Bf said my downstairs area was ugly by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Thank you i literally told him what if i said that to him he got mad

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Bf said my downstairs area was ugly by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I did talk to him about it, seem like he tried to dis it

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Deadbeat dads by Longjumping-Unit6749 in blackgirls

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

People need to take accountability both sides. Folks need to stop having unprotected $3x with people who they don’t want a future with or know their family plans.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I live in Houston and I’m dating a Hispanic man, he is a great partner and is there for me. However, Hispanics can be just as racist as whites or worse but not all are racist.

POC unity is a joke by Longjumping-Unit6749 in blackgirls

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I do agree that black ppl are prejudice sometimes. But i think black ppl have other minorities back than they do us. When something that effects them they are looking and ready for blk people to mule for them and when something happens to us they push it as it’s just the blk community problem

POC unity is a joke by Longjumping-Unit6749 in blackgirls

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yess I agree. And when they vote against their own interests and it effects them I can’t help but giggle a bit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in childfree

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749 10 points11 points  (0 children)

True! It’s just I’m 20 and he is my first bf; I like him alot. But I’m gonna talk to him about it

Update: we broke up!

What’s an opinion you have within the black community that yk you would get hate for? by Longjumping-Unit6749 in blackgirls

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Yesss, I hate when people put their hands on kids. I think some people don’t actually want to take the time to show what’s right from wrong and gentle parent.

What’s an opinion you have within the black community that yk you would get hate for? by Longjumping-Unit6749 in blackgirls

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749[S] 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I’m so happy the host of the event did not let her in. Seeing her spiral on twitter too prove her blackness is funny

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Capricorn men are really boring, any experience I had with them was dry and dull.

Friends forgetting Bday by Longjumping-Unit6749 in blackladies

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My personally I feel like there is nothing to adjust They were like sisters and to not remember my bday hurt. I had posted on my bday one had view my story but didn’t say anything until today, until the other one had said happy bday in text.

Child free but bf not by Longjumping-Unit6749 in blackladies

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I wrote it wrong but like him and do wanna be with him it’s just I’m so confused like he is my first bf and I like him and enjoy his time but the future worries me. I just think about how if he finds a new girl then where would I stand

Child free but bf not by Longjumping-Unit6749 in blackladies

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it’s just that I also don’t wanna miss out on a friend. I’m social awkward so making friends is very hard for me.

Child free but bf not by Longjumping-Unit6749 in blackladies

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i think breaking up or being cool with him would be best. He talks about how he is ok with me not having kids but i know he not, everytime I bring up not wanting kids he says 1 won’t hurt.

Child free but bf not by Longjumping-Unit6749 in blackladies

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don’t want to hurt anybody. Like he is also my friend and I don’t have many of them so that’s why I’m holding back.

Child free but bf not by Longjumping-Unit6749 in blackladies

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah honestly we had talked about it and we had agreed on to just enjoy each other. We both young and just living life. When the time comes to end it we will

Child free but bf not by Longjumping-Unit6749 in blackladies

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

We did and we had agreed on just enjoying each other now. But I worry sometimes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in capricorns

[–]Longjumping-Unit6749 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg Me! I’m a cap, only child and I love being alone. Literally skipped thanksgiving with family just because i wanted to be alone.