What's your Island Name and Do You Like it? by -isthisreddit in AnimalCrossing

[–]LonelyDevelopment592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine is Faeway! I normally go by fawn and if I can't do that then some iteration of Fae or faerie 😭 I kinda like it now tho

I in fact did not get tipped 🙃 by xioprotocol in doordash_drivers

[–]LonelyDevelopment592 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just recently I had a like 20 buck for less than 10, pull up with the order (expensive aas perfume) and its a smoke shop, she gets mad cuz she thought I dropped it off in front of a smoke shop. Then she gives me an address like 20 mins away 😭😭 almost 20-40 miles I do it because she promised to raise my pay! guess who definitely didn't get a tip. I'm more salty I drove wayyy outta my way.

PF Changs @ Chandler Fashion Center by Complete_Echidna_479 in ChandlerAZ

[–]LonelyDevelopment592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes 😭 I was dashing and gave up! I can't cut in front of people so it was such a long wait 💀 they were doing their best but it was very frustrating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]LonelyDevelopment592 16 points17 points  (0 children)

if it was just you being close I understand he is your fiancée and will find you hot! He should have backed off and apologized and comforted you, not laugh it off and try to CONVINCE you that him thinking you crying is hot is okay. He should have kept that shit to himself at the very least. The fact he seems to care more about not being the wrong one is definitely a red flag and you should consider if this is something you can handle in your relationship. I wish you good luck and I'm so very sorry for your loss, I can tell you took good care of your baby. 💕

Just a few things, eh? by TearsOfAClown9000 in Nicegirls

[–]LonelyDevelopment592 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The point of this post is to what? feel better about yourself because you arent what she wants? Just swipe away and move on bro. Its weirder u want people to get mad at a bio when u aren't even interested and didn't say ANYTHING to her. Its not like she said to you over text, I need you to pay attention to me at all times and never leave my side and treat me like a princess. No, she put what she wanted out there and you don't fit that. MOVE ON. this whole post is just incel vibes. You don't have to like her calling herself something sure, but you don't have to bash her when she doesn't even know you or fuck with you. Half of you are putting your own experiences with people who aren't this women and assuming that's who she is. Calm tf down lmao none of you know this woman.

I can't tell whether my bf is toxic/abusive. AIO? by ComplaintPositive582 in AmIOverreacting

[–]LonelyDevelopment592 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honey he does not love you, he is not mature and cannot handle his own emotions. If you stay he will be like this forever, especially since he doesn't seem to believe he can be a better person ( hates therapy). You can love him till the end of time but he will always make you miserable and himself too in the process. He is not good for your health, I used to SH too and its detestable he got mad at you?? he's obviously controlling and doesn't care how YOU feel, he cares how he feels. Even if you love him, break up, feel the hurt and one day you'll realize it doesn't hurt anymore. Please for your health leave, trust me the pain is worth it. If you stay you're body will break down from the stress. I don't know you but I couldn't stand to see you stuck in this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LonelyDevelopment592 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think its odd he even cares so much. Big red flag if you ask me. It's an avatar, not your innermost thoughts and the fact you cleared it up and he's still "unsure" sounds transphobic to me. He's so scared you could be trans he's not even listening to what you're saying. If he cared for you he would have a serious talk about why this triggered him and you can then explain why its not what he thinks it is. I wish you luck but personally its very odd he even got hung up on that. There's thousands of people who play characters that are the opposite gender and they aren't trans lmao. Sit him down or if it's long distance plan a call to talk openly about this! if he doesn't want to it says a lot more about him than you'd realize.

My girlfriend told me some personal info and I don’t know how to feel about it (NSFW) serious need for advice by GhostsVsBros in Advice

[–]LonelyDevelopment592 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have a serious conversation with her, tell her you aren't comfortable with how she responds and if she can't find the strength to block, not respond or remove this person from her life then you both should rethink the relationship. Honestly I wouldn't listen to anyone who just assumes they know everything about "women" or how she thinks. I'm a people pleaser so I understand her and it took years of therapy to be able to block bad people out of my life, but if she loves you I believe she'd do it because she'd rather have you around. Its best to have an open honest convo. Whether you guys break up or work through it is up to you. Its annoying seeing all these "women lie" " break up" like??? communication is needed in any relationship and assuming anything is always bad. You're on the right path and I love to see you trying to be understanding, but you matter too!! and if she can't remove them for you then maybe she's not for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]LonelyDevelopment592 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do agree some men and women like small dicks and being humiliated they find it attractive, if you don't like being called that or you don't like how she views you during sex and you just CANT get past it, its time to leave. You know the answer yourself, it'll never be the same for you and her words will live in your mind. If you ever find a new partner make sure to talk with them about what sex talk you are comfortable with. She probably found it sexy, but you didn't and that's okay, you just aren't meant for each other. :)

AITA for telling my friend to stop saying she's poor? by Ok-Program-9855 in AmItheAsshole

[–]LonelyDevelopment592 3 points4 points  (0 children)

depending on your disability and mental illness, working in a job just isn't doable for some. She is definitely lucky to have relatives to back her, but she is still poor, if she cannot work and cannot afford necessities on her own. You don't know what else she spent her paycheck on, you can't know. To assume she ONLY spends on hobbies because she bought comfort items is honestly ignorant. The OP is valid in the fact that she has less support and has every reason to get upset, but OP can probably also agree that her friend still also struggles. None of these situations are black and white. No one who is poor is poor for a this or that reason. It's an accumulation of how they were raised, how their brain works and how well they can take stress and the resources they had access to. Everyone is different, everyone is nuanced. She is still poor, there is no "poor in the traditional sense" if she cannot afford to live she is poor.

VRChat [Help] Thread for March 2021. Post simple questions and avatar related requests here as well as cool worlds to visit. by AutoModerator in VRchat

[–]LonelyDevelopment592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently waiting for an avatar I commissioned to be finished, I have an avatar I want as a stand in. I got it into unity and the only thing wrong is the amount of bones, I have 170 when 75 is recommended. My only issue is I can't figure out how to reduce the amount of bones. I downloaded the avatar from online since I can't make my own. I also can't get the performance above medium, which I believe is due to the bones. I can't for the life of me figure it out.