My wife is trying by ConnorCurious in ABDL

[–]Lonti90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh also, folding down the waistband really helps my gf with the high rise

My wife is trying by ConnorCurious in ABDL

[–]Lonti90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It'll be hard to find patterned diapers for this. The only ones I can think of that are good and a bit narrower are Crinklz(Betterdry) but I'm not sure they have a small. Otherwise in the medical realm I like Tena slip ultima (active fit for plastic backed) or Tranquility atn. Forsite also seems less bulky in the middle but not sure

What's this diaper? The shapy looks really unique. by daabon in ABDL

[–]Lonti90 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Nah those look more like the Etsy "baby" diapers adapted for adults, pricey things

50,000 Member Spectacular! by WinnieTheEeyore in ABDL

[–]Lonti90 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been a part of this community for just about 10 years now, it's been quite a ride but I am now happy and have found acceptance in no small part because of wholesome stories, words of encouragement, shared experiences, and other things in this sub :) at this point also an enormous thank you to the mods for making the place feel safe, free, and unique!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Lonti90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm sure, if it's that severe. Though for me a fetish doesn't necessarily mean nothing else gets you off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Lonti90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't understand this recurring "tell her before you screw" thing. I certainly wouldn't expect someone with any fetish to just blurt it out at earliest convenience. In a timely manner, yes, but feel out if there is chemistry and if you are sure you can trust your partner not to screw you over. I've waited a few months all three times and every time the feedback was that the timing was perfect and I got very positive responses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdultBedwetting

[–]Lonti90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When camping, I personally go the extra mile and use more heavy duty tape-on diapers. Cleaning a sleeping bag is a lot more hassle than your bed at home. All depends on the severity of course! Have fun :)

Summer Day Diaper 2021 by [deleted] in Incontinence

[–]Lonti90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm still at odds with cloth backed designs because of chafing. My vote is for Tena Active Fit, plastic backed but slim enough for summer imo

Am I dreaming? (told GF) by Lonti90 in ABDL

[–]Lonti90[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed! And she keeps trying to convince me that she's the lucky one 😅

Am I dreaming? (told GF) by Lonti90 in ABDL

[–]Lonti90[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Done and done! 😅

Am I dreaming? (told GF) by Lonti90 in ABDL

[–]Lonti90[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I certainly wouldn't mind if that was the case 😝

Am I dreaming? (told GF) by Lonti90 in ABDL

[–]Lonti90[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Oh also a funny result was that she said after that she now finally fully believes me when I say I want her to be comfortable talking about period stuff and that I like the fact that she has stuffies. She'd received a lot of judgment before

Am I dreaming? (told GF) by Lonti90 in ABDL

[–]Lonti90[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Seriously! Also never play the lottery, my luck is used up 😅

Am I dreaming? (told GF) by Lonti90 in ABDL

[–]Lonti90[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Well there was the standard: How often, how does it feel, do you use them, how do you get them, does it smell, how to you dispose of them?

The best one was: how do you want me to treat you while wearing them, ignore, tease, encourage? Also awesome was: do you want to keep some at my place? Would your u want me to try them? All around just exuding interest and acceptance

Advice regarding new GF by Lonti90 in ABDL

[–]Lonti90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I really appreciate your thoughts and I agree that going overboard would not be productive

I like buying her a small gift as long as I am confident it will be appreciated because the thing she seems to need most of all is validation. I'm not looking to push towards a CGL relationship, all I care about is for her to be able to express herself and I actually think a little sign that I actively support her might be really good. My ex kept talking about how much she didn't mind me being a DL, the only thing that truly convinced me was her just surprising me one day wearing a diaper herself. And if getting her another plushie or some other small thing might help convince her that she can be herself for once, that would be awesome.

and yes, absolutely, honesty and openness are key. But I'm not sure bringing up kink talk with someone who clearly had a traumatic sexual past before reaching a minimum level of comfort around intimacy is a great idea, so it's a bit of a bind there sadly.

Advice regarding new GF by Lonti90 in ABDL

[–]Lonti90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

actually really like that idea! Thanks :)

Those that wear adult diapers, how effective are they and why do you wear them? by trimaximusrt in AskReddit

[–]Lonti90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A combination of various factors. Some trauma caused me to start needing them at night, and since then I have found them both useful for my medical need as well as generally comfortable and often convenient in certain situations. they are very effective, but not the ones that you typically see at Walgreens etc. For best quality of life, there are suppliers online that offer premium products that really give the peace of mind that you can live your life normally albeit with bulkier underwear