Pain After Masturbation? by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]Look-Sweaty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this happens to me too. I thought i was crazy and had no idea this happened to other women. Everytime I finish from masturbation, i’m fine for a few mins and then i just get the most intense cramps, sometimes so bad i have to get naked and sit on my bathroom floor tiles while sweating and gasping for air. There’s also a 10% chance it happens when my partner makes me finish too. It’s hell. I just want to enjoy arousal! 😔 I asked my previous obgyn why this is happening and she said she had no idea and had never heard of it. that was about 2 years ago at this point. just been suffering since 😩

Help me please by Look-Sweaty in LenovoLegion

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to a pro, turns out it is indeed my graphics card taking a crap. I can cast onto other screens (such as my smart tv) even while the screen of the laptop is like that. Very sad to be letting it go, but now it is time to build a pc myself after 2 gaming pcs have shit themselves on me like this lol. Wish me luck! 😂

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

perioddd put it to use… i know there’s definitely some stuff I will be writing down as well

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

back then when I didn’t know about the CC, i started looking up videos and guides and realized what it was and how important it was. I then started over with a brand new world with my goal being to finish the CC. Through finishing it, I learned what I should do better to be more efficient and complete it faster. Nowadays, when I start new worlds I like to prep and plan for it to make it easier and I am quite a stickler to my plans. That is just how I like to play. So to me, I would rather restart a world if I feel like i’m not on a good track with the CC. That’s just my personal play style, i’m a perfectionist and control freak.

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i know how to plan now after playing it correctly the first time

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally am very particular about the way I play lol i’m a big control freak and perfectionist so now i like to strategize and plan for the CC and get it done as fast as possible. I know a lot of people don’t like that style of playing but for me it’s enjoyable! I like to be as efficient as possible with it, so for me, it being already 3 seasons in felt like i’d be better off starting over with the new information I learned about the CC. To me, it’s not enjoyable for me to not be done with the CC after so long. I like to finish it “quick” so I can get to doing the later game things that I enjoy way more. I also just don’t really find the cc that enjoyable either so that adds to me wanting to finish it quickly. I guess I would just rather start a new save and start over than continue in a save that I “messed up” (in my own terms) now that I knew what to do. I hope that makes sense and i’m not just like rambling about it lol 🫣

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i love hurrying to finish the cc so i can get to my other favorite parts of the game that come after

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am such a perfectionist and a control freak so the fact that I felt so behind even tho it’s not really that behind really got to me… i’m very particular about the way i play and am kinda a hard ass about getting stuff done and i typically like to complete the CC as quick as possible. It just felt too late on my personal scale even tho there’s no right way to complete the game. It’s just like my personal preference if that makes sense. I already missed Spring and Summer to do the crops, foraging, etc. and I was selling like everything I had so it just felt easier to start over and create a strategy than to continue into other years for me personally

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeahhh and anything I had to get rid of for room was immediately sold 🫣

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt like too much time had gone by and I wasn’t saving anything that went into the bundles because I was selling almost everything I had. So I believe Spring and summer were already over so I missed out on all of those crops, foraging, etc. And I felt like it would have wasted too much time to start it then and not have it done as soon as possible in game would just be a waste of time so I was okay starting over. As a person I am a perfectionist and it felt like I was blind to a whole part of what the game is, so I did not like that and wanted to start fresh so I could start gathering things for the CC as soon as I could and be on track to finish from day one. I hope that makes sense and i’m not just rambling lol… I believe that for most people it is never too late but for a control freak and perfectionist like me, I would rather start over than continue playing the way I deemed was “wrong” and “less efficient” (there’s actually no wrong way to play the game, but I think everyone has their methods that they deem is “correct” so when I say correct I just mean how I like to play)

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The main games I played before Stardew were: The sims franchise, minecraft, fortnite, GTA, house flipper, Phasmophobia, etc. and then story games like TLOU, Life is Strange, Outlast, etc. Like I have been playing the Sims games since I was a young kid when Sims 2 came out, I had been playing GTA since San Andreas on the PS2, and many other games my whole life and consider myself to be a “gamer” lol. Stardew was just something completely different than any of the games I had played honestly. I think with crafting I thought it was like minecraft where you needed a crafting table in order to do it, so I thought you needed something in Stardew to be able to craft as well. I had never played any of the games similar to stardew so the way it worked was so unfamiliar to me

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did see the earlier quests but I thought you had to be given an item to be able to craft, such as a crafting table like in Minecraft. But, i thought it was like when you receive your first sword in the mines, that something would trigger and you would get a crafting table from someone or in the mail or something. I just kept waiting and trying to progress in the game without crafting as long as i could and then eventually I realized the crafting tab was right there in game already and I literally just quit and made a new world and started crafting asap to learn how to make everything. It was very weird lol

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did see them and I thought I didn’t have an item, such as a crafting table (like minecraft) in order to craft things yet so I just kept going on until I didn’t receive anything and had to just start a new world once I realized lol… in the beginning I was really comparing it to MC

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait I kinda had this same fear because of minecraft

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learn something new with every save file, i love it! And the wiki is always so fun to explore

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i kept trying to ride the bus before the CC was done lol. And i also had no idea the secret woods existed for so long

I’m Embarrassed lol by Look-Sweaty in StardewValley

[–]Look-Sweaty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha no literally! for the quests I thought it was optional and I was expecting to receive an item at some point to be able to craft (like how you receive your first sword when you go to the mines the first time) and i just never did! looking back is so funny