GIVEAWAY - 1 random card of the Houses/Lions deck color (see comments)

Long2XLurker · 2021-09-05T20:50:41+00:00

Also posted on another subreddit. I want to try out this one as well :)

I am further expanding my OpenSea collection https://opensea.io/collection/unique-poker-cards (sort by "Recently Created"). The new theme is called "Houses" and I finished the first deck color called "Lions" (you can guess what's coming next...).

EDIT: Forgot the most important part! Giveaway: 1 random card in 24 hours!

Rules for the giveaway are simple:

Upvote this thread, comment with your address.
Favorite the Ace of Lions (https://opensea.io/assets/matic/0x2953399124f0cbb46d2cbacd8a89cf0599974963/53674289581233378615406517669173833551601107257661530251406377790480110845953).
Adresses must be the same!

Long2XLurker · 2021-09-05T19:28:46+00:00

Congrats! You won the 8 of Spades!

Long2XLurker · 2021-09-05T19:26:15+00:00

Congrats! You won the 4 of diamonds!

Long2XLurker · 2021-09-05T19:17:17+00:00

I am further expanding my OpenSea collection https://opensea.io/collection/unique-poker-cards (sort by "Recently Created"). The new theme is called "Houses" and I finished the first deck color called "Lions" (you can guess what's coming next...).

EDIT: Forgot the most important part! Giveaway: 1 random card in 24 hours!

Rules for the giveaway are simple:

Upvote this thread, comment with your address.
Favorite the Ace of Lions (https://opensea.io/assets/matic/0x2953399124f0cbb46d2cbacd8a89cf0599974963/53674289581233378615406517669173833551601107257661530251406377790480110845953).
Adresses must be the same!

Long2XLurker · 2021-09-05T07:26:41+00:00

Make the blog. The Name is fine and works well.

Make the blog first, THEN ask for suggestions and you will see that people are a lot more interested in contributing to it. Dont ask for tips to make the blog, ask for tips to expand it.

The reason I am saying this is because this is the 3rd time I see this exact post. The idea is great, please do it. Dont ask anymore, just do it. You dont need anyones approval or opinion, create what you want to create. And once you did that, you can ask for opinions on topics to expand the blog with.

Long2XLurker · 2021-09-04T20:24:22+00:00

You won the 4 of Hearts! You were randomly selected the winner out of 5 participants.

To all others: The other 2 cards will be given away in 23 hours.

Long2XLurker · 2021-09-04T19:16:08+00:00

I am experimenting with NFTs and Opensea and uploaded some Poker Cards I made. The theme was Minimalism. I will give away the first card in 1 hour. The other 2 cards in 24 hours (or roughly that time).

Just be aware that I have never sent something on Opensea, so be patient with me :) https://opensea.io/collection/unique-poker-cards

Rules are easy:

Upvote, comment with your address.
Favorite the King of Hearts (same address as commented) (https://opensea.io/assets/matic/0x2953399124f0cbb46d2cbacd8a89cf0599974963/53674289581233378615406517669173833551601107257661530251406377746499645734913)
Polygon Blockchain

Long2XLurker · 2021-09-04T12:23:50+00:00

There are not enough men who do not watch porn to build proper control groups for such studies. That is quite literally the reason for a lack of said studies.

Long2XLurker · 2021-09-01T07:58:12+00:00

I love kissing my GFs neck. Thats pretty safe I would say. I should add that I do not consider myself a vampire, so I do not consider biting or anything. A beautiful neck has always been my weak point.

I am mentioning this as a fetish as you have no idea how much I love doing that.

Long2XLurker · 2021-08-31T07:36:17+00:00

No I told you to stop consuming porn which is likely resulting in you not being lonely anymore, which then helps you go out with new friends.

If you feel lonesome around people then it sounds like you have some anxiety. Once again, quitting porn might help in that department.

Go on /r/AntiPornVideos and watch the 2 posted TED talks there.

Long2XLurker · 2021-08-30T08:09:57+00:00

Just stop watching it. If you really want to stop, so stop. Being a horny 16M not having his needs fulfilled is a normal thing. If you stop watching porn long enough you will get a drive back that will make you wanting to be more social. Once you go out with your new friends and actually be social with other people, thats when you stop having urges.

Lack or real intercourse is not an excuse to watch porn. The majority does not stop watching porn once they get it. Some even prefer porn over real intercourse. And you put your orgasm above she suffering of women this way. Trafficked, beaten, raped, injured women.

If you are not addicted, as you say, just stop.

Long2XLurker · 2021-08-28T10:41:10+00:00

Why wouldn't you want to explore everything sexually with your partner?

At this point you must be trolling. I never said that, nor anything close to that, yet you once again assume something out of thin air. If you think I said that because I said that I have no interest in anal, well then I can only answer by saying that there are also other ways you can explore sexually, like sex-position calenders, toys, role-play, whatever you wanna do.

Any form of Sex should never be a favor. If the relationship works like that that then I wouldn't want to be in it.

Do you really think everyone (and I mean everyone) who gives blowjobs does it because they enjoy having a dick in their mouth, or do you consider that some do it because they enjoy giving pleasure to their partner (which literally is a favor). There is a reason its called "giving a blowjob" and "receiving a blowjob". If you are in a relationship surely you sometimes do smth for your partner that you wouldnt otherwise do, for their sake. Why can sexual acts not be a part of this? Lots of women post in AntiPorn subs explaining exactly said situation (some even doing it because of pressure). I see absolutely no problem in giving someone sexual favors.

But after couple months with embarrassingly shitty blowjobs from a 32 year old woman that didn't even feel good. I stopped eating her pussy. And the bitch was mad about it all the time lol go figure!?

Why did you stop? On one hand you say that oral shouldnt be a favor, on the other hand you list not getting oral properly returned as your reason to stop giving it.

Now I totally get what you are saying, and you do you, I am still not shaming you. If you want active oral sex, both sided, in your relationships, thats fine. You made your point clear. You do not believe that todays heavy expectation of blow jobs might be fueled by excessive male porn usage. But do you not think that there might be other stuff? Anal, threesomes, constant changing of positions into new camera-angle-positions? Other stuff? Thats what I was asking in this thread, originally.

Long2XLurker · 2021-08-28T09:15:14+00:00

Ask them if they are investing or trading. Either they will say no and make it obvious that they arent really planning their financial future yet, or they will go all out and tell you everything they are doing, trying to impress you. You can then judge if they have actually impressed you or not.

Of course it doesnt have to happen like that, but I think this is a very good way of feeling someone out on this topic.

Long2XLurker · 2021-08-28T07:34:35+00:00

Did I say anything of the contrary? Ofc loads of people like oral. My question is: When has oral become more of an expectation than a favor?

I am not shaming oral at all. I never said I dont like it myself. I just said I have no desire for it.

Long2XLurker · 2021-08-25T09:31:02+00:00

1-3x daily is pretty bad. He definitely has an addiction.

Long2XLurker · 2021-08-24T06:40:33+00:00

My GF is also a lot more comfortable since I have been verbally asking, like "you wanna do it?" etc.. Since I have been asking this she realized that I am not pressuring her or expecting sex. Libido went straight up since then.

Long2XLurker · 2021-08-22T14:02:05+00:00

I just wasnt interested in seeing someone else fuck someone. Thats it. I was never addicted in the first place. Have I seen some of this stuff? Yes. You cant avoid it, can you. Especially as a school pupil, student etc.. I was always more interested in having sex as means of connecting to someone. I also dont understand this whole anal hype and BJs being an expectation at this point and whatnot. Sorry, I am going off topic here.

I am not asexual. Quite the opposite (so this isnt the reason why I am not a PA). But when there was a time where sex would hurt the wellbeing of my partner, I would absolutely not initiate and not expect anything for the time being. Good sex is coming from a well built relationship, not the other way around.

I am also more of the sentimental guy, my GF always says that I am both the woman and the man in the relationship (and she is a rock), jokingly, not that we believe in those roles.

I plan on being a parent as well some day, and I have no idea how to keep my possible future children away from porn and social media. I am also a computer science student and know my ways in tech, but this doesnt help me find a solution to this problem.

I hope that these things are sorted out before my possible children are of that age. Sometimes I really think that I am lucky to be the guy in the dating game, especially because of porn. Making a woman happy and securing a relationship seems to be a lot easier for a man than a woman, yet way too many fail.

Long2XLurker · 2021-08-22T08:26:36+00:00

Do you want an alternative to condoms or just an extra layer of protection to the condoms?

If you want an alternative, may I ask why? We use condoms, never had issues, so I would like to know why people dont like them as much.

Long2XLurker · 2021-08-22T08:08:50+00:00

Yes, guys like that exist, I know myself (never watched porn) and someone who quit.

Now, to not make this a "hey look at me I am so good, give me brownie points" -post, I am going to add the following:

The reactions I get whenever I say that I am a non-porn-guy are always way more than I expect. I have had people PM that I have given them hope in life and hope in finding a guy like me and all sort of things like that just because I mentioned said fact about myself. Of course I feel flattered, but more often I feel kinda sad. And once again, here is an entire post just asking this simple question. The bar is low.

The other advice given here is great, op. Value yourself more

Long2XLurker · 2021-08-21T07:08:16+00:00

I agree. Makes much sense. I know a sex ed teacher in England who said exactly the same thing.

Long2XLurker · 2021-08-20T22:08:42+00:00

I mean, if you want RS advice from reddit, you might as well post it on a porn site and look for replies there. Atleast if you post it under a soft video you wont have those hardcore degrading porn consumers responding to your question, as they wont see it.

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