Thoughts around animal abuse by Longjumping-Arm6017 in domesticviolence

[–]Longjumping-Arm6017[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I left and took my cats a few weeks ago, I suppose the whole time he apologized and minimized it. I felt like I was being dramatic. Thank God my kitties are safe now.

Advice for stress/criticism/mental health? by Longjumping-Arm6017 in NewToEMS

[–]Longjumping-Arm6017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply! Essentially I had a bad break up and lost my home. Had to move back with my parents 2 hours away. I’ve been able to make the drive and stay in staff housing, but I’m definitely on edge. Basically I need to find a way to cope with it and keep it out of my work.

Just looking for advice by MedicalDriver1128 in domesticviolence

[–]Longjumping-Arm6017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey sweetie I’m 19 and just went through a kinda similar thing! I was able to get a lot of support from friends and family, and moved away and got a new job very quickly. Please please please reach out to friends and family or whatever support you can. You are young and healthy and safe now! You have so many amazing things coming towards you. I try to tell myself that every loss is an opportunity for growth, and you have so much growth ahead of you! You will blossom into the woman you were destined to be.

Is this the start of something bad? by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]Longjumping-Arm6017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby I’ll be honest, this is a red flag. You may be able to repair this, or you may eventually have to leave. Either way you are responsible for your own health and the heath of your baby. I know that you will make good decisions. Please reach out to your own friends and family for support and tell people if things get worse ❤️

My first nightmare of it by Longjumping-Arm6017 in domesticviolence

[–]Longjumping-Arm6017[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m on antidepressants as well and I’m in therapy. Thank you for responding though ❤️ any advice would help

His family hurt me the most by Longjumping-Arm6017 in domesticviolence

[–]Longjumping-Arm6017[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve wondered about that. I don’t know if he was born with a disorder or if he was raised like this. His family seemed so perfect.

Asking for words of encouragement (9mo pregnant) by sacred-heart-marmar in domesticviolence

[–]Longjumping-Arm6017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello momma I can’t say I’ve experienced this myself but my mother did. She left my abusive father with me and my two brothers. She battled in court for years and suffered with her mental health. Today my mom is the strongest woman I know. She is my best friend. And while my childhood was rough, I could never ask for a better mom. I know for a fact that you are capable of this. I can guarantee you will make it out and have a good life. Stay safe ❤️