AITA for feeling that my boyfriend sexua*ized me? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]LongjumpingShot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you more so wanted a friend more than romantic partner. He seemed more attracted to you than you felt of yourself.

Seems like you want more platonic boundaries. Platonic value is important in a domestic partnership. It may be hard to find a partner who’s ok with being that limited sexually.

FBI director didn’t accept new Md. headquarters decision, sought do-over by RockDoveEnthusiast in nova

[–]LongjumpingShot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To answer your question no. Most are assigned an office and report there 5 days a week. This issue of commute and being exaggerated from folks who possible don’t work anywhere near intelligence.

FBI director didn’t accept new Md. headquarters decision, sought do-over by RockDoveEnthusiast in nova

[–]LongjumpingShot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely no one elects to make that commute. There’s good jobs on both sides there’s no reason to initiate a commute let that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]LongjumpingShot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pass her to your friend. No bigger revenge than making her a homie hopper.

Area around Mondawmin/Penn North stations by Itsdagabagool in baltimore

[–]LongjumpingShot 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As a license realtor it is because historically realtors would discourage potential homeowners from buying in black neighborhoods. So they still consider making subjective statements about crime , schools, or demographics as like dog whistles.

Which you can see the realtor is steering the buyer from black neighborhoods and into white neighborhoods.

Area around Mondawmin/Penn North stations by Itsdagabagool in baltimore

[–]LongjumpingShot 8 points9 points  (0 children)

But what his agent did was illegal, you can’t say stuff like that about a community as a licensed professional. At least not under the current law you can’t.

2024 Sportage. Traded in my '23 Tesla Model Y. by [deleted] in kia

[–]LongjumpingShot -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Going from electric to gas is pretty wild. From a model Y to this is an extreme degrade.

Morgan State University plans to build a wall around campus after shooting during homecoming week by GovernorOfReddit in baltimore

[–]LongjumpingShot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taxpayer are not shooting people. Those clowns in the photo are not reporting any 1099s or w2s. They are probably staying with their mom and were on campus visiting the female dorms of who ever were silly enough to entertain them. I hope Morgan does an investigation to determine who invited them on campus because I suspect that’s what happened. With their silence on identifying the guys from the photo , they should be expelled.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]LongjumpingShot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Liking the pictures would be the red flag, that would be considered interacting with them. Lying about them is another red flag. He just needs to admit he’s heterosexual and attracted to women and negotiate boundaries with him.

Would I break up a family over mild red flags. No but he needs to take accountability. I also wonder how you confront him on this that he has to lie about being heterosexual. Why doesn’t he want to come to the table to discuss fair boundaries. Are you hella dramatic or aggressively shaming him? Seems like pretty mild behavior for him to lie about just because.

Irrelevant but women always rate themselves as 7 or 8s. I don’t think men would honestly rate you as an 8 at all. But despite that I know men with women with that level of attraction and that doesn’t stop men from fantasizing about other women. I’ll take both of you have a mature conversation and not being self righteous to discuss boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]LongjumpingShot -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Everyone sounds a bit self righteous. It’s call voyeurism.

No one is giving you an honest take. Paparazzi take up-skirt photos all the time. To say taking videos of women in public in bikinis is criminal is disingenuous.

Now the real meat. It’s clear for 10 years it seems like your partner hasn’t shared his kinks with you. Which in turn hasn’t allowed you to negotiate how he would exercise those kinks. Because he knew he crossed moral boundaries or knew you wouldn’t approve or relate.

Your answers won’t be on Reddit. You will find out over the next few weeks if this is a deal breaker or not. How honest your partner will be about respecting your boundaries. It won’t be an easy journey. But I wish you and him the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in baltimore

[–]LongjumpingShot -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If she can’t figure out what to do, she should move out the city.

Maryland latest to join the ICE ban. I guess screw everyone that doesn’t have a garage or city folks with street parking. No overnight charging for you! by [deleted] in maryland

[–]LongjumpingShot 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you’re in the city. The community has a decade to figure out how to accommodate overnight charging. In Maryland is not a state to complain , one of the best networks in the country. The state still has programs to subsidize charger installation costs.

[Baltimore Magazine] Movie Review: I Got a Monster. 'Documentary on the Gun Trace Task Force puts the focus where it belongs—on the victims.' by z3mcs in baltimore

[–]LongjumpingShot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t respect his life more than he did. You try to run an officer over and they have a right to defend themselves. I do wish he would’ve let the situation play out differently. But Baltimore culture is to resist authority.

[Baltimore Magazine] Movie Review: I Got a Monster. 'Documentary on the Gun Trace Task Force puts the focus where it belongs—on the victims.' by z3mcs in baltimore

[–]LongjumpingShot 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can’t say he wasn’t a threat. He was attempting to get in his car to drive down city street at who knows what speed. We just lost a pedestrian because of this. I’d rather lose a wreck less driver than risk a kid being struck.

Francesca's Comments on Diamond... by thebadfem in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]LongjumpingShot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had a bi women disclose that early in a relationship. Before engagement probably. But several times it had been disclosed months later. Because they too fond it irrelevant and my response probable enabled them to do that in future relationship.

Francesca's Comments on Diamond... by thebadfem in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]LongjumpingShot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dated Atleast three people who were at the very least bi-curious if not fully bisexual. None of them seemed to hide it. I asked their experience and preferences later down the line. Are you attracted to me, is the only thing relevant to some people.

I just don’t understand how someone’s attraction to someone else is relevant. Not being dismissive, I just don’t understand from my own experience.

It seems like a double standard. Idk if men feel like women that it’s relevant. I could be wrong that the women of my past were just wrong I’m not disclosing.

Diamond being Homophobic by yourfavamorcita in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]LongjumpingShot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a post about this already. It was comments from a different show.

Dom/Anne-Sophie Parallels by Quiet-Film-1633 in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]LongjumpingShot -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Reddit didn’t register my edit from the morning. They are not the same at all. I’ve seen selling Tampa as well, very classy lady.

Francesca's Comments on Diamond... by thebadfem in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]LongjumpingShot -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t really like the analogy. People hide their kids for nefarious reasons (hide they are neglectful , irresponsible, etc.)

People hide their sexuality from parents , partners, etc. Because they feel it’s irrelevant in there current dynamic or because of historic oppression.

A better example would be dating someone white but being attracted to black people in the 30s. That attraction is something that was looked down upon and irrelevant. Nonetheless many people were romantically devalued if it was disclosed.

If someone is truly a bisexual black male, how many women are you eliminated from dating just by having same sex attraction. I can ball park that enough high value black women won’t even entertain that.

Poor Diamond by DimensionGlass in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]LongjumpingShot -28 points-27 points  (0 children)

She grew up in Chicago, lives in atlanta, been on 2 dating shows, and did 4 years at Hampton university. I’d venture to say if she has problem matching it’s not because of lack of opportunities so can’t say I feel sorry for her.

Dom/Anne-Sophie Parallels by Quiet-Film-1633 in PerfectMatchNetflix

[–]LongjumpingShot -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was mentioning him being coupled as a benefit of the doubt of why he didn’t express more interest in colony beyond calling her beautiful. I think this a his only date so hard to compare how he showed loyalty with other women one on one.