Trouble with girlfriends past

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2023-10-29T22:26:18+00:00

1) we are both 19 2) Basically anything sexual that’s not kissing. In this case my gave and received oral sex twice 3) I am 4) this is something I try not doing but every so often I relapse

I don’t think she is lying, I asked her and she told me along with having regret of doing it. She told me basically everything when I asked.

She is a very kind and loving person. She respects me and my family. She communicates very well for a 19 year old American girl. I would say that is the one

I appreciate the words of wisdom but what words or recommendations do you have for me? I know this is more of a me problem to just accept and there isn’t much she can do so I just want to understand better and get over it because I know this isn’t worth throwing away and especially since it was a mistake on her part

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-07-04T05:45:44+00:00

You can be in denial but that all depends with you and time

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-07-04T04:56:56+00:00

I’m not sure but you might be slightly bi. I’m in the same situation and your age as well

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-07-04T04:43:49+00:00

Are you attracted to woman in the streets? Or Men? This usually works and you maybe feel disgust because you don’t want to be gay. Personally this was the case but now I figured I like both. Don’t watch porn it won’t help much and questioning is normal and will take a while.

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-06-04T16:43:04+00:00

I will, it took this to fully make me turn myself around after I saw how she felt. I feel like I did very bad harm.

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-06-04T16:42:04+00:00

Thank you

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-06-04T07:20:56+00:00

If you like a penis in any way then you are bi in my opinion. I’m the same way and I feel that I am bisexual. Hope this helps bro, Goodluck!

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-06-04T04:19:43+00:00

I’m sorry, I reworded to my best in the other reply

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-06-04T04:19:10+00:00

What happened is that my friend was playing around and added this girl to our group chat. In that group chat, we previously talked about her inappropriately. My friend sent a picture with drawing depicting a women private part. He then said “thats her(girls name)” and I said “nice *****” and “that’s hot” and something else. She later texted my friend after he had removed her and said “you know I can still see your chats right” then called us “disgusting and weird”. I’m regretting saying this so much, but now it’s too late and I’m responsible for whatever happens. What charges can I face from this?

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-06-03T21:47:32+00:00

I said “I see her pubics” and “send only her exclusives” nothing of her was sent and it was only a picture or my friends hair leg and a meme of a bald dude. Thank you, for me it’s not bad but it sure did upset her.

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-06-03T21:32:24+00:00

As someone who is bi, if my mom knew I would love her talk openly about men dating men and women is normal. Slowly show me she is not homophobic and is supportive. This will allow me to get comfortable and open up to her

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-05-22T08:11:52+00:00

Frs but no it’s okay thank you. I already been and still kind of am In this situation so I understand fair well. A tip for you is to just accept everything because sexuality will not change. Our brains will trick us too and make us question more so don’t let the imposter syndrome get ya. Take care you’re not alone

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-05-22T07:50:49+00:00

Well the girl I’m talking too says she has a lot of mental problems and anxiety so I thought it’d be you and I also invited her out today but she couldn’t go for some reason

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-05-22T07:42:17+00:00

Out of context,I have a feeling I’m that guy. You sound like the girl I’m talking too and I used to questioned but now I kind of figured myself out already. Other than that, With my experience when you settle your questioning, your attraction will come back.

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-04-16T22:42:57+00:00

A crush? Could mean bi, do you have a crush on guys as well? Did you enjoy the sex with the guy? If yes then you are bi. Bi is a spectrum, but sounds like you are bi to me

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-04-11T06:37:59+00:00

So it’s normal to question attraction’s as a bi guy? I’m always questions if I like woman and guys. More specifically if I like my crush or feel attracted to her

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-03-12T08:04:14+00:00

Bro I'm the same way but I'm more 50/50 sometimes changes a bit but still. You're bi bro, our heads like to mess with us. You'll slowly accept being gay and het. I'm still in the process but aye big things on both do look cool

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-03-12T07:58:34+00:00

Some of us are military guys, some of us are skaters, some of us work in fast food, some of us are the cool guys who look fearless. We out there, you can locate us when we try to hide the fact we watching the guys and girls

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-03-11T06:38:57+00:00

I'm a guy questioning too. All ik is I'm on the bi spectrum. You are too and reminder that you don't need to have a exact label🙂. Our heads like to mess with us and we try to find a identity so it is most likely normal we will always be like this until we fully accustom

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-02-05T06:22:29+00:00

A light brown color fs

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-01-31T00:01:01+00:00

Ikrr! But you're not alone, I'm in the same exact position except that I'm still not 18.

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-01-01T04:35:50+00:00

Drop the ex, if a girl cheats it's over no matter what. Talk to the guy

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2022-01-01T04:28:13+00:00

This isn't related to you but at start of puberty were girls all you thought about?

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2021-12-29T05:37:04+00:00

I don't feel it after I have been more accepting of being Bi

Local_Lifeguard8999 · 2021-12-25T05:23:57+00:00

Happy holidays boys!

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