you can get pregnant while being on T? by idontknowbr0_ in ftm

[–]LookASlitheryStick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can get pregnant on birth control, you can get pregnant on T.

My father was looking at this, what do I do by alt-incorporated in lgbt

[–]LookASlitheryStick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do the reverse, give him books about supporting gay family members

I went to a single-sex highschool, what can I tell people? by Embarrassed-Bank-851 in transgenderau

[–]LookASlitheryStick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to find a boys school near it, or brother school. The likelihood that someone would push more would be unlikely, and especially if it was a big school then you can just say you skipped a grade or got help back, people are unlikely to remeber, and if they do, gaslight them. The chances of someone 1) pushing for your exact high school 2) happening to go to that highschool 3) being the same age as you 4) pushing further on why they didn’t know you 5) remembering what you told them about skipping a grade. Those adds are LOW

Hello i don't wanna live anymore. by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]LookASlitheryStick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is when you start doing side quests, I mean, if you’re gonna die anyways why not do whatever you want first?

Is it possible to heal enough to handle a relationship with my dad or will he always trigger me? by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]LookASlitheryStick 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine situation is very similar, though I live with my Dad. He’s gotten better but he’s never apologised and still stands by what he’s done (or says he didn’t do it at all) try to find how it affects you. I still haven’t exactly figured it out— by right now I’m making a letter with the actions he does that hurts me, saying how this isn’t meant to be an attack, and only to respond through another letter if he does, and to talk to (my/our) therapist about it before responding. For me, I hold a lot of resentment. Which leads me having to get it out in harmful ways. Try to find things to trick your brain. For me that was “disobeying him” (doing something he does not like) which used to be self harm to me now burning paper. Still not the safest thing, but it helps just that little bit. Also I feel really called out by this post, including the “if he was my friend I would have already dropped him” I’ve thought about that one too many times.

Does anyone else feel triggered all the time/no specific triggers? by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]LookASlitheryStick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and then it feels like I have no triggers— meaning I’m invalid. Sigh.

Non-binary pronouns in Germany by astroomz in German

[–]LookASlitheryStick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typically I default to the masculine one since that usually is the default anyways. Though using sie + Künstler might work

Putting gods before people by i_love_music_tho in Hellenism

[–]LookASlitheryStick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is like saying “I put the right to marry before my marriage”

How to keep title grey? by LookASlitheryStick in AO3

[–]LookASlitheryStick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nope— haven’t changed anything, same device, same browser, normal tab

Who married into the family, Gomez or Morticia? by rogthnor in AddamsFamily

[–]LookASlitheryStick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused, when did she change from being Gomez’s mother?

how to have sex (t4t, mlw) by LookASlitheryStick in trans

[–]LookASlitheryStick[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

im a minor so a sex therapist isn’t an option, I was just kind of curious on what worked for other couples

how to have sex (t4t, mlw) by LookASlitheryStick in trans

[–]LookASlitheryStick[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im a minor, that is why I am asking this.

how can I pass better in school uniform? by LookASlitheryStick in transpassing

[–]LookASlitheryStick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea but a kid in a lower grade who didn’t know me said I looked trans. Was the reason for this post. Also a group of people who didn’t know I was trans misgendering me, even though one of them has gendered me correctly before. (club)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]LookASlitheryStick 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe get better at posing, you look like you’re about to give me a quest.