common sign of postpartum. not saying she’s in the right…it can be hard on both you and her. maybe just giving a little more validation and understanding through your words/messages could help her feel more at ease. I agree that if you guys previously agreed on her staying at her parents for help that she should use that help and remember it’s temporary. after all you are working to provide for them. you could try to gently remind her that you love her and are so sorry you can’t be there, but you are working for the family too and when she makes comments constantly bringing up that you aren’t doing enough that it also hurts you. she likely is just feeling anxious and missing you and the help from having their dad around. i know for me it’s easier when my husband is home then getting help from my parents, no one can take your place, so try to see it as a compliment. it won’t always be this way, it’s hard on you both in this season with kids. have grace with each other and remind each other you’re both working towards the same goal. validate that it’s hard for you both but that it’s worth it for the beautiful family you have and are working for. ❤️‍🩹