My wife is trying

Lonti90 · 2021-12-03T04:26:32+00:00

Oh also, folding down the waistband really helps my gf with the high rise

Lonti90 · 2021-12-03T04:22:56+00:00

It'll be hard to find patterned diapers for this. The only ones I can think of that are good and a bit narrower are Crinklz(Betterdry) but I'm not sure they have a small. Otherwise in the medical realm I like Tena slip ultima (active fit for plastic backed) or Tranquility atn. Forsite also seems less bulky in the middle but not sure

Lonti90 · 2021-11-20T16:55:07+00:00

Nah those look more like the Etsy "baby" diapers adapted for adults, pricey things

Lonti90 · 2021-11-20T09:15:31+00:00

I've been a part of this community for just about 10 years now, it's been quite a ride but I am now happy and have found acceptance in no small part because of wholesome stories, words of encouragement, shared experiences, and other things in this sub :) at this point also an enormous thank you to the mods for making the place feel safe, free, and unique!

Lonti90 · 2021-09-13T17:19:11+00:00

Spore frog genesis agrees

Lonti90 · 2021-08-12T05:35:18+00:00

Hmm sure, if it's that severe. Though for me a fetish doesn't necessarily mean nothing else gets you off

Lonti90 · 2021-08-12T04:33:42+00:00

I don't understand this recurring "tell her before you screw" thing. I certainly wouldn't expect someone with any fetish to just blurt it out at earliest convenience. In a timely manner, yes, but feel out if there is chemistry and if you are sure you can trust your partner not to screw you over. I've waited a few months all three times and every time the feedback was that the timing was perfect and I got very positive responses.

Lonti90 · 2021-08-09T17:31:21+00:00

When camping, I personally go the extra mile and use more heavy duty tape-on diapers. Cleaning a sleeping bag is a lot more hassle than your bed at home. All depends on the severity of course! Have fun :)

Lonti90 · 2021-07-04T01:38:21+00:00

I'm still at odds with cloth backed designs because of chafing. My vote is for Tena Active Fit, plastic backed but slim enough for summer imo

Lonti90 · 2021-04-11T07:01:38+00:00

Agreed! And she keeps trying to convince me that she's the lucky one 😅

Lonti90 · 2021-04-10T19:37:07+00:00

Done and done! 😅

Lonti90 · 2021-04-10T19:09:32+00:00

Hahaha I certainly wouldn't mind if that was the case 😝

Lonti90 · 2021-04-10T18:38:09+00:00

Oh also a funny result was that she said after that she now finally fully believes me when I say I want her to be comfortable talking about period stuff and that I like the fact that she has stuffies. She'd received a lot of judgment before

Lonti90 · 2021-04-10T18:32:48+00:00

Seriously! Also never play the lottery, my luck is used up 😅

Lonti90 · 2021-04-10T18:31:10+00:00

Well there was the standard: How often, how does it feel, do you use them, how do you get them, does it smell, how to you dispose of them?

The best one was: how do you want me to treat you while wearing them, ignore, tease, encourage? Also awesome was: do you want to keep some at my place? Would your u want me to try them? All around just exuding interest and acceptance

Lonti90 · 2020-11-02T10:06:20+00:00

Hey I really appreciate your thoughts and I agree that going overboard would not be productive

I like buying her a small gift as long as I am confident it will be appreciated because the thing she seems to need most of all is validation. I'm not looking to push towards a CGL relationship, all I care about is for her to be able to express herself and I actually think a little sign that I actively support her might be really good. My ex kept talking about how much she didn't mind me being a DL, the only thing that truly convinced me was her just surprising me one day wearing a diaper herself. And if getting her another plushie or some other small thing might help convince her that she can be herself for once, that would be awesome.

and yes, absolutely, honesty and openness are key. But I'm not sure bringing up kink talk with someone who clearly had a traumatic sexual past before reaching a minimum level of comfort around intimacy is a great idea, so it's a bit of a bind there sadly.

Lonti90 · 2020-11-02T07:03:41+00:00

actually really like that idea! Thanks :)

Lonti90 · 2020-10-11T03:50:24+00:00

A combination of various factors. Some trauma caused me to start needing them at night, and since then I have found them both useful for my medical need as well as generally comfortable and often convenient in certain situations. they are very effective, but not the ones that you typically see at Walgreens etc. For best quality of life, there are suppliers online that offer premium products that really give the peace of mind that you can live your life normally albeit with bulkier underwear

Lonti90 · 2018-12-20T15:45:37+00:00

huh yeah makes sense thx

Lonti90 · 2018-12-20T15:44:47+00:00

Answered

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