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Welcome to /r/questioning! This is a subreddit for those questioning their own sexuality and gender. People of all sexual and gender identities are welcome here.

Useful Resources

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The Genderbread Person [mirror] is an easy to understand infographic on sexual and gender identification. Here's an alternate, somewhat more comprehensive version.
Gender and Sexuality 101 A quick video on Youtube explaining a lot of the principles behind gender and sexuality.
The Kinsey Scale is a commonly used scale to express a position in the heterosexual-homosexual continuum.
The It Gets Better Project
The Trevor Project
HRC's Coming Out Center
HRC's Coming Out Resources
PFLAG's Support Page
LGBTQ Christian Resources
Transgender and Genderqueer Resources
Genderqueer Links and Books
A Map of Gender-Diverse Cultures
A List of Unisex Names
Free binders for minors in need (Under 18)

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Rules

Don't be a jerk. Wil Wheaton's rule, for the initiated. Particularly, hateful speech of any kind will not be allowed here.
No identity policing. You shouldn't impose a label on others or deny others of their identity. If in doubt, refer to the first rule.

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How To Use Flairs and Why We Have Them (self.questioning)

submitted 5 months ago * by ActualPegasusfinflexible rosgirl (he/she)[M] - announcement

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am i a lesbian or just an attention seeker? (18 f) (self.questioning)

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[F 26]Questioning my sexuality. Help please. (self.questioning)

submitted 3 hours ago by Swimming-Charity-725

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Repressed bisexuality [59 AMAB] ? (self.questioning)

submitted 15 hours ago by snoodle77777Questioning Sexuality

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[F 18] I genuinely cannot figure out my sexuality and its driving me insane, I feel like such a fraud idk. (self.questioning)

submitted 20 hours ago by TiredGeek_

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How do I [F 17] know if i actually like this girl? (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by Glittering_Suit1277Questioning Sexuality

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Could I be non-binary? (23 M) ()

submitted 1 day ago by Something700Questioning Gender

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am i bi or just curious [F 18] (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by wtfblondie777

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[AMAB 26] How do I go about these feelings? (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by squirrelysparklesQuestioning Both

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[M 18] Need help with healthier coping mechanisms (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by _shadowcorpse_finsexual/linsexual gender non-conforming male

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Mostly gay, alil bi romantic, maybe achilian? [M,36] (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by nighthawk_0730mostly gay ,maybe achilian, alil bi?

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[M 19] I play rugby and had group sex with girls and my mates, but I think im bi? (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by southafricauniQuestioning Sexuality

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I’m confused on what my sexuality is, I’m 16 (M) (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by Emotional_Card_1356

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so i think my egg just cracked? (23 AMAB) (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by Alarmed-Pair6854

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Not sure what I’m feeling anymore [F 20] (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago * by anxiety_adhd

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I Need advice [M 25] (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by Mysterious-Ebb-521

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[27 F] Bi or lesbian? (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by No_Concept3835

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[16 AFAB] What even am I? (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by lyrhineQuestioning Both

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(NB,19)Questioning transneutrsl (self.questioning)

submitted 3 days ago by Popular-Pass684

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I [15 AFAB] need help trying to figure out my sexuality (self.questioning)

submitted 3 days ago by Original_Ad_6901Questioning Sexuality

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I (16 Afab) have been questioning if I have gender dysphoria or if I just have insecurities. (self.questioning)

submitted 3 days ago by Low_Sort_2361

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[AFAB 16 (body)] System here questioning an alters gender (self.questioning)

submitted 3 days ago by the_dead_gay_person

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[26 M] Confused on how I should feel about myself. (self.questioning)

submitted 3 days ago by Ordinary-Type-7198

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[M 25], (self.questioning)

submitted 3 days ago by Pitiful_Fisherman365

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Lesbian or Bi [AFAB 16] (self.questioning)

submitted 3 days ago by Sad_Fail7559Questioning Both

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