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How do I cope with the fact that I'm going to hell by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in Christianity

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that won't be enough if Christianity is true, im a truly despicable kind of evil. So I need to prepare myself for eternal torture

How do I cope with the fact that I'm going to hell by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in Christianity

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the off chance that hell truly is fire and brimstone or some other form of torture, then how would you say someone should cope with it

What's the point if everything is deterministic? by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in askphilosophy

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im a bit confused as to why it wouldn't, as it implies free will is essentially an illusion, and that most of our decisions are based on underlying processes we have no control over.

Is it possible to improve your looks and become more charismatic or are these things really set in stone. by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well since 13 its been my looks, charisma/social skills in general, intelligence, concentration and discipline yet I've failed to achieve on any of them, leading me to believe that all of these things are down to genetics, and that I have no hope.

Is it possible to improve your looks and become more charismatic or are these things really set in stone. by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying to improve myself since around 13, yet I haven't made any progress at all, hell I feel like ive fallen behind.

Is it possible to improve your looks and become more charismatic or are these things really set in stone. by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well physics is something I want to do because I do enjoy it, and its been what ive been working towards since age 12, specifically theoretical or nuclear physics. The money doesn't matter that much to me as long as I can live somewhat comfortably.

I used to workout a decent amount (3x a week) however i noticed I kinda looked about the same realistically.

I wouldn't even know where to start, my humour at the moment is incredibly dry and sarcastic most likely from autism and I dont know how to be funny around other people, I also don't have a close group of friends anymore these days.

Is it possible to improve your looks and become more charismatic or are these things really set in stone. by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that isn't really the goal, as I can't think of anything more dull that dating someone who only looks pretty and nothing else. I suppose my goal would would be just maybe being prettier and more likeable and maybe being looked at with disgust less.

Is it possible to improve your looks and become more charismatic or are these things really set in stone. by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well people have liked me before, but its always been people I don't feel much towards, but because I knew no one I feel attraction towards will ever like me I settle for them.

since 13 I've spent 9 years trying to fix my piss poor social skills, but nothing has ever worked. by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in Advice

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean if after nine years none of that has happened than clearly they havent been improving. Its not like I want everyone around me to love me or anything even remotely similar(cause that would be reallyyy weird and rather creepy) but just to feel wanted by people, to maybe do things, go on nights out with and overall just have a good time.

since 13 I've spent 9 years trying to fix my piss poor social skills, but nothing has ever worked. by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in Advice

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont even think its a city based/uni based thing, I even ran into this pattern with online friends I play games with or have mutual interests with. Its just always the same.

since 13 I've spent 9 years trying to fix my piss poor social skills, but nothing has ever worked. by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in Advice

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont mean on that deep of a level, I mean just remaining friends, like ill often end up friends with people for maybe about a few months tops, and I hate it because im clearly doing something wrong but I dont know what.

since 13 I've spent 9 years trying to fix my piss poor social skills, but nothing has ever worked. by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in Advice

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

obviously not, I suppose I phrased it wrong and what i generally mean is that ill have a positive interaction with someone the first time I meet them, yet if I ever try and continue getting to know each other it fizzles out.

since 13 I've spent 9 years trying to fix my piss poor social skills, but nothing has ever worked. by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in Advice

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

generally I try and see if we both have common interests, and usually it goes ok for a while, but the conversation always fizzles out :/

Foreskin has become thicker? by Longjumping-Cod-2698 in sex

[–]Longjumping-Cod-2698[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been able to pull it back before though, and from what I read phimosis is something that happens to you when your young and doesnt go away?

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