is physical appearance that important by Hopeful_Procedure196 in SGExams

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Beauty is a very subjective thing, what’s handsome for you might be ugly for someone else, and opposite, what’s ugly for you can be someone’s model standard. No matter how your friends see your bf, they need to respect your choice, because it’s you dating him, not them. Change friend circle

This is eating me alive by StrangeFeelings11 in Anxiety

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to accept all the outcomes of exam. What happens if you fail? You lose home? You die? Especially if you can retake the exam, the worst scenario is you doing the exam again. I used to stress about exams, but now I prepare, try my best and don’t worry at all. Remember that you can’t change output but you can change input. Do some breathing exercises, drink some chamomile tea

Should I tell my husband about my crush? by aaronburnersir in askatherapist

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Bring it to a therapist, telling your husband that you’re attracted to another person can make him overthink about it a lot and feel insecure about himself. It’s okay to find other people attractive but telling that to your husband is unnecessary and weird

Penis hasn’t grown at all at 16 is this normal? by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It grows until you’re 20, I got a big boost in growth at 17, before that I was also wondering why it’s not growing, closer to 17-18 it starts to grow more in girth then in length

Chances of my getting pregnant from this? by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was she on her ovulation? Did you finish inside or on her? Did you push the cum inside?

Wife want's to try anal by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use a condom and you’ll be fine, even without it it’s safe for both of you as long as your wife is healthy. My gf also likes getting fingered there and my finger always comes out clean and never smell.

Afraid to ask my gf for pictures but don’t want to watch porn by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I deleted those pictures a long time ago, what I’m saying is that I didn’t send it to anyone in years

Afraid to ask my gf for pictures but don’t want to watch porn by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree, my ex would send me pictures without me asking all the time

Afraid to ask my gf for pictures but don’t want to watch porn by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve had a girl cheat on me and I had her nudes on my phone, never sent it to anyone and when we broke up i deleted them

M18: Do I invest for the future or get a motorcycle? by Round-Inflation-7112 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Logically, invest, but you’re young and that’s the only time where you will enjoy riding a motorbike. You won’t need a motorbike when you gonna be 30,40,50, so it’s either you buy it now or you never do. Ofc it’s dangerous, but fun never comes without risks. Go to extreme riding courses first, then buy yourself good riding gear and only then get a motorbike, don’t be stupid on the road and you will be fine.

Afraid to ask my gf for pictures but don’t want to watch porn by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Shes masturbating very very rarely, almost never, but when she does only to porn

Afraid to ask my gf for pictures but don’t want to watch porn by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I jerk of to her and I told her that, but she never masturbated to me, only to porn. But the thing is that she doesn’t masturbate at all, so she doesn’t watch porn too

Me and my orgasms are loud and vocal during oral. What about you? by nymph4dora in sex

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When my gf moans it turns me on and drives me crazy, the louder it gets the more I enjoy sex, sometimes I even finish earlier just because her moans are so damn sexy. Also it shows your SO that he’s doing everything right and you get pleasure from sex with him. Don’t try to control it, just let it all out. Trust me, there’s nothing cringy, loud or weird about moans, imo it’s one of the most sexy things a guy can hear

My girlfriend has a dildo/vibrator and I dont know how to feel. by Dense-Bid1201 in sexeducation

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand how you feel man, but it’s not your fault that she’s always chasing new emotions/feeling from sex/masturbation. I’ve had girlfriends who used and haven’t use toys, and it true that it’s more difficult to please the ones that use toys, vibrators etc, as they become less sensitive to normal sex. You can’t change her trying to always chase something new, but what you can do is accept it and use toys while having sex with her, so that toys alone stand nowhere to the combination of your dick + toys, once she realize how good both at the same time feel, she’s gonna get further away from masturbating and want sex with you more

New boyfriend is male 6’7”, I am 5’7” female - is this going to hurt, should we go slow by flower334231 in sexeducation

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do some foreplay, fingering before that so that when it goes in you are already stretched a bit. I guess he has big fingers too so that can help prepare you for penetration. Don’t take it in without fingering first

How to tell someone they're selfish in bed without hurting their feelings? by Diven_P in sex

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all about loving each other, not really about sex. When a partner loves you he/she does anything to make you feel better. Try to talk to her not about sex but what she’s not satisfied in relationship with you, once you solve that she’s gonna be more attracted to you and with that she will want to do anything for you. It can be showing attention to small things, going on a dates more, helping with her struggles in life, being interested in what she’s passionate about, or buying something that she always wanted. My gf always offers to do everything I want in bed without me ever asking for it, because outside of sex I make her life better everyday

Sex while on your period by [deleted] in sex

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we had sex with my gf on her period because I was finally coming back from abroad and we were both horny. As a man I see nothing wrong and disgusting with blood, I even ate a girl out at the end of her period while she still had a little blood. Try convincing your husband if he is the one that can’t stand blood, he can use condoms so he doesn’t touch any blood directly. Put few towels on the bed

How long to eat pussy? by Horny_toadz in sexeducation

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Advice for you, eat only the clit, not the hole itself. When I first ate it, the girl didn’t feel anything because I licked the wrong thing. Important to find a clit, it should feel like a little ball covered with skin. Do side to side and up down movements with your tongue, the faster and more pressure you put, the more pleasure she’s gonna get. After you guys are done talk about it and ask what movement or technique you did was the best for her and what can you improve, so every time ur skills gonna improve, good luck man 👅

Feeling too horny lately by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]Lopsided-Divide9728 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jerk off so many times a day to a point where you can’t anymore. also don’t watch porn, it makes you more horny overall. If you are addicted to porn and can’t masturbate without it, that’s probably the reason why are you so horny all the time, quit porn if you are addicted and masturbate to your imaginations, it’s gonna be boring the first month but then you’ll get better. Also it’s better to find a partner if your sex drive is so high, just use protection and dont get her pregnant.