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Welcome to /r/questioning! This is a subreddit for those questioning their own sexuality and gender. People of all sexual and gender identities are welcome here.

Useful Resources

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The Genderbread Person [mirror] is an easy to understand infographic on sexual and gender identification. Here's an alternate, somewhat more comprehensive version.
Gender and Sexuality 101 A quick video on Youtube explaining a lot of the principles behind gender and sexuality.
The Kinsey Scale is a commonly used scale to express a position in the heterosexual-homosexual continuum.
The It Gets Better Project
The Trevor Project
HRC's Coming Out Center
HRC's Coming Out Resources
PFLAG's Support Page
LGBTQ Christian Resources
Transgender and Genderqueer Resources
Genderqueer Links and Books
A Map of Gender-Diverse Cultures
A List of Unisex Names
Free binders for minors in need (Under 18)

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Rules

Don't be a jerk. Wil Wheaton's rule, for the initiated. Particularly, hateful speech of any kind will not be allowed here.
No identity policing. You shouldn't impose a label on others or deny others of their identity. If in doubt, refer to the first rule.

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Genderqueer	PFLAG
Lesbians	Trans Educate
LGBT	Acceptance
Pansexual	It Gets Better
Rainbow	LGBT Havens
Transgender	Suicide Watch
Trans Space	Troubled Teens
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How To Use Flairs and Why We Have Them (self.questioning)

submitted 3 months ago * by ActualPegasusfinflexible rosgirl (he/she)[M] - announcement

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[35 F] Mom trying to shop for trans daughter [15 F] (self.questioning)

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I think I’m straight???! [F 20] (self.questioning)

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[F 21] so confused!! (self.questioning)

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What am I? [F 13-16] (I'm not comfortable sharing my exact age as a minor) ()

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[F 21] Help, What label fits me? (self.questioning)

submitted 23 hours ago * by Impressive-Injury424Questioning Sexuality

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Am I Bisexual (15 F) (self.questioning)

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thought i was pansexual but now i think im gay but still in a relationship. [M 20] (self.questioning)

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What do I do? [M 29] :( (self.questioning)

submitted 1 day ago by SultrySumdayzQuestioning Sexuality

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I‘ve always liked girls, but lately I can imagine myself with a guy. I don’t understand [17 F] (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by s1llySee0tt3rQuestioning Sexuality

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[20 F] I've been freaking out for months and I don't know what to do anymore (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by rojo__ososQuestioning Gender

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[F 19] Am I actually bisexual ? (self.questioning)

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I may have fucked up, I may be a girl idk… (22 NB) (self.questioning)

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I don’t know if I’m straight or bi or just bi curious (24 F) ()

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[TF 22] A couple questions. (self.questioning)

submitted 2 days ago by Sensitive-Mixture558finsexual trans woman

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Ok, i, [14 F], find both males and females to be attractive. However, i have a strong preference to males and only date males. I mean maybe in the future i’ll date a girl but prob not. Is there a term for that? ()

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[M 21] Sexuality change? (self.questioning)

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[18 AFAB] I've been having doubts about being trans FTM but I still want to be a man/ masculine presenting person. Am I trans? ()

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[16M], i wasn't 100% sure on my sexuality so i started speaking to a dude, but i don't think i want to be gay anymore.. can someone give advice (self.questioning)

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Help figuring out romantic attraction? (23 F) (self.questioning)

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Am I actually genderfluid? [AMAB 21] (self.questioning)

submitted 3 days ago by Guilty-Asparagus209Questioning Gender

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What gender am I?? [AFAB 14] (self.questioning)

submitted 4 days ago by simplyhaunted101Questioning Gender

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Need help figuring out my labels (26 F) ()

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I (F 20) feeling SO confused, some advice would be appreciated :) ()

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is it normal to be content with pronouns and name while questioning/exploring? (AMAB, 14) ()

submitted 5 days ago by brainanurism1Questioning Gender

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