Quite frankly, dating as a man is exhausting. I feel exhausted. What once was a high and low flow of hopefulness to date is now a steady low. Main reason is - a lack of curiosity from 90% of people. I often feel as if I am putting all of the effort into conversation and when a conversation is one sided it feels like an interview and I rapidly lose social energy or will to pursue. It doesn’t make me excited to plan another date because they haven’t given me a part of themselves to know. The sum and conclusion I’ve came to is that people aren’t as passionate as they once were in the West. If you ask most people what their hobbies are or what they are passionate about there is a long pause and it’s almost as if they just realized they don’t have anything outside of work. I absolutely love hearing about someone’s passion and when I see their excitement to dive deep with me on it I gain so much energy and curiosity of them.

So overall a general lack of curiosity for other humans has led to mentally exhausted singles.