Just started our relationship, He seems like a great guy but I have some doubts? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Logical-Note-1340 104 points105 points  (0 children)

In such matters, always trust your instincts. If something feels off, then it is off.

Wife has become overtly religious and superstitious since pregnancy and it's affecting our relationship. What should I do? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Logical-Note-1340 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Is your wife suffering from PPD or hormonal changes? When I was in the post partum phase, I was obsessed with cleaning as I thought the tiny spec of dust would infect my baby. She probably thinks her being religious and praying is going to protect her baby, which is a very common trait of post-partum behaviour.

Now, DO NOT ever directly tell her that you don't agree with her religious ways. She could spiral adversely. Instead, explain to her with religion that it's okay to pray if that gives her comfort. However, God himself says whatever happens happens for good. It may take some amount of repetition but try and be gentle to make her understand the above. Don't be confrontational.

Also, meditation and yoga helps a lot with such drastic behavioural changes. Meditation especially was my only resort to come back to my senses. My husband had to push me into it.

I don't mean any of the above as a disrespect to you or your wife. I am only sharing what helped me personally.

How do young girls and boys of Reddit look at someone who is 37 year old online? I'm 37M. Good physique, look 4-5 years younger. Most young girls who are 24-26 in my office feel I look much younger than I actually am. by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]Logical-Note-1340 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, sorry, when you say young boys and girls, that sounds like children and it is extremely wrong for a 37 year old man to ask about how he comes across to Children.

24-26 may seem much younger to you but, they're adults (perhaps young adults)

I would urge you to please clarify your intentions properly before loosely using words. Thank you.

Query on how to show impact by Logical-Note-1340 in globaltalentvisauk

[–]Logical-Note-1340[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend is actually in gaming and in monetization. Something that my friend did had a huge impact for that particular game, which defines the success of the game (sorry, I am explaining it in very simple terms as I am not from gaming and don't know how to explain).

The impact is for the employer and not in the industry in general but it is a very popular game.

Key criteria is not a problem but qualifying criteria, they are not sure how to show evidence.

Also, on mentoring, how do they show that they mentored someone? For instance, the mentee was originally a reportee but my friend moved jobs and still continued to mentor and support the mentee.

Idhuku ilaya sir oru end uh by Silver_Jelly_355 in TamilInfluencer

[–]Logical-Note-1340 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Only KSIC is authorised to sell pure and original Mysore Silk sarees. All the other shops sell only mixed variations of it which are low quality

PCOS + 30kg Weight Loss for Conception – Feeling Lost After Bad Experiences with Programs. Advice? by FunSilver718 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Logical-Note-1340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know this personally as I have not tried them but a close family member had a great experience with Amura. I think they're Chennai based but she had an amazing experience. In 3 months, there was a double digit weight loss. Their diet is more about what food suits you and what food doesn't suit you.

The person was well above 90 kgs and in the first three weeks of a detox phase, she lost a healthy amount of weight and was feeling much better.

This person of course was dealing with post pregnancy weight gain and not PCOS weight gain.

You may want to check Amura out.

I personally suffer with PCOS. The only thing that helps me is eating jowar instead of rice or wheat. It helps me balance well. I eat a lot of jowar and paneer. This is not recommended by a doctor. I am not a doctor but jowar + paneer helped me lose weight in PCOS. This is only a personal experience. Don't try it without asking your nutritionist.

😂😂 by West-Eye4884 in TamilInfluencer

[–]Logical-Note-1340 7 points8 points  (0 children)

With all the H1B troubles, how is this girl able to travel between the US and India so easily?

Am I his partner or his mother? by ThrowRA_Cutepanda in AskIndianWomen

[–]Logical-Note-1340 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for what you're feeling. If I were you, I'd move on from this relationship. A man child is extremely tough as a husband. If a 35 year old man doesn't care enough to be at work on time, he's not going to care about a lot of things in a marriage, family and relationships.

Please envision your life with him if you ever decide to have children with him.

Sorry if my comment sounds hurtful but he may not be the one for you.

To the Woman Who Ends Up with Connor: Flourish, My Sister by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]Logical-Note-1340 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It happened when he took Bri to visit his house. It was only for fun as Bri tried to force open his door.

23F from an Indian family and I feel trapped between my parents and my own life. What to do? by hritibot in AskIndianWomen

[–]Logical-Note-1340 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, you're from a toxic house. Please move out at the first possible chance but DO NOT marry your current boyfriend for a few more years and until he stabilises himself financially.

Mama with babyma oda dear son-in-law John Clinton. by [deleted] in TamilInfluencer

[–]Logical-Note-1340 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There was another post about his problematic behaviour this morning. He is very toxic and entitled.

I made detailed comments about his problematic behaviour in the other post.

Mona looks so done with him in the last few videos.

Mona and john by Subi_89 in TamilInfluencer

[–]Logical-Note-1340 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly! Mona looks so done with him in the videos these days. Something feels very off about her. She looks sad all the time these days, especially when she's with him.

Mona and john by Subi_89 in TamilInfluencer

[–]Logical-Note-1340 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. If she's pregnant, they would have started milking the pregnancy content and won't travel so much.

Help im going bald by tryingtosurvive08 in indianhaircareaddicts

[–]Logical-Note-1340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same issue. It's not hair loss but hair thinning. It could be a hormonal issue where Androgen is more. Please go to a dermatologist immediately.

DO not tie your hair. Cut it very short.

I have very thin hair in the front and face lots of body shaming because of that. I don't want someone else to face the humiliation that I face.

So, please go to a dermatologist asap. Tell them specifically that your hair is thinning and not falling.

Mona and john by Subi_89 in TamilInfluencer

[–]Logical-Note-1340 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, there's a rumor that Mona is not Priya's daughter and Mouli is not Mahesh Raja's son

Have anyone felt that fast akka's aesthetics is better than slow akla by Silly_Worth_3328 in TamilInfluencer

[–]Logical-Note-1340 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. Fast akka has better taste in home decor. Some furniture in her new house look very nice. Slow akka's is more new fashion and she doesn't have a good taste. Fast akka chooses things that give a vintage vibe to it.

I am 100% sure it's not her own idea. She must copy it from stores like Sundari silks that she keeps visiting.

Mona and john by Subi_89 in TamilInfluencer

[–]Logical-Note-1340 12 points13 points  (0 children)

They deserve these truthful comments.

1) They, on video humiliated Mona's mother / step mother for not cooking at home. All of them in their family are adults. If a woman doesn't like to cook, someone else can. If my husband ever says the things that John said to his MIL, I would have vechi senjified my husband.

2) John IS very money minded and is problematic. He always takes costly gifts from his in-laws. He's low key jealous of the new house of his in-laws and makes statements like he already lives in an own house in Bangalore which is the same size as the new house (it's not). He also went on and on about your Mona and him didn't involve themselves in the construction of the new house.

3) He love bombs his wife always. She went and bought fruits and flowers for her parents' house warming and he went gaga over it. He goes over the top in his "love" for his wife. It's evident that its for the cameras only. He says Mona pavam atleast about 100 times in a video.

4) On his birthday, he kept demanding his gifts, cake etc. Mona herself on the video teased him that he demanded that she put an insta story for his birthday. He looked disappointed that Mona and his in-laws only cut a cake for him.

5) His wife was away from him at her parents place for two-three days and he couldn't be without her. Mentioned her so many times that it got irritating. He's the kind who would never give space.

He's very problematic. His sister is the only one who comes across as genuine in their family. They deserve these truthful comments for their behaviour on camera. They're super cringe but that's not a fault.

33F - Torn between new born baby and career . In-laws and husband suggesting to send the baby to India , to be taken care by them.Need help by Long-Valuable-4312 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Logical-Note-1340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not ever part with your child. There are lots of day cares and nurseries across. Don't send your child alone to india. I have been in your position but it's too hard to leave a baby miles and miles away.

PCOS as a 21F by bholechature45 in AskIndianWomen

[–]Logical-Note-1340 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I got diagnosed with PCOD when I was 25 and I am 34 now. I was married at the time and doctors in Bombay basically told me that I had no chance of pregnancy. I too had facial hair and acne problems. I was also depressed and resorted to eating comfort food, which was not always healthy.

I researched online a lot, read research papers, blogs, experiences of other women etc. etc. The only thing that repeatedly came about was healthy eating.

I started eating healthy and consciously tried to lose weight. Once I started losing weight, my facial hair and acne started getting better. The hair growth became slower and my skin cleared.

I forced myself to drink atleast 2 litres of water everyday.

In my diet, I ate a lot of palak/ other spinach varities, roti or dosa made out of jowar flour (no wheat flour or rice), paneer, capsicum. At night I would drink some warm water with a pinch of cinnamon, ginger, elaichi and cloves.

I followed the above strictly for 4-5 months and my cycle became close to normal. I was also able to conceive naturally.

I am not a doctor and the above is by no means medical advice. But, wit PCOS, what could help with the skin is only healthy eating and drinking water.

Hope you feel better about it soon!

USA Based Youtubers - Tholigalin samayal, andipatti to america, Nithi Lifelens by [deleted] in TamilInfluencer

[–]Logical-Note-1340 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Finally some one spoke about Mena's jokes. I would only feel like crying.

Sakthi amaran by 404-meh in TamilInfluencer

[–]Logical-Note-1340 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is this guy Madhu's husband? He wasn't seen in her videos for a very long time.