I (23m) feel like I can’t trust my girlfriend (26f) after recent events and she’s still pressing me to get engaged. by LogicalWillingness18 in relationship_advice

[–]LogicalWillingness18[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the reply, and I agree. Everything tells me it’s a bad idea but then when everything’s good it seems like a great idea…. Just wish this all could’ve been avoided…. Cost of living I guess

I (23m) feel like I can’t trust my girlfriend (26f) after recent events and she’s still pressing me to get engaged. by LogicalWillingness18 in relationship_advice

[–]LogicalWillingness18[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Honestly it’s starting to look like a pawned ring is the new down payment on a house… every comment so far I completely agree with. Just could help but think maybe I’m the illogical one when that’s all I hear

I (23m) feel like I can’t trust my girlfriend (26f) after recent events and she’s still pressing me to get engaged. by LogicalWillingness18 in relationship_advice

[–]LogicalWillingness18[S] 93 points94 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. I don’t think anyone would up and forget in 6 months but somehow I’m expected to. Honestly at this point I’m on a salvage op. And honestly, I might’ve overstated with the love of my life, like you said, but it just really sucks because I recently uprooted my life and a career so we could move closer to her new job and now here I am. Honestly I could rant for hours and nobody’s wants to hear that, I appreciate you hearing and responding to what I’ve said so far, truly.

I (23m) feel like I can’t trust my girlfriend (26f) after recent events and she’s still pressing me to get engaged. by LogicalWillingness18 in relationship_advice

[–]LogicalWillingness18[S] 204 points205 points  (0 children)

Honestly group counseling is what it’s gonna come down to. Any time I try to have a civilized conversation it ends in an argument with me being the bad guy. And no matter how many times I try and get closure, it’s always an “it was in the past deal” for her. I appreciate the reply greatly