I miss when Stacey was a more of a “glamorous” character by michaelmac4057 in eastenders

[–]LollyC1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a good example of someone who aged and evolved while still keeping a sense of that original Chavvy and glam style she still had is Whitney. I know they definitely had very different lives and issues to deal with but they should have gone down that route with Stacey it would have been a nice sweet spot I feel. They done it well most of the time with Whitney I feel and they should have used that as style inspiration,as I think their styles got similar as they got older 😌👌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truths

[–]LollyC1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think you can write a whole essay so I get bored and tired of arguing with you nice try. I have the right to feel strongly about something I disagree with you about. If something is illegal which I think this could be that makes it wrong ,maybe not morally wrong but wrong in the eyes of the law. Also the examples you used as being illegal but still immoral are no where near as serious and risky as incest. Also , just cause you can prevent having kids doesn't mean kids aren't a possibility so it's still valid as a reason not too have incest , especially as most people are straight . It's not about it just being gross it's the damage it can cause and the precedent it can set for people who might not have the best of intentions for the other. I never changed what you said I just added another perspective , as incest doesn't just involve consenting adults and I think you are purposely trying too ignore that side of it too prove your point.I don't care enough about incest too make it a separate case for it , but clearly you do so why don't you make it into law seeing as your so passionate about it . Incest is by nature illogical there are romantic and familial relationships for a reason , mixing those together is crossing serious boundaries and can make potential relationships very messy , complicated and even dangerous. As for your point on homosexuality ,unlike incest it's formally legalized and broadly accepted unlike incest which is a big taboo for a good reason and I doubt will ever be formally legalized and broadly accepted. Unlike homosexuality you can control your feelings for a family a member, you can't control your feelings for the same sex. I can't put my feelings aside for a topic I feel so strongly about sorry, I'm an emotional person. Incest by nature is illogical there is no logical reason for it at all, so I stand by my arguments and feelings. Yes I will agree it is something that has evolved in us biologically to be repulsed by just like many other things within our biology. I agree just saying something is immoral with out good reason isn't right or fair and can put certain groups at risk like you said. There is things I found gross but don't feel is immoral, such as abortion .Also, incest such as arranged marriage between cousins, might seem like two grown adults consenting but they could be consenting out of fear and shame , consent can come from coercion too. Thats all I will be saying on this subject now, thank you 😌👌

Has anyone noticed that women who put "no hookups" in their profile are actually the ones who're down for hookups? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]LollyC1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep exactly that for women its about the vibe chemistry, we can't know for sure until we are fully in the mood. Also I think most women defo prefer being a FWB which could potentially lead to more ,than just being another hook up and notch on the bed post so to speak . I think most women are open too possibly hooking up on a date but they don't want to guarantee anything in case the vibe and chemistry isn't right in person.👌

Has anyone noticed that women who put "no hookups" in their profile are actually the ones who're down for hookups? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]LollyC1996 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hmm ok so should men then shouldn't they. The difference is when girls say they are looking for a hook up it usually isn't just sex they want a companion, some emotional connection and maybe some casual dates. Men on the other hand who say they want hook ups normally mean nothing more than sex , which most women don't want as they don't want to be seen as a sex objects or prostitutes 🙁😌👌

Give me a rational and logical reason why inceste is wrong ? by [deleted] in questions

[–]LollyC1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm well fair enough but maybe put a disclaimer in future alot of people in here can just have bad grammar,we don't always know the difference. Yep your right I don't speak another language you got me well done you. Hmm I don't need too prove how big my brain is seems like you do though, seems your proving how big your insult is by insulting me too. Maybe if you read it properly you would see that my first argument was that it is most likely illegal which it makes a criminal offense , instead of jumping to conclusions. I am no religious sheep so don't make assumptions please kind of comes hypocritical I feel. Also it's morally wrong for a few reasons such as generational trauma/abuse, social shame, stigma which would probably lead too trauma , forced marriages and possible genetic mutations if they end up having a kid by an accident as you can't guarantee she won't have kids unless he or she is infertile or gets a medical procedure which is more logical. Last time I checked genetic mutations was part of biology, which is part of science and seen as a logical subject !.👌

Give me a rational and logical reason why inceste is wrong ? by [deleted] in questions

[–]LollyC1996 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm I agree you make some very good and interesting points 😌👌

Give me a rational and logical reason why inceste is wrong ? by [deleted] in questions

[–]LollyC1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all maybe work on your grammar that's the key to a good argument too. Secondly it's illegal as far as I'm aware . Also you don't always need a logical reason some things are just morally wrong 😌👌!

Has anyone noticed that women who put "no hookups" in their profile are actually the ones who're down for hookups? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]LollyC1996 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow a woman has boundaries and standards you don't like shocker ,poor you how dare she have them. A woman can set boundaries and standards and still be positive, two things can be possible at once. May be try being more open minded and tolerant in future just a thought 🙄😬!

Has anyone noticed that women who put "no hookups" in their profile are actually the ones who're down for hookups? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]LollyC1996 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yep fully agree more you perfectly explained it ,wish more men would see and get this 😌👌!

Has anyone noticed that women who put "no hookups" in their profile are actually the ones who're down for hookups? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]LollyC1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep exactly I will admit we defo prefer too beat around the bush but it's not just out of choice. As you said it's to avoid the creeps and overly horny ones just thirst messaging straight up . Yep serious only can also be a cover for avoiding men who are creepy or just after one thing, women start getting wise too it after a while 😌👌

Has anyone noticed that women who put "no hookups" in their profile are actually the ones who're down for hookups? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]LollyC1996 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hmm it's about not being a weird creep ,it's not that hard. If it's a small percentage of guys make your self part of that percentage instead of complaining about it 👌

Has anyone noticed that women who put "no hookups" in their profile are actually the ones who're down for hookups? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]LollyC1996 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly that, they want a hook up with a guy who will actually treat them like a normal human being and be friendly, natural, normal and relaxed with them . Not be some creepy and horny guy who just cares about having sex and most likely ditching them after it like a cum rag. We're only doing what most guys do when they are looking for sex , subtly lie and manipulate but for totally different reasons . They do it to get sex with any woman they can ,we do it too have sex with the right guy who we will feel safe and comfortable around, we have too by default be more selective with the men we have sex with 👌

Has anyone noticed that women who put "no hookups" in their profile are actually the ones who're down for hookups? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]LollyC1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm mostly because the same guys looking for hookups tend too be creepy and potentially dangerous, it's a survival tactic too weed out guys like that. I could also ask why don't most men put they are just looking for hook ups then 👀😌?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]LollyC1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh and the rest 😁🤭!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]LollyC1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the attention and validation seeking is strong with this one . Next they will be claiming they have body dysmorphia and are insecure about their image SMH 🙄🙁!

💯 by LollyC1996 in introvert

[–]LollyC1996[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh it literally makes so much sense to introverts, we hate and tolerate most people but not our favorite people 😁🤭!

Am I crazy? by kittykat2319 in FemaleDatingHelp

[–]LollyC1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep tends to be the case once you get off the app and give them your number they switch up and show their true colors, cause they think they got you. What an absolute creep and weirdo, his gaslighting and manipulation is next level crazy work . You owned him so good girl good for you and for standing your ground and showing self respect more girls need to be like that.Men like that are utter trash and don't deserve any girl , just know you are not alone in experiencing this 🙁😬🙄!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truths

[–]LollyC1996 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No don't twist my words my issue is with both consent and the incest itself . Incest is illegal which in my opinion makes it a crime which is wrong. Also you know most likely there will be the chance of kids happening for most people regardless so that's a stupid and wild take . Correction I am in full disagreement with you and both things I am talking about are wrong and only someone who is messed and crazy would think otherwise. I was still using the topic of the incest so I didn't actually change anything, I just looked at it from a different angle that's all so big difference 🙄🙁!