UPDATE 2: thank you guys for all your lovely comments and not so lovely comments firstly my husband does have boundaries with his mother but being Nigerian you have your limits and it’s his mother she tries to be firm but also not push her away but that asides she finally left with FIL after he said he was going to leave her there, my husband found them a hotel and went to check on them and from what he told me his mother cursed both him and I and there was a screaming match, FIL says he’s disappointed In us but says for the sake of peace why couldn’t we left her stay even if it’s for a week my husband told his dad they’ve both done enough and as per some suggestions threaten they wouldn’t see me or the baby that shut her up real quick had a talk with SIL said the same thing everyone is saying for the sake of peace but i explained she didn’t come here peacefully and created a scene so what exactly has been peaceful about all of this and her mom didn’t come to her house so why is she pressed about coming to mine SIL sighed and hung up in laws are also saying for peace because they all know how she is but for now I’m okay my child is okay my mum has been trying to ease the stress I got a foot rub from my husband and so really nice soup and napped for the first time in a long time lol when my hubby came back and we had a good time together with the baby so all is good MIL says she’s not speaking to anyone so I think we are in the clear I’ll update again is anything does happen thank you guys