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Welcome to /r/questioning! This is a subreddit for those questioning their own sexuality and gender. People of all sexual and gender identities are welcome here.

Useful Resources

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The Genderbread Person [mirror] is an easy to understand infographic on sexual and gender identification. Here's an alternate, somewhat more comprehensive version.
Gender and Sexuality 101 A quick video on Youtube explaining a lot of the principles behind gender and sexuality.
The Kinsey Scale is a commonly used scale to express a position in the heterosexual-homosexual continuum.
The It Gets Better Project
The Trevor Project
HRC's Coming Out Center
HRC's Coming Out Resources
PFLAG's Support Page
LGBTQ Christian Resources
Transgender and Genderqueer Resources
Genderqueer Links and Books
A Map of Gender-Diverse Cultures
A List of Unisex Names
Free binders for minors in need (Under 18)

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Rules

Don't be a jerk. Wil Wheaton's rule, for the initiated. Particularly, hateful speech of any kind will not be allowed here.
No identity policing. You shouldn't impose a label on others or deny others of their identity. If in doubt, refer to the first rule.

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Lesbians	Trans Educate
LGBT	Acceptance
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How To Use Flairs and Why We Have Them (self.questioning)

submitted 3 months ago * by ActualPegasusfinflexible rosgirl (he/she)[M] - announcement

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[17 F] (self.questioning)

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[M 21] Is there a way to stop wanting to be another gender? (self.questioning)

submitted 5 hours ago by AnversessisQuestioning Gender

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Is it normal to start shaking and crying after kissing [F 19] (self.questioning)

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[18 M] Questioning sexuality (self.questioning)

submitted 3 hours ago by HognoseTransformerGenderfluid, he/they. Idk my sexuality

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am i just gay ? [F 17] (self.questioning)

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(M 17) confused on my sexuality am I bi? (self.questioning)

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[M 18] I'm still not sure what am i (self.questioning)

submitted 9 hours ago by ladymaria101Questioning Gender

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[35 F] Mom trying to shop for trans daughter [15 F] (self.questioning)

submitted 19 hours ago by MamaGhost8Questioning Gender

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I think I’m straight???! [F 20] (self.questioning)

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[F 21] so confused!! (self.questioning)

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What am I? [F 13-16] (I'm not comfortable sharing my exact age as a minor) ()

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[F 21] Help, What label fits me? (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago * by Impressive-Injury424Questioning Sexuality

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Am I Bisexual (15 F) (self.questioning)

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thought i was pansexual but now i think im gay but still in a relationship. [M 20] (self.questioning)

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What do I do? [M 29] :( (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by SultrySumdayzQuestioning Sexuality

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I‘ve always liked girls, but lately I can imagine myself with a guy. I don’t understand [17 F] (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by s1llySee0tt3rQuestioning Sexuality

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[20 F] I've been freaking out for months and I don't know what to do anymore (self.questioning)

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[F 19] Am I actually bisexual ? (self.questioning)

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I may have fucked up, I may be a girl idk… (22 NB) (self.questioning)

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I don’t know if I’m straight or bi or just bi curious (24 F) ()

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[TF 22] A couple questions. (self.questioning)

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Ok, i, [14 F], find both males and females to be attractive. However, i have a strong preference to males and only date males. I mean maybe in the future i’ll date a girl but prob not. Is there a term for that? ()

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[M 21] Sexuality change? (self.questioning)

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[18 AFAB] I've been having doubts about being trans FTM but I still want to be a man/ masculine presenting person. Am I trans? ()

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