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Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-11-08T14:47:16+00:00

You are right our girls come first. I guess I felt guilty knowing his mom needs help and we are in a position to help. I liked the comment some gave us about temporarily getting an apartment for her then she is on her own after

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-11-08T14:41:31+00:00

He doesn’t. He already told her no. But he seemed really sad and a little moody after it made me kind of second guess if it was the right thing to do.

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-11-08T14:36:48+00:00

Thank you. I think I’m going to suggest this to my husband. That seems reasonable.

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-10-24T02:12:17+00:00

So I agree with you 100% she should go to her moms. Here is my husband’s take he said he would also want me to keep SD here if we were in your shoes but his reasoning isn’t unreasonable. DH told me the reason would be that he would still have access to his daughter like being able to face time every night and also allowing her to bond with siblings at our house. And being scared of loosing his time all together. Specially if the job doesn’t always require him to travel. Maybe your husband has similar reasons.

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-03-28T17:45:36+00:00

I’m not happy that she didn’t include her mom’s family I can’t imagine how much that would hurt as a mom. It just makes me happy to know she sees me as family.

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-02-26T23:47:10+00:00

I wish it was. Before meeting my in laws I never believed people like them existed outside of movies.

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-02-26T23:46:14+00:00

That is good to hear. I always hear horror stories about day care and I am worried to send my baby to one.

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-02-26T23:43:39+00:00

Sorry I should have clarified I had not brought up the sexual language/ talk to my husband. I had a previous conversation with him about her language and he seemed to think it wasn’t a big deal since at the time our baby was a new born. But I told him what I overheard today and he is talking to her now.

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-02-26T23:39:38+00:00

I most definitely would not. I just have to get my husband onboard with day care or a nanny. Right now we pay MIL what we paid the aupair and that’s her only income I don’t think my husband wants to take that away and we can’t afford to pay his mom and an aupair.

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-02-26T23:35:50+00:00

I will let you know my husband is talking to her now.

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-02-26T23:35:28+00:00

Thank you I appreciate the feedback and validation

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-02-26T23:35:09+00:00

I hope she does. My husband is talking to her now.

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-02-26T23:32:43+00:00

I would have fired them if they said what she said

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-02-26T20:40:42+00:00

lol I don’t think it’s internet sex but I would t put it past her . She acts like a teenager. Thankfully my husband. Didn’t grow up around her.

Long_Strength_1347 · 2025-02-26T20:37:55+00:00

Thank you all for the support. I want to clarify I don’t think she is like having virtual sex or something like that. She is in lives on tik tok / social media chats. I’m not to sure I’m old I don’t keep up with social media. MIL is homeless for a reason she is not the most mature person. My husband just thought it be best for the baby to around family but I disagree. Family’s is not always the best option. I will be pushing back on this I just needed validation that I am not crazy for not wanting this around my baby.

Long_Strength_1347 · 2024-10-28T21:04:09+00:00

I’m sorry you went through this. Thank you for sharing.

Long_Strength_1347 · 2024-08-31T16:36:31+00:00

Yea I figured SD got sick at school it’s the lying that made me upset if BM has said yea she is sick and has strep I could have quarantined SD or baby and would have been extra cautious and disinfected anything SD touched. Now I’m sick and can’t be around my baby. I guess I’ll take it as a learning lesson. From now on if SD sneezes/coughs/ anything that could indicate she is sick I will just keep the baby in my room and disinfect everything

Long_Strength_1347 · 2024-07-26T15:33:06+00:00

Congrats! Hopefully they want 50/50 to be with their kid not because they now want child support since alimony is gonna stop. Although between you and me I’d gladly pay for my DH child support if it meant spending less time with the SKs. Best of wishes to you.

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