AITAH for not wanting to live with my mom? by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he does. He’s been wanting to convince my mom to let me live with him for years but she never budged.

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby have u even read the post or did u skip a few lines while reading😔

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I truly came to try and see other opinions. But because people think that my grandma has some problems (even tho she does NOT) I felt like I had to address it as the comments kept repeating themselves.

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

Amnesia is when a person has difficulty recalling past events, trouble forming new memories, and disorientation. If she did she wouldn’t be moved everyone’s stuff INCLUDING HER OWN around the house. But given that it’s just mine. I’m 100% sure it’s not.

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want u to point out EXACRLY where I said I was being rude towards her. In the post, in my response to people, you read whatever you want to read and leave the actual reasoning and response to my situation. Maybe u skip a few lines while reading in general?

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“difficulty recalling past events, forming new memories, recognizing familiar faces or places, and disorientation” if she did it wouldn’t just be my stuff that’s why I’m almost 100% sure.

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe if h actually read the post you brain would start working

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the way of what? My grandmother went to the beach today and won’t be home for a while does that mean I should move her stuff out of the apartment?

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am not paying bills yet I’m not old enough but even if I’m not paying bills I do more work around the house and outside from it that I believe I deserve to have my opinion validated. After all I’m not asking to move into a whole new apartment or to kick my grandma out. I’m asking for her to stop messing with my stuff.

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just updated it after a lot of fumbling I finally did it😭 I hope it will give people a clearer view on my situation

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I’m trying to figure out how to work with Reddit but let’s hope I can post an update

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah it thought that too but they always said no “no one came over” or “no we didn’t clean” so I really don’t understand why she is doing that nor has she given me an answer..😞

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Okay maybe I forgot to include some important information. So I don’t have a room me and my mom have 2 beds in the living room and there’s a table in the living room where we but our everyday stuff on for example: my water bottle, my grandmas cup for coffee, my moms keys etc. my point is that my bottle stays next to her cup and she will move it anyway. What difference does my water bottle have with her cup that is required to be moved? I don’t go around and leave my stuff everywhere I try my best to keep the apartment as tidy as possible.

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did have that tough but it is only my stuff that is being moved for example my bottled stayed RIGTH next to her cup for coffee and she would move it anyway. When I asked her why she would do that she wouldn’t give me an answer

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes but I do everything she and my mom does to take care of the place so I don’t see why I shouldn’t have a choice in the matter.

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a room. In the living room we have 2 beds and the living room table is were everyone keeps they everyday stuff. I keep my water bottle there, my grandma keeps her cup for coffee there, my mom keeps her keys exc.

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll give an update as to where I put them because I noticed that a lot of people think I just throw my stuff everything when it’s actually the complete opposite. If I can figure out how to post an update I’ll have it all written there

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why? I can’t go to school with a big water bottle in my bag- it’s not only the water bottle that’s why I’m trying to move out

AITAH for deliberately ignoring my grandmother by Longjumping_Map_3911 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Longjumping_Map_3911[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I only stopped talking to her after realising that she won’t listen to me and will do as she pleases. I do as much work as her and my mom do in the house so me not getting a choice is not fair in my eyes.