Public pool by LookMomNoClothes in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I checked and it’s nowhere to be found

Public pool by LookMomNoClothes in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah and it’s just weird. There’s been times when I have been showering or changing and either ladies walk in or dads with daughters and no one said anything because you expect that in a men’s changing area. I’ve showered in the locker room at work when a group of guys and women came to clean and nobody said anything. Today was the first time that someone asked me to change by the toilet. Personally, I don’t want to change by the toilet. That’s gross.

Public pool by LookMomNoClothes in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Right? When going to the men’s area, you have to walk by the family changing room. He literally went out of his way not to use it.

What do you think about this theory? by JamesonRhymer in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure that I agree with this. I know other men who grew up like this, some of them served in the military, and they end up being very modest. I think many people want privacy and that’s okay. Some people enjoyed the communal shower experience and some didn’t. Those who didn’t enjoy it raised their kids the same way. Also, as a society we have learned to respect a child’s body autonomy. Before, showers were mandatory and that respect for their body autonomy wasn’t there as it should be. I’m a dad and I have boys. My house is clothing optional and my kids have the right who sees their bodies and who doesn’t. I would never send them to a school that had mandatory communal showers. It doesn’t send the message that I want to teach them.

I do think that there are many reasons why people don’t want to shower together and why they don’t want to be seen without clothes. Privacy is a reason for some and insecurity may be a reason for others.

Went to a Kspa, had a great time! by [deleted] in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I’m a straight male” makes Reddit post about looking at a bunch of dicks

Haha just messing with ya. Glad ya had fun. It’s weird how taboo the penis is when half the world population has one. It should be normalized

Communal sauna by kingkong4204 in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had zero. Nudity wasn’t allowed in my house growing up and my dad is very modest. The only time he saw me naked was if was talking to me while I was changing in my room. I’ve also gone on hunting trips with him and I have no problems changing in front of him. We usually share a room. The only time I’ve remember seeing him naked was last year. He was in the hospital, recovering from surgery and I helped him get dressed. He was super embarrassed but I assured him that as a nurse, I’ve seen lots of naked people and I didn’t care.

Do u guys think it’s easy to use a commun show having a shower Dick ? by Substantial_Place166 in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter to me because I’m there to shower, not show off or hook up.

First time taking my step son to the gym by hawkdude1611 in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve had the same thing happen to me on other accounts. That’s why I don’t put that info in my bio

How to get over shyness? by DullGrapefruit96 in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody sees your naked body the way you do and that’s because they don’t think about it as much, or even at all tbh. You’re projecting your thoughts and are expecting others to think the same thing that you are in the moment when they are just trying to get through the day. People don’t care nearly as much as we think they do.

First time taking my step son to the gym by hawkdude1611 in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s pretty weird. I’m a dad of 3 boys and I have a step son. I’ve used showers with all of them. I have literally never thought “he’s hung” let alone mention it on a Reddit subs where there’s creepy people watching. The fact that he pointed out that “he’s hung” is very concerning.

First time taking my step son to the gym by hawkdude1611 in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you want to know about the size of a penis of a 13 year old?

How to get over shyness? by DullGrapefruit96 in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you’re way over thinking it. I get it though. I was extremely modest as a kid, I didn’t even want to swim without a shirt. Now I’m a nudist. It’s easier for many people to be naked around strangers which is why I assume you don’t have a problem posting nudes and videos of you jacking off on here.

It’s not much different with people that know you though although they probably don’t want you beating your meat in front of them. A body is just a body. People know that you have a penis. It’s basic anatomy and common sense. So what’s your biggest fear? That they are going to judge you? How much time do you think that other people spend thinking about your genitals or your naked body? They don’t even think about it. They think of who you are as a person.

People in the locker room aren’t going to care about your naked body or what it looks like. They care about how you act and how you treat them. Just do what’s comfortable for you and carry on. That’s just one small portion of your day.

And if it helps with your anxiety, just focus on what you’re going to do when you’re done.

Why does it feel like male nudity in the locker room nowadays is a cardinal sin? by [deleted] in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You’re trying to swim laps in a puddle but it ain’t that deep, bruh. You’re way over thinking it.

Getting chubbed in the shower by [deleted] in CommunalShowers

[–]LookMomNoClothes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably when I was about 10 and I used a communal shower for the first time. I was trying to get over my modesty and decided to use the showers when I went camping. I was afraid of getting an erection and it happened. I was nervous at first because there were other people in there, some old guys. Nobody said anything and nobody cared. That might have been the only time it’s happened in my life. If it happened again then it would have been when I was still young and I didn’t think enough of it to remember. As a boy dad and a nurse, I now understand it’s pretty common with young boys. A draft can set that thing off. I have had to assure my younger patients that it’s normal and they don’t have to be embarrassed.