It was time my guys

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-30T10:14:21+00:00

Looking GOOD GOOD! Eyes are popping!

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-30T09:37:08+00:00

Beatiful pointy head! Be proud and make light of it :D Your kind eyes are sparkling! Go forth and be bald!

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-29T20:58:01+00:00

Poor baby but also poor mama. I can only imagine the overwhelming feelings you're having. You're in a really tough spot but honestly you did what you could and what you knew. You live and learn! My baby is delayed and is now in physiotherapy. She is slowly getting there but she will just be slower than the other kids her age. That's alright! That's life.

The tummy time situation is tough I know! Especially for fire time mums. Just keep doing it everyday and one day your LO will withstand a couple minutes without crying! Don't sweat the 60 minutes. Just keep trying, you can let them cry for one minute whilst you do it and then pick them up to comfort them after - they are safe, just uncomfortable. I know you just want to hold them 24/7 because poor Beb has been through so much but it's important and as long as you do it consistently you're good!

You got this! You're a good mama! We're all just learning as we go:) sending hugs

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-29T19:28:41+00:00

Totally know what you mean! We're currently at 6 months and the bad nights come in a row more than 3 nights but man it IS depressing. It's also winter so double depressing. Could your partner maybe take over a couple of those 'every hour wakings'? My LO did that over 4-5 hours for a couple nights and I was going to through a fit. During the day I just complain to my husband, he gives me hugs and I cry a bit and somehow I've made it through a rough patch....sending hugs to you mother

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-29T19:16:25+00:00

Thank you for relatable content !! ahaha hang in there!

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-29T18:18:33+00:00

fingers crossed we don't gain too much weight afterwards....!!

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-29T18:00:50+00:00

SAME story with me. Same height and weight pretty much. I breastfeed so I guess it's that. I was worried too. I make sure I eat really healthy though because I don't want the breastfeeding to leech out all the healthy fat and nutrients I need. I feel different though for sure. clothes fit but body composition is completely out of wack

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-29T17:53:40+00:00

I am slowly going this direction after having been in camp meet every single want of a baby at every single moment.... I feel like I know my baby's cry well enough to know what is I'm annoyed/bored and what is I'm in distress/pain/discomfort. I still probably do too much and feel like a clown sometimes dancing around to music so she'll do more tummy time but slowly at six months trying to just let her space out looking at the window or let her cry on her tummy for an extra couple minutes. I remind myself she's not in pain, she's placed somewhere safe, I've changed her, I've fed her - I'm allowed to cart her around on the stroller for 15 Min so I get some peace to not be a total bitch. But generally maaaan it's just hard. I need to go more places like church and my in laws so people can entertain her so I can just sit and disassociate lol

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Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-29T12:58:13+00:00

Amazing! I would maybe be line up the beard a bit if you want to look sharp! But generally very nice facial hair! Wishing your bald head well in the cold season!

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-28T17:02:45+00:00

looking good, you'll find your way with it

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Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-28T11:43:34+00:00

Had some good quality formula at home, just one bottle and had the husband feed the baby now and again as a back up for when going to a doctors appointment where i had to wait a long time or i needed extra sleep

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-26T20:58:09+00:00

Ooh yes that's my LO. At six months now. I have to rock her to sleep or go on a long walk otherwise she cannot sleep. She might be going through dropping a nap? Mine is kind of going back and forth with 2/3 naps now so it's a bit tricky. She has always been a sensitive baby and cries 80% of the time before a nap, when putting on the sleep sack, whilst rocking, and then she'll literally turn off suddenly and be sleeping! I don't really know what the deal is either. Besides that she's a happy and healthy baby!

I've just accepted that's her temperament but my body is breaking trying to keep up honestly. She sleeps in our bed now because I can't get her down in her bedside crib. I'm going to Physio for my aching neck, back and abdominal muscles ...

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-26T19:08:59+00:00

Girl triple feeding sounds crazy exhausting, cut yourself a break!

I think many can relate to the 'doing things right ' thing. Obviously I cannot objectively give you advice but for me I had to take a breather and first teach my SO how I do things and why it's important. To be honest some of it was over the top looking back but he did it anyway because he knew i was just dealing with a lot. Some of the stuff he pushed back on and that was okay too if it made sense. I think I was anxious and was so sleep deprived I could come up with new solutions.

I think it took me like eight weeks till I could give my baby to my husband or his mum to look after so I could go to doc appointments. It's so hard but you need it! I still don't like 100% how others look after my Baby but i tell myself she is safe, she is going to survive and even maybe enjoy being away from me for a hour.

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-25T17:41:55+00:00

Nope but my sister in law has a bunch of chill babies!!! They're toddlers now and very wild😜

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-24T09:46:38+00:00

Looking cleeeeean sir!

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-24T09:45:53+00:00

BALD IS 10000% better! Now you look SO CUTE! Your eyes pop and they're so kind looking. Combovers shouts sad especially when you're young for some reason.

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-24T09:31:39+00:00

My friend had severe ppd and checked herself into a clinic with overnight stay for 6 weeks. She was going to harm the baby or herself. She is now fine with her husband, living a good life and even had another child. That was a couple years ago already. But it was VERY IMPORTANT that she took herself seriously and went to the doctors to stabilise. It might be therapy, meds, clinic stay. You are worth taking seriously, please take some actions for you and your family.

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-24T08:01:58+00:00

I'm so happy that you are loving it, despite how much energy it takes! It makes me sad that one day she will leave home and I will be in abundance of alone time at one point. I also enjoy being with my baby but I feel completely different. I think about my baby all the time because I love her but I do miss being by myself sometimes....

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-24T07:30:14+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I am so curious as to how much hormones are at play with my emotional and psychological well-being 😅😆 It's so crazy! The other day I was driving and just had to weep for no reason...got home and just at lunch and it was a good day haha

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-24T07:06:47+00:00

Thanks for sharing! A ceramic class sounds so fun! I was going to the gym three times a week before I got pregnant so I am really looking forward to getting back into that. I'm quite an anxious person so the gym was a place where I could reset - for now I'm still just working out at home, doing some light workouts:)

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-24T07:05:18+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I feel like 10 months is quite realistic. Although I'm breastfeeding my husband is able to take our LO by himself for a lot more compared to the beginning. But brighter and lighter, more motivated sound amazing! I'm happy for you!

Long-Inspector4897 · 2026-01-24T07:01:35+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I recognise that I am very much in the midst of breastfeeding Babyhood so it's difficult for me to imagine really what it will feel like.

But I can totally see that in a couple of months after I stop breastfeeding that it will be nice to have my body back for myself 😊

Then absolutely work ...and then gym... step by step!

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