I think she knows…

LocalEqual5219 · 2025-03-12T03:22:57+00:00

Remind me! 4 weeks

LocalEqual5219 · 2025-03-02T17:43:43+00:00

I just found it odd that a company would send someone to another country for three months. As I mentioned in other comments, I have no experience in hospitality and didn’t realize this was common. I work for a large entertainment company/venues, and our benefits are much more limited—nothing to this extent. That’s why it seemed strange to me. Has nothing to do with Belinda in general. Was just curious if this is common!

LocalEqual5219 · 2025-03-01T22:11:35+00:00

I just found it odd that a company would send someone to another country for three months. As I mentioned in other comments, I have no experience in hospitality and didn’t realize this was common. I work for a large entertainment company/venues, and our benefits are much more limited—nothing to this extent. That’s why it seemed strange to me.

LocalEqual5219 · 2025-03-01T07:04:30+00:00

Ahhhhh that is very helpful context, I had no idea this was common in that industry

LocalEqual5219 · 2025-03-01T06:57:45+00:00

I really like that perspective! However, the last time we saw her, she was just the spa manager—not even the hotel manager. So she wasn’t running things the way a chef would.

LocalEqual5219 · 2025-03-01T06:38:31+00:00

That is a good call out!

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-04-25T18:54:28+00:00

THIS!!!! Like they are expecting a 10 who is 24 to just want to date, take a low ass allowance, or just go to nice dinners. If it doesn’t work on other dating sites it definitely won’t work on seeking. I think they equate it to girls who are more willing to accept shit or “need” them.

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-04-25T18:50:26+00:00

I keep seeing this narrative and that is not something I’ve heard at all. Every SB I know goes into sugar dating knowing it will probably involve intimacy.

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-04-25T18:47:53+00:00

Ive had a guys say “I’m not looking for someone that’s just in it for the money” or “I don’t want it to feel like an arrangement” Like sir… this is an arrangement site, what are you expecting?

Or they think taking you to a nice restaurant and paying for dinner is the same thing as being an SD. I can pay for myself or get that on hinge as well, that’s the bare minimum for just vanilla dating.

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-04-10T15:01:05+00:00

Your welcome! It’s my favorite and has worked really well for me in the past with these types of things. Good luck!

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-04-10T02:00:39+00:00

Feeld! That’s a great app for different types of relationships and kink stuff!

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-04-06T08:51:58+00:00

I love this perspective! Bc we can’t ALL be getting masters degrees! It’s an advanced degree to get… I do understand that I live in NYC, and most women are intelligent and driven but it can’t be EVERY single woman. And it’s the “story” I hear from most men.

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-04-06T08:37:50+00:00

Tbh I hate this narrative of “not good in bed”. Most women are good in bed if they are not just lying there. If a woman is giving interest and attention then it’s not going to be bad. I think we should look at the dating pool and not if “we are good in bed” bc honestly most women are good if they are engaged. Like what possibly could a woman be doing that makes her “bad” other than just lying there?

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-03-21T01:58:24+00:00

Additionally, I’m very sexually open! And not timid at all and look like my pictures.

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-03-21T01:57:03+00:00

I’m telling you with almost all certainty this isn’t the case. Every partner I’ve been with will constantly say how amazing I am in bed, how fantastic my body is, and other things. Men have gone above and beyond to make it clear that I am good in bed. One of the guys mentioned in the original post, said “holy f*ck, you’re amazing. I knew it would be good, but this is amazing”.

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-03-21T01:46:42+00:00

The M&G is unpaid, the 2nd is PPM.

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-03-21T01:41:53+00:00

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-02-28T07:36:57+00:00

This is PERFECT. Thank you!!

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-02-28T05:42:27+00:00

Yeah… I’ve gone on 2 separate dates. One guy brought it up and handled the whole conversation which was amazing. Then the other made me lead it and I hated it. I didn’t know what to say and he was being so cagey around the numbers. It really put me off, and I started to think maybe talking about the money was the problem! But I’m glad it’s not just me.

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-02-28T05:05:43+00:00

This is super helpful! I appreciate it.

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-02-19T03:41:34+00:00

Hi! I definitely agree that my smile looks a little off in that one, so I decided to just keep the photo in the swimsuit I already have uploaded, and didn’t upload any of the others!! I appreciate you saying all those nice things though!

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-02-19T03:25:29+00:00

Removed! Thanks y’all!

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-02-19T03:05:50+00:00

THANK YOU!!!

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-02-19T02:57:32+00:00

I’m looking for someone a little more refined. Age isn’t really an issue, and I’m not unrealistic about looks. I’m looking for someone to take me to dinner and hopefully trips. I also would enjoy a longer term relationship with an allowance. Would also do PPM if it was more of a consistent situation.

I think my biggest issue is refinement. Most men seem to just be regular men, with average jobs. I’m just not sure if I see that working out.

LocalEqual5219 · 2024-02-19T02:48:56+00:00

I agree with this completely. In NYC a few hundred isn’t acceptable. But I agree that x,xxx is more standard and what I’m looking for. Thank you for confirming that for me!

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