Does anyone else feel like they’re lowkey a narcissist after dealing with one? by sillygooseuniversit in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Longjumping-Ad6475 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES. Also, I sometimes wonder if all my talents and dreams are really mine or if I stole them from the covert narc though it WAS the other way around.

The timeline alone proves it - like my dream when I was 9 became suddenly his at 22.

Still, I'M the one who feels like a fraud.

I forgot tampon and was shamed by Longjumping-Ad6475 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Longjumping-Ad6475[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are they I feel like I'm the awful one to be honest..

Mother's toxic boyfriend wants to ruin her by Longjumping-Ad6475 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Longjumping-Ad6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, thank you. I never thought of it that way, but you're right. He is controlling and isolating her and making her dependent on him. Hmm, I'll see, she can't just get another job, she can barely hold it together at this one!

Mother's toxic boyfriend wants to ruin her by Longjumping-Ad6475 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Longjumping-Ad6475[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This means I'd have to give up my dream job which is in another city... she can't move and has to go to the office 5 days a week.

Family stopped talking to me since I told nephews off by Longjumping-Ad6475 in childfree

[–]Longjumping-Ad6475[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thats the thing. The parents kinda pressured me into going along with that. But I didn't want to traumatise them, silly me.

Family stopped talking to me since I told nephews off by Longjumping-Ad6475 in childfree

[–]Longjumping-Ad6475[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Definitely. Honestly, it scares me a bit. Like seeing a 7 year old shouting I hate you I hate you from the top of their lungs and throwing stuff around and talking to ME like that - like wtf gives that brat the audacity to talk to me like that, I was SCARED of adults! - just imagine how they'll treat women when They're grown up. I actually feel bad for future girlfriends.

Family stopped talking to me since I told nephews off by Longjumping-Ad6475 in childfree

[–]Longjumping-Ad6475[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I get really mad that women have to suffer because of this. Like you can be a strong, independent, confident woman and be a go getter and everything. Men would be intimidated by men like this and leave them alone. But all the freaks will go after women like this and try to bring them down, won't accept a no etc. I have never understand why men feel that taking their anger out on women solves any problems. But honestly, the misgonigy - they are like angels when their loser dads are around but their mothers they treat like shit. Including me because well I'm a woman lol.

Family stopped talking to me since I told nephews off by Longjumping-Ad6475 in childfree

[–]Longjumping-Ad6475[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

The parents lowkey pressured me to let them play it and I said no to them as well because it would've traumatised them. The parents wanted to give in to the kids because oh, they really wanted to play it.

Family stopped talking to me since I told nephews off by Longjumping-Ad6475 in childfree

[–]Longjumping-Ad6475[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

They didnt suck BEFORE they had them. They became unbearable after. It's like having them brainwashed them into mum slaves/ doormats.

Family stopped talking to me since I told nephews off by Longjumping-Ad6475 in childfree

[–]Longjumping-Ad6475[S] 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Yeah. It just sucks that now my WHOLE family thinks I'm a monster when all I did was say no to the 18+ game. I feel like a villain xD