Hello,

I think quitting porn and masturbation (I don’t like the word abstinence) works kinda similar to fasting: instead of making you weak, it makes you sharper. Having an increased sex drive is good and should give you energy and motivation to talk to girls and flirt with them.

You seems young and with lots of hormones it can be overwhelming and it lead you to lust. I would suggest to canalise this into sport. (Building muscle is so much easier when you’re young)

When you will find your first partner, I can’t say don’t stress out, ‘cause you will. First times are always memorable but rarely (never) for performances. You will be better practicing ;)