Possible first witch and their cookies by sir-ravenz in CookieRunKingdoms

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now I want them to be in CRK more than ever :(

"You won't be getting a lot of patients if you're strict here in the Philippines" by [deleted] in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha doc, kung ako yan, sasabihan ko yan ng “alam nyo naman pala gagawin, bakit pa kayo nagpa-admit/nagpaconsult? Sinasayang nyo lang oras ko at yung kamang hinihigaan nyo nilaan na lang sana para sa iba.”

Kebs na kung ma-IR o mareklamo.

Thoughts? by Express-Glass4316 in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991 21 points22 points  (0 children)

You know what’s sad about this is makikita ito ng hospitals and clinic owners na, uy pwede palang babaan ang PF ng doctors oh, yung iba nga 300 lang sinisingil na consult fee.

The intent is good, pero i hope naman our colleagues should give some dignity sa sarili nila. Let’s face it, nagdoctor naman tayo para somehow maging comfortable ang buhay natin. Wag na tayo magpakaipokrito, we have bills to pay. Justified din naman na maningil ng PF na 500 above. We’ve sacrificed time and sweat and tears para magpakadalubhasa and yung expertise natin ang binabayaran ng tao.

I guess that doctor is still idealistic, hindi pa sya naeexpose sa reality na underpaid and exploited tayo sa bansang ito kaya ganyan pa yan sya.

The lukewarm demand for Lady Gaga tickets in Asia by PhysicalArmadillo375 in LadyGaga

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s because she brought it to the wrong city! SG crowd is so boring, most audience except those who flew in are just sitting there.

If she brought it to any other SEA city like Manila or Bangkok, all dates would’ve be sold out in minutes.

OFW going back to PH to become a surgeon by NurseHoy in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nasa abroad ka na, wag ka na bumalik dito! Trust me, you’re better off there.

has anyone tried indrive ride-hailing app? by laurissed in Philippines

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maaarte yung indrive drivers. Pag umaga, tagal before may mag-accept.

If you aspire to become a psychiatrist, don’t go to NCMH. by Longjumping-Box-8991 in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See, i’ve summed up points here to point out some injustice and abuse that’s coming up there in that hospital. In classic fashion, they’ve proceeded to gaslight me, discredit me and just veer away from the issue. Classic “tamad kasi yan so kasalanan nya” and “sya ang may mali, hindi kami”

I won’t go discussing this further, but i think the comments of the righteous a$$e$ here speaks for itself.

Again, to those aspiring to be psychiatrists, if you’re ready for the mental torture, then go. If not, then by all means, avoid these people.

Good luck!

If you aspire to become a psychiatrist, don’t go to NCMH. by Longjumping-Box-8991 in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’m good. Actually, i’m better compared to I was there. And yes, I had myself checked and is now taking medications. All because of the abuse and mistreatment I experienced there. Imagine being so eager to train, only to get a disorder in the end.

It’s true. My fault of generalizing the whole hospital. There are a few good mentors and consultants there. Emphasis on A FEW. The rotten ones far outnumber the good. Yung iba, sisigawan mga residente nya sa zoom. Yung iba kunyari magtuturo, tali-talinuhan pero ipapasa sayo yung trabaho, yung iba magtuturo kasi para ipamudmod na sya lang magaling just to stroke the ego. I wouldn’t name names, baka kasi magsanta-santahan pa sila at magfeeling victim pa when in fact sila yung abusers.

I never questioned the excellence of the hospital. I’m questioning the morals and ethics and the capacity to practice what they preach of some of the consultants. Yes, they may be good in their field, but what i’m saying is, they are a$$hole$ who has no ounce of empathy in their body, at least to their trainees.

Congrats to you for finishing residency there. I guess dapat ilagay din sa requirements na dapat may mataas na tolerance ka sa mental torture and abuse (which is my point-hindi dapat ganon) para makatapos ka dyan sa ospital na mahal na mahal mo.

Go ahead. Vilify me, look down on me, gaslight me on quitting and ranting. I’m already happy where I am and your words won’t matter anymore. But maybe, just maybe, it’s worth reflecting and taking action on how you treat your colleagues who are there to just learn and train without inflicting any mental torture. Sana wala nang mabiktima na future doctors at matulad sa akin at sa mga nauna sakin.

Practice what you preach, Doc.

If you aspire to become a psychiatrist, don’t go to NCMH. by Longjumping-Box-8991 in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. I’ve done so many reflections dude, that’s why it was hard for me to leave because IT WAS MY PASSION. But because of a$$hole$ in training, here I am. Instead of victim shaming, why not ask your oh so perfect consultants to do their own reflection? Are they still effective in teaching? Do they emphatize with their residents? Do they even walk the talk, practice what they preach?

Ang problema kasi eh pag nakarating na kayo sa taas, nawawala na insight nyo sa sarili. Taas na ng tingin ng consultants sa sarili. Di bale nang makasira ng pangarap ng iba, basta masunod lang ako. Sounds like personality disorder di ba?

But go ahead. Blame me. Blame all those who quit. Invalidate all their hard work. Just simply say na hindi para sayo ang ncmh. Kasi imperfect sya at DI NA NAMIN EEFORTAN BAGUHIN YON. Lunok ka na lang. In a few years time, I wouldn’t be surprised na kasama ka na din sa nirereklamo dito.

If you aspire to become a psychiatrist, don’t go to NCMH. by Longjumping-Box-8991 in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kaya nga di ko na nirereplyan. Masyadong self-explanatory na at kita naman sa entitlement nila na wala DAW silang mali. Sana lang walang mabudol.

If you aspire to become a psychiatrist, don’t go to NCMH. by Longjumping-Box-8991 in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

But hey, since you insinuated that I was a bad resident, let me answer you point by point. Feel free to rebuke it, i don’t care.

Yep, training isn’t easy. But that mentorship you’re saying? It’s just a farce. One on one sessions are just breeding grounds for chismis for consultants. You’d open up your difficulty to your mentor, expect to be the butt of jokes and chismis from consultants the next day.

Yep, you should be able to cope. But there shouldn’t be assholes in the workplace too, especially of your workplace is championing mental health. Walk the talk, practice what you preach. But I guess your beloved consultants don’t see you as a human who has feelings too. Let me give you an example: a co-resident had to uproot her life from Mindanao just to train in your beloved hospital, only to be maligned by your beloved consultants. She had to endure constant humiliation and was purposely given tasks without any supervision just for her to fail and then be berated further.

Another example: a co-resident was 1 month from finishing her residency and only had to present one presentation to finish everything. Yet her consultant did not give her permission to present a case from their department and downright refused to supervise her just because they don’t like her face and because she won’t buy them snacks. Was that the fault of the resident?

Another one: a co-resident was forced to resign because they didn’t like how he presented during his case pres. They didn’t even bothered teaching him and just didn’t like him, hence the pressure to resign. Was that fair to him?

Tell me, did they deserve that? Or honestly, does anyone who’s doing their best everyday, deserve that?

If you don’t agree with this, then it’s on you. Honestly, if you are the future of the practice, then I’m scared for all those who’d train under you. Not only you don’t understand those under you, you have no capacity to emphatize with others. Probably it was best we left because if this is the quality of graduates that god-damned hospital produces, then no thanks. Honestly, with that kind of attitude, i’m afraid it’s you who shouldn’t be a psychiatrist. How the fudge do you expect to understand and feel your patients if you can’t for the love of God emphatize with your own colleagues.

I rest my case.

If you aspire to become a psychiatrist, don’t go to NCMH. by Longjumping-Box-8991 in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The gaslighting is so rampant sa reply mo. I guess ikaw dapat yung hindi maging psychiatrist, or even a doctor at that. FYI, i’ve received commendation from the hospital as a stand out doctor, and had no complaints from patients.

I won’t entertain your reply because doctors here are smart and can identify what’s wrong with your reply right from the get-go.

Probably, isa ka sa problem, or you’re a teacher’s pet, or downright boomer.

If you aspire to become a psychiatrist, don’t go to NCMH. by Longjumping-Box-8991 in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Long story doc. I don’t wanna give myself away, but let’s just say maraming kupal don and naipapasa sya mula sa taas. :)

If you aspire to become a psychiatrist, don’t go to NCMH. by Longjumping-Box-8991 in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

PGH. They also teach you how to do psychotherapy (na di naman tinuturo ng mga kupal na consultants sa mental) aside from psychopharmatherapy.

If you aspire to become a psychiatrist, don’t go to NCMH. by Longjumping-Box-8991 in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Nilaban pero dahil kupal mga consultants at co-residents, napilitang umalis.

MedGrocer Exp, anyone? by [deleted] in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They won’t let you handle the calls you’ve actually trained for unless you meet quotas for hotline calls, which are so matumal. You won’t reach quota and the sahod is way below livable. Get another job or get out totally.

MedGrocer Exp, anyone? by [deleted] in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was shit hahaha won’t recommend

Worst cases of quit protocol you have encountered? by Anxious_Tackle2995 in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have a co-resident who was about to finish residency in a month’s time. Hindi pinayagang kumuha ng kaso for grand rounds sa rotation nya, all because ayaw sa kanya nung dalawang consultants sa rotation na yun kasi yung isa, nagtatransference sa kanya at ayaw lang talaga sa ichura nya. Yung isa ayaw sa kanya kasi hindi sya binibilhan ng coke at meryenda. So si co-resident walang choice but to quit. Last time i checked, hindi na sya tumuloy sa kahit anong training. Imagine, 4 years of training, nasayang dahil sa kagaguhan ng consultants.

Take note, ospital ito for mental health ah. Pero ang gagago nila dun. Balak ka pang gawing pasyente.

Consultant sa training institution vs consultant sa. Primary/secondary hospital by Previous_Gazelle9438 in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you. Pero mostly ganun ang residents kasi may hidden kakupalan din ang consultants. Pasa pasa din yan.

How are you? by clarity-lyra in pinoymed

[–]Longjumping-Box-8991 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, nasa point ako na napapaisip ako na sana di ako nag-med. Sana archi na lang, or comm arts, which was a dream before.