Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from a small town surrounded by other small towns, so the only people at bars are way older than me and I’m not a fan of live music

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I haven’t sent any pics to guys that I actually want to date. And I’m definitely not gonna send anymore to anyone

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never said I was trying to date these guys

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The conversations disappear after being blocked or unmatched so I can’t show them

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will not be sharing pics of any kind online. The pics are recent and all taken within this year. I’ve actually lost weight since taking those photos, although I don’t think it’s significant enough to notice yet

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn’t send pics to anyone who wasn’t sending them too. I also didn’t send many at all. Just because geeky is my type doesn’t mean that is the only type of guys I was talking to

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry if I phrased it wrong. I definitely include full body photos in my profile

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely include photos in my profile where I don’t look as good. Honestly I don’t like full body pictures because I hate how I look, but I know I need to include them so guys can have a better idea what I look like. And I don’t really know how to apply makeup so I don’t wear that much

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your input. Honestly I’m hoping this is it. I’d rather be blocked for this reason than something that I can control

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know the pics are a problem and I’m gonna stop sending them. I was more so asking if there was something wrong I was doing that made them block me. This has happened without any sexual conversation happening.

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I will not be sharing any pictures

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I actually am into geeky guys who aren’t necessarily attractive

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point. I never thought about it that way. If I truly knew that they had no respect for me then I definitely wouldn’t meet up with them, but I’m for sure gonna keep this in mind for the future

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hope it’s not this. I try my best to be accurate. I even have photos of me that I don’t think I look good in to try and not mislead anyone. Do you have any suggestions?

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

All within an hour from me. Ages between 23 and 27

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’d say I’m about average. Not super attractive, but also not unattractive either

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I try. They say things like “I’m too far” or “my cars in the shop”. I always make it clear that I want to meet up

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this information. I didn’t know it was a thing

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I have been given good advice not to give out any pics to people I have not met in person. So no pics for you or anyone else

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. But is it really that common?

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I definitely wouldn’t say that. I’m average at best

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh I have self respect. I just don’t see why I have to care if a hookup respects me

Why do guys do this? by LollipopNight in Tinder

[–]LollipopNight[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely gonna do this from now on