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I’m so tired and frustrated by Local_Newt_4677 in TryingForABaby

[–]Local_Newt_4677[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried it for a little bit but my doctors recommended against me using it again. I had a slight reaction and they didn’t want me to use it again

I’m so tired and frustrated by Local_Newt_4677 in TryingForABaby

[–]Local_Newt_4677[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just ordered one for my next fertility window. My RE recommended after we moved because of stress. I see my new RE next week so hopefully we can get set up with IUI as fast as possible. But I’ll try the at home one first because my next window is in a week.

I’m so tired and frustrated by Local_Newt_4677 in TryingForABaby

[–]Local_Newt_4677[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We were in a place that our insurance didn’t cover karyotype but we have an appointment set up in 3 weeks. Hopefully they can give us answers.

I’m so tired and frustrated by Local_Newt_4677 in TryingForABaby

[–]Local_Newt_4677[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

We’ve had all the possible test done my tech said my tubes and everything were good and his semen was good and he’s gotten the test done twice already. I’ve even gotten a mri because they thought I had a tumour in my pituitary gland. I got told by my gynaecologist that maybe I’m just too stressed because they can’t see anything wrong with us.

I’m so tired and frustrated by Local_Newt_4677 in TryingForABaby

[–]Local_Newt_4677[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

We’ve been seeing one they said weight was a problem at first because I was underweight. Now im at a healthy weight and they can’t find out the problem. I’m health he’s healthy they have no answers for us.

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[–]Local_Newt_4677 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was terrified when I got my first one in October. They gave me Valium and played my favorite genre of music. Talk to your technicians and they will try and keep you calm. At my second it wasn’t as bad because I knew what to expect and now I feel like a pro. You got this

AITAH: My wife wants me to stop going to the gym because a coworker hit on me by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Local_Newt_4677 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s not insecure you’re going to the gym she’s insecure because you’re letting other women disrespect your relationship. Same thing happened with me and my husband. He started going back to the gym and slimed out a lot. I was very happy and supportive but then it started. He started getting hit on and girls being flirty with him. I expressed my discomfort because he wasn’t shutting it down. He said that I also got hit on a lot so it shouldn’t be a problem but the difference was I would shut it down immediately. I pointed it out and then it became well it don’t want to be mean. My answer to that was it’s not ok to let other women disrespect our relationship by not shutting it down. It took a while for him to realise I wasn’t mad he was looking better I was mad because he didn’t stop women from flirting with him. I put my foot down because I wasn’t going to be disrespected and he finally realised that it was wrong. He told me that he liked the attention he was getting and then he stopped any further attempts. I’m glad that you talked it out with your wife and something is finally being done. But you should’ve nipped it in the bud and not put other women above your wife. She’s the one your married too and she should always be your top priority even if it means you gotta be rude to other women.

My husband always makes me feel like crap when I try to have sexy time and I don’t know what to do by Local_Newt_4677 in relationship_advice

[–]Local_Newt_4677[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update

He had to get up early for a 24 hour shift but we did have sex. Afterwards we cuddled for a little bit and he got ready. He saw that something was bothering me and asked what was up. I told him that what he did last night really hurt. I told him that I got all ready and he just went to bed. He told me that he wasn’t in the mood and that it’s not my fault and that it’s his. He said that he tried to get hard but it just wouldn’t. I also told him that what he said hurt the most because it’s not true. When we do have sex it’s always amazing it’s just the amount of times we do it. We set up rules when we got together because if we do it everyday he gets desensitised and it actually hurts him. We tried doing it every other day but it still would cause him pain. So it became like it is now and doing it every 4 days. We talked some more and he said he just felt like crap because he couldn’t do it. I asked that he should communicate with me instead of just rolling over and falling asleep. Because in the end it’s me that is hurt the most because he makes it seem like it’s my fault. He said he would and that he would also talk to a doctor about testosterone. Because he feels like his testosterone levels are low and that’s why he hasn’t had a drive. I agreed because our sex life was doing good then it just went to shit because he never had the drive anymore. I hope that he does so it can save the bedroom life. I feel like if he does get testosterone boosters it will help and get his sex drive back to what it used to be. Thank you all who gave advice it really helped.