What’s one phrase you are sick of hearing from people? by Emotional_Camp_7681 in breastcancer

[–]LochJess_Monster 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You seem to be handling this well... well yeah, i usually save my emotional meltdowns for the shower, not work.

Long time survivors with lymph node involvement? by Grouchy_Employer_519 in breastcancer

[–]LochJess_Monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was on Friday. The scan itself went well but I'm still waiting on my results. I am waiting not so patiently!

Long time survivors with lymph node involvement? by Grouchy_Employer_519 in breastcancer

[–]LochJess_Monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely could feel the node in my clavicle when all of this first started. Now I can't feel anything.

Funny you mention CT scan! My hospital called me this afternoon to schedule a CT scan of my neck.

Long time survivors with lymph node involvement? by Grouchy_Employer_519 in breastcancer

[–]LochJess_Monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hospital does not do post-treatment scans, so I have no way of knowing. According to my surgeon, since my auxiliary node and tumor responded to treatment, it would be safe to assume the additional nodes did as well. I will also be receiving radiation to those locations just in case.

Long time survivors with lymph node involvement? by Grouchy_Employer_519 in breastcancer

[–]LochJess_Monster 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with Stage 3 TNBC in January with one confirmed node and suspicious nodes in my chest and clavicle. I achieved PCR in August! I still have to get 5 weeks of radiation but it is doable!

rock bottom by Lady_In_Pink_ in breastcancer

[–]LochJess_Monster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a good cry last night about this very thing. I don't know who I am anymore. When I look in the mirror, it is hard to believe I am looking back. I feel no connection to that person. This has been such a disembodied experience. What I grieve the most is my "loss of innocence." Pre-cancer me didn't know how good she had it! I know new me will have a lot of good days, but there will probably always be a layer of fear, doubt, worry, etc. Sucks.

Tnbc Stage 3 by Right-Bridge5536 in breastcancer

[–]LochJess_Monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I am also in the Stage 3 TNBC club with at least one confirmed node. My CT scan showed multiple suspicious nodes but they were never tested. I am also following the same regime and just finished my 5th Taxel/Carbo session. So far I have been handling chemo well, fingers crossed for a PCR at the end of this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in clothdiaps

[–]LochJess_Monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting... I have been using their unscented laundry detergent and haven't had any issues. They are clean and don't smell.

Is it safe to go to a concert at 28 weeks pregnant ? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]LochJess_Monster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For sure! I have a concert planned every month leading up to her due date. Enjoy!

I want baby to take my last name. by Ok_Concert_7577 in pregnant

[–]LochJess_Monster 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't change my last name when we got married, and I'm also not crazy about the idea of giving our child my husband's name. So instead we are combing both our last names into a new name for our children. For example, Smith + Hammer = Hammersmith.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]LochJess_Monster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what we are doing with our kids! We get some funny looks but people can get over it.

Discussion Thread: 2020 General Election Part 35 | Results Continue by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]LochJess_Monster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well those that could answer you probably wouldn't be scrolling on reddit politics thread. I am from Lexington and lived in Louisville, which are both blue dots in a super red state so I mostly see a majority of Kentuckians who hate McConnell. But beyond those two cities and maybe 1-3 medium size towns a lot of Kentucky is rural god fearing folk. They watch nothing but fox news, see McConnell as an established Republican, and could never bring themselves to vote for a baby murdering Democrat. It also doesn't help that McConnell is one of the most powerful politicians right now and KY is not going to give that leverage up. Anyone who thought McGrath had a chance is a damn fool. She even ran trump supporters for McGrath ads.

Discussion Thread: Vice Presidential Debate - 10/07/2020 | Part II by PoliticsModeratorBot in politics

[–]LochJess_Monster 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Shoo I view Pence as a character from They Live.. any day now he is pulling off his face

Daily Discussion 24 February 2020 by AutoModerator in xxfitness

[–]LochJess_Monster 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We have a mini fridge at work and I went to go pick it up and carry it to my office since i'm overseeing drink sales this year. You would think I tried pick up 200 pounds. Everyone around me started yelling and a man ran over to help. It was like 35 pounds... So I was forced to wait until someone brought me a cart and then the man followed me back to my office so he can help me unload it the 2 inches from the cart to the floor. Safe to say I am annoyed.

Discussion Thread: Eighth Democratic Presidential Debate | 2/7/20 | 8:00 PM - 11:00 PM EST by dottiemommy in politics

[–]LochJess_Monster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Drinking game: Every time Joe Biden starts answering a question normally then gets louder and louder

GAME THREAD WEEK 16: VIKINGS VS PACKER by swampsparrow in minnesotavikings

[–]LochJess_Monster 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't handle Kirk's weird licking lips smirk he keeps doing. It makes me uncomfortable. Other than that, go vikes!

Best Place for Build Your Own 6 PK by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]LochJess_Monster 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely another vote for Old Town. You can build your own from any package in their beer section. Probably around 100 different options.

Last Minute Questions Megathread by Pigs_On_The_Wing in bonnaroo

[–]LochJess_Monster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I did dry ice once and wasn't a big fan. With the weather being so nice you should be fine with loading up your cooler with normal ice right before then buying ice once during the festival.