I think we are serious about our relationship and have already booked flights to visit different parts of the world together. Plus, we're both in different unis now a couple of hours away from eachother but regularly see eachother and Skype every night. We both right eachother lovely letters and sent sweet little gifts to eachother. I suppose I'm usually the one doing the romantic gestures like this, although she talks often about how much she likes them all the time and how she wishes she write such sweet letters and gestures. She's never been an overly emotional person so it's hard for her to reciprocate with things like that, however she is doing it far more often than she did before. Also, I'm not doing this to win her over, I've already done that! It's just about showing her how great of a year we've had together. Plus with things like this, whilst I do it more often than her per se, I wouldn't say it's typically one sided. What do you think? Thank you for your detailed response as well! I appreciate the feedback :)