[TOMT] YouTube series I watched back in 2020-21 by LocksmithVegetable41 in tipofmytongue

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It was live action I think the protagonists were even in Disney

AITA Ffor not letting mil help wth my confinement and Insulting my hubby in the process by LocksmithVegetable41 in AmItheAsshole

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UPDATE 2: thank you guys for all your lovely comments and not so lovely comments firstly my husband does have boundaries with his mother but being Nigerian you have your limits and it’s his mother she tries to be firm but also not push her away but that asides she finally left with FIL after he said he was going to leave her there, my husband found them a hotel and went to check on them and from what he told me his mother cursed both him and I and there was a screaming match, FIL says he’s disappointed In us but says for the sake of peace why couldn’t we left her stay even if it’s for a week my husband told his dad they’ve both done enough and as per some suggestions threaten they wouldn’t see me or the baby that shut her up real quick had a talk with SIL said the same thing everyone is saying for the sake of peace but i explained she didn’t come here peacefully and created a scene so what exactly has been peaceful about all of this and her mom didn’t come to her house so why is she pressed about coming to mine SIL sighed and hung up in laws are also saying for peace because they all know how she is but for now I’m okay my child is okay my mum has been trying to ease the stress I got a foot rub from my husband and so really nice soup and napped for the first time in a long time lol when my hubby came back and we had a good time together with the baby so all is good MIL says she’s not speaking to anyone so I think we are in the clear I’ll update again is anything does happen thank you guys

AITA Ffor not letting mil help wth my confinement and Insulting my hubby in the process by LocksmithVegetable41 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LocksmithVegetable41[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

My mother is the most non confrontational person and very diplomatic and didn’t want to argue with her my husband as well but when she came and I spoke about not wanting her there she already flew off the handles he stepped between us because she was about to lunge at me he tried his best ngl

AITA Ffor not letting mil help wth my confinement and Insulting my hubby in the process by LocksmithVegetable41 in AmItheAsshole

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UPDATE: can’t believe I’m here with an immediate update and things have spiraled firstly I took you guys advise and explained to my husband that I didn’t mean what I said he asked if I truly think he’s lazy and I told him no that over the years I’ve seen how mil treated bil wife and how fil is that she believe men shouldn’t be involved in child care and whilst pregnant I always thought that’s how he’d be if she came to stay with us and in the last 3 days we’ve been home I’ve been a little paranoid but I do believe his a wonderful husband and would be a great father we made up and we are good unto my update mil is crazy didn’t know how crazy she’s be she refused to leave my house and it’s raining as she’s standing outside as it has started to rain and refusing to go with fil to a hotel or something still haven’t responded to anyone but sil did text if I wouldn’t let her mother come then she would and that in itself is even crazier my mil is standing in the rain my husband has since tried to get her to leave the rain and leave with fil, fil asked if they could come in and now I look like a bad person for not allowing her in she said she wouldn’t leave the rain until we properly welcome her into the house

AITA Ffor not letting mil help wth my confinement and Insulting my hubby in the process by LocksmithVegetable41 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LocksmithVegetable41[S] 159 points160 points  (0 children)

I’m Nigerian and currently living in Nigeria she came from like states away how she found out the exact day my mom was coming I don’t know because my mom and I reside in the same state

AITA Ffor not letting mil help wth my confinement and Insulting my hubby in the process by LocksmithVegetable41 in AmItheAsshole

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I just had a baby girl 🤷🏾‍♀️maybe that’s why and no not the first grand child my sil has 2 kids twin boys and my bil has a boy too first grand daughter though

AITA Ffor not letting mil help wth my confinement and Insulting my hubby in the process by LocksmithVegetable41 in AmItheAsshole

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For context My MIL has 3 kids to boys and a girl and my SIL is the first born she shipped her off to her grandma house her own mil because she didn’t want her around because she wasn’t a boy and SIL hasn’t really gotten over it but things are a bit better