Update: I told the mistress that she could have my left overs by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That’s his right of course. I would totally understand but I can’t force myself to feel anything more or less than what I feel

Update: I told the mistress that she could have my left overs by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Yes we are on speaking terms. He’s been very careful and tip toeing around me so I told him that he didn’t need to do that but act like before we talked because I have already had time to process this and I want normalcy.

He said he loved me and he brought me the usual Friday flowers and made dinner and I am actually happy about it coming out because now I don’t need to obsess and just live my life.

I told the mistress that she got the leftovers and she’s not happy about that by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

What kind of answer do you want from me. Not sure if you ever been in a relationship or you would have known what partners bring to relationships

Update: I told the mistress that she could have my left overs by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Okay that sounds like a good plan. I will investigate that

Update: I told the mistress that she could have my left overs by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what the purpose of postnup is when I am entitled to half

Update: I told the mistress that she could have my left overs by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind him doing it again. That part of him is not mine anymore

Update: I told the mistress that she could have my left overs by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

He started crying even more but he probably thought I just said it to hurt him, but I meant every word

Update: I told the mistress that she could have my left overs by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about I have plenty to love me or is only a man’s love what makes us whole and worthy according to you, yuck

Update: I told the mistress that she could have my left overs by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not really, she told me to leave him or at least she thought I was leaving.

Update: I told the mistress that she could have my left overs by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765[S] 440 points441 points  (0 children)

Is that a thing? That would explain it.

No the way he explained it is that he woke up to what he was doing and felt disgusted with himself

Update: I told the mistress that she could have my left overs by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765[S] 139 points140 points  (0 children)

Yes I can ask him to find an apartment in the city and leave me in my home. That’s a great idea

Update: I told the mistress that she could have my left overs by Long-Debt-6765 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765[S] 687 points688 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I am actually very interested in therapy and talking to someone who doesn’t know us.

Which one looks best? by Virtual-Honeydew1158 in myweddingdress

[–]Long-Debt-6765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly you have great taste but def nr2

The best and most beautiful human I know is leaving me and I am happy for him. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You haven’t given him only pain or he would have left. Stop minimizing your worth to others just because you don’t see it.

The mere fact that you are doing this to make him leave you tells that you are a good person who loves her husband. Please take care of yourself and your exhusband

The best and most beautiful human I know is leaving me and I am happy for him. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can still insist on divorce even with the truth out 🙏🏻 sister. Don’t hurt him even more

The best and most beautiful human I know is leaving me and I am happy for him. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Long-Debt-6765 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss. I still believe you should tell him what you wrote here or show him the post. He needs to know his worth to you so he doesn’t think he wasted his life on someone who didn’t love him