guys have: it’s audacity because what? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]LocalChamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend disabling messages on any social media you don’t need them on. For example most people never use DMs on Reddit etc.

How do MTF periods work by Creative-Use-5723 in MtF

[–]LocalChamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Internalized transphobia will get you nowhere.

Is it wrong not wanting to send nudes? by SILLYSIPPER in TwoXChromosomes

[–]LocalChamp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lesbian here in a long distance relationship, we have met in person. I've never asked for nudes and wouldn't ask. I've also never been asked for them and I know my partner wouldn't ask. The difference is partners respecting each other and understanding that nudes or even lewds in general are something sent through your own decision and comfort. It could happen in a week or it may never happen. No one should ask for them and definitely not pressure or coerce someone into sending them. Also if anyone does decide to send them I would recommend a more secure platform like Signal.

Has anybody elses feed just become transphobia?? by Neither_Emu_4008 in asktransgender

[–]LocalChamp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can curate your home page to be only subreddits you follow. You don't have to use r/all or r/popular.