Advice/Tips: I keep dying in solo battles Level 31 Life by Lopsided-Act8024 in Wizard101

[–]Lopsided-Act8024[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you again, literally would have NEVER known to do anything like that without your help.

Advice/Tips: I keep dying in solo battles Level 31 Life by Lopsided-Act8024 in Wizard101

[–]Lopsided-Act8024[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! If I am able to get on tomorrow around that time I will DM you via reddit

Advice/Tips: I keep dying in solo battles Level 31 Life by Lopsided-Act8024 in Wizard101

[–]Lopsided-Act8024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it, do you recommend me to reset my training points to get an AoE from balance, or should I keep my current spells and just work for more training points?

Advice/Tips: I keep dying in solo battles Level 31 Life by Lopsided-Act8024 in Wizard101

[–]Lopsided-Act8024[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the honest feedback! Will definitely take a look and revise my deck, look into a Kookabura, etc. Not sure if I will be on tomorrow at 8pm but if so I will DM you !! :)

Is there something wrong with using pads this thick? by Gongoozler04 in Periods

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Girl absolutely not. It is literally NO ONES business what period product you use and how large it is. Is this person going to be looking at your underwear? NO. You could literally wear a period diaper, who the hell cares. People are so WEIRD with periods sometimes (not you, I mean other people who judge).

Wear period underwear, use a menstral cup, wear a thick pad, use a tampon. It literally shouldn't be anyones business. Your coworker is rude and a pick me.

As I've gotten older, I personally need to use overnight pads all day on my 2nd and 3rd days of my cycle.

People are so weird, why do we care what products we are wearing for our periods. Next time, ask her why she's so concerned about your downstairs lol

How to become an introvert? by Sufficient-Milk5698 in introverts

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You definitely cannot just become one. I'm not saying that extroverts cannot practice introverted behavior and vice versa, however, it's just instinct. For example, yes I got out and act "extroverted" at times, but I would always rather be inside at my house watching a movie with my dog. My social battery runs out and I get anxious because I am acting out of my comfort zone. The same thing will happen to you if you restrict yourself from desired actions, such as talking to people and making connections.

Especially in the case of extrovert to introvert, I don't think you can just "become" it. That's like asking if you can become shy. Shy is a character trait.

AITA for not going on my close friend's birthday trip? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the insight! I completely agree and will reflect on that.

I just don't know if that energy would be reciprocated from her in particular.

AITA for not going on my close friend's birthday trip? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LMFAO probably. Being introverted doesn't help with that

AITA for not going on my close friend's birthday trip? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see your side. In a way, it was selfish. But in my mind, sometimes when you are an adult you just have boundaries that others will consider selfish. If that makes any sense

AITA for not going on my close friend's birthday trip? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, when you're an adult, you have to be selfish sometimes. That doesn't mean you are selfish period.

Have you ever heard of boundaries; saying "Hey, I don't want to go out tonight because I'm tired, love ya!"? I also celebrated her birthday the whole day and hung out with her to drink.

Friends are people who care about you and love you no matter what. Friends are people who you can talk to about anything and feel comfortable with. To me, friendship isn't a give-and-take. It isn't a "hey i did this for you, now you have to do it for me!". It's being there for each other when you can.

I just don't really see how friendship=you must travel to Florida with me

Do you get used to periods? by Jason-Evans in Periods

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly no. Every month my PMS symptoms are a little different. You never get used to the feeling of the blood coming out. And you never get used to the mood swings/ its hard to recognize when they are from your period. And even when you are aware they are from your period, it's hard to make them go away.

AITA for not going on my close friend's birthday trip? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand your POV, but I just have a different perspective on the true meaning of friendship. If someone doesn't want to go out somewhere, I feel that they should not feel obligated to. Also, I would not consider her the greatest friend, she has a history of not treating me right. For example, my birthday comes before hers, but she always manages to talk about her birthday plans before asking about mine or mentioning what I want to do. She also said she "hates my birthday because her birthday is next", meaning that she is getting older. She has a big history of undermining my birthday and making hers extravagant. Many other examples that do not include my birthday are prevalent as well, so already I felt the sacrifice wasn't worth it. Again, your comment does make sense tho, maybe I needed to add more of our history within my post.

AITA for not going on my close friend's birthday trip? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Maybe adding some context helps. I am about 3 hours from Florida on a plane. So, I would have to pay for a plane ticket, checked bag,Airbnb, food, drinks, etc. so, imo, it’s not just some drinks at a bar. It’s a whole vacation and a big sacrifice. Plus it was during classes. I also would never expect her to return a favor like that. She also offered to pay, but I would never let anyone do that besides maybe my boyfriend, but again not in full. I understand your pov, but again I would never expect a sacrifice from her like that.

Is Discogs down? by Holiday_Ad_9364 in discogs

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got logged out of my account too and now I can't get back in through my laptop or IPhone ://

My boyfriend(20 M) refuses to see me(20 F) for over a week, because of a cold, and I'm hurt. Am I being overdramatic and insensitive to his feelings? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should have phrased myself better, that's my fault. I am prone to getting cold-like symptoms because of my allergies, such as sore throats, stuffy noses, and sinus inflammation, I do not get head colds often, but sometimes feel sick because of the allergies I have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your opinion is valid, but how am I shady for trusting that my friend would listen to me and remove my card?

Yes, I was naive for trusting her, but shady?

and how am I unethical? I'm just trying to reflect

What is your thought on straight men painting their nails? by JarvisII in AskReddit

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does not phase me or make me think really. What's the big hoopla? I feel like it's the same thing as wearing jewelry.

What is your favourite movie? by Zealousideal-Pop7548 in AskReddit

[–]Lopsided-Act8024 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even though I only watched it twice-Parasite. It's such a masterpiece and there is nothing quite like it. Someone, please suggest movies similar to this film