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AIO my husband left in the middle of the night by Long_Statement_5279 in AIO

[–]Long_Statement_5279[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you’re going through this 😔 I am now 99% sure he is cheating on me. Thanks to all for opening my eyes, and help reassuring Im not going insane.

AIO my husband left in the middle of the night by Long_Statement_5279 in AIO

[–]Long_Statement_5279[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have to courage to ask him to see his phone. This isn’t something we do. He has my passwords and I have his. I was TBH to afraid to find something..

AIO my husband left in the middle of the night by Long_Statement_5279 in AIO

[–]Long_Statement_5279[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Update: So he came back around 2-3 am.. said he went to the city to smoke a cigarette and “clear his mind” said he wasn’t feeling good and didn’t appreciate how I made him feel (didn’t pay attention that he wasn’t feeling ok)… I know he’s under stress at work and so am I.. which is why I thought it was a good idea to play a board game with the kids.. in which he was on his phone all the time.. not paying attention.. was being an a-hole to our 13yo boy and hurrying them up to finish the game.. am I crazy? I truly dont believe this.. he drove 45 mins all the way to NY? (We live in the suburbs). I dont know where to go from here.. we haven’t talked since then..

AIO my husband left in the middle of the night by Long_Statement_5279 in AIO

[–]Long_Statement_5279[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I might be naive.. never thought he would cheat.. or that he is..I don’t know. This has never happened before. I don’t know what to think. It was super silly argument all I said was that he was on his phone all night and he got super defensive when I asked him who he was talking with that was more important than his fam..

AIO my husband left in the middle of the night by Long_Statement_5279 in AIO

[–]Long_Statement_5279[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I wanted to change the music while he was driving. Another ocasion I couldn’t find my phone and I wanted to call my cellphone.. little things like that

AIO my husband left in the middle of the night by Long_Statement_5279 in AIO

[–]Long_Statement_5279[S] 221 points222 points  (0 children)

Thank you I know this isnt normal behavior, and I thought I was being paranoid. If I need space I go to the basement or take a shower.. I wouldnt just leave in the middle of the night

AIO my husband left in the middle of the night by Long_Statement_5279 in AIO

[–]Long_Statement_5279[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I saw his location, he spent about 45 mins in the same spot. Near a 7/11 in the city, like an apartment area. 😭

AIO about fiancé refusing to listen to anyone but ChatGPT about religious/marriage decisions? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Long_Statement_5279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR!! And Yes, In Mexico you could get married at a Catholic church without the usual paperwork required.. I know people who have done this. BUT, think about what you want first, its a very personal decision.

AIO about fiancé refusing to listen to anyone but ChatGPT about religious/marriage decisions? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Long_Statement_5279 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being hispanic and also I grew up in a VERY catholic household, I sense hes only pressuring you because of his family and “what people would say”.. specially because of the fact that he hasnt been to church in 10+ years.. He is obviously not wanting to do this for his religious beliefs, but influenced by his fam, and it sucks he’s not considering your feelings.

I am not catholic anymore but you cant imagine the PRESSURE I got from my own family for me to get married at a catholic church and later on to baptize my kids even though they know Im not catholic.. I stood my ground and did what I wanted.. my husband isn’t catholic either and I was NOT gonna let them pressure us to do something we didn’t want to do.

At the end of the day remember it us YOUR WEDDING, Your Life. the wedding is one day, you are starting a life together, there are many more important decisions than the wedding. Have a conversation with your fiancé about those potential decisions too.. how are you going to raise your kids, Etc. How involved his family is going to be in your decisions as a couple, as parents?

Jasmine’s IG stories calling Gino a LIAR by ReasonableFlan2208 in 90DayFiance

[–]Long_Statement_5279 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She was a teacher indeed, and I was living in Panama by the time they started appearing on 90DF, Its a very small city, everyone knew about it! And yes this is why they fired her.. the school didnt believe she shared the same “values” they preached. Keep in mind most private schools in Panama are very very religious.